The other day i arranged to meet with a couple for some fun i had seen there pictures on the pc and we had also seen each other via web-cam and everything was good they were a very nice couple and i thought we were going to have a lot of fun anyway they invited me to there house one night and i turned up and was let in given a drink and we had a chat during the course of the chat all the (click) that i had previously had with this couple went and there was no way i was going to have sex with them so i waited for the right moment and toold them that they were a very sexy and nice couple but there was no (click) for me and that i was very sorry but was going to leave. now i could see the looks on there face they had wanted me to strip and get down to the job in hand so to speak but i was just about to leave. i felt so bad on the ride home.
Is there anyway to say thanks but no thanks and not feel bad or should i have just had sex with them not to upset there feelings and then forgot about it.
i have meet with a few couples before and always had a good time iv never lost that (click) before.
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sorry to hear you didn;t have a good meet rik but that happens sometimes. I'm with alidar on this one. I always meet up for a social first, drinks or coffee and see how we 'click'. If we do then we can arrange a future date for a meet. If not, then no harm done.
It's not nice telling someone that the attractions not there enough for you to get your kit off but I'm sure the majority of people wouldn't take it to heart. We can't be perfect for everyone and sometimes it will happen to you too.
More annoying really is when the social goes well, everyone promises to make a further date for a meet then they drop off the edge of the planet
Good luck hunni. Don't let this one incident put you off :thumbup:
It's not nice telling someone that the attractions not there enough for you to get your kit off but I'm sure the majority of people wouldn't take it to heart. We can't be perfect for everyone and sometimes it will happen to you too.
More annoying really is when the social goes well, everyone promises to make a further date for a meet then they drop off the edge of the planet
Good luck hunni. Don't let this one incident put you off :thumbup:
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The other day i arranged to meet with a couple for some fun i had seen there pictures on the pc and we had also seen each other via web-cam and everything was good they were a very nice couple and i thought we were going to have a lot of fun anyway they invited me to there house one night and i turned up and was let in given a drink and we had a chat during the course of the chat all the (click) that i had previously had with this couple went and there was no way i was going to have sex with them so i waited for the right moment and toold them that they were a very sexy and nice couple but there was no (click) for me and that i was very sorry but was going to leave. now i could see the looks on there face they had wanted me to strip and get down to the job in hand so to speak but i was just about to leave. i felt so bad on the ride home.
Is there anyway to say thanks but no thanks and not feel bad or should i have just had sex with them not to upset there feelings and then forgot about it.
i have meet with a few couples before and always had a good time iv never lost that (click) before.
i wouldnt recommend having sex just for the sake of it. Talking from experience it took me a while to get over doing just that and i have vowed to never do it again. Honesty must surely always be the best policy.
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well at lease you did tell them and not just let them down.
this happened to us we spoke on line had a really good chat with them and arrenged to go for a meal to see if we hit it off or not but they didnt reply to sevaral emails we sent to them asking if they where still up for the meet knowing that we ve paided for a babysitter for the night. so on the whole dont feel stesaz
this happened to us we spoke on line had a really good chat with them and arrenged to go for a meal to see if we hit it off or not but they didnt reply to sevaral emails we sent to them asking if they where still up for the meet knowing that we ve paided for a babysitter for the night. so on the whole dont feel stesaz
