OK..so did I miss a meeting or something but been let down last minute by , not one, not two but three meets in two days! Is this normal for anyone else? It appears to be the norm to me
Friday had a date cancelled on the day due to "illness"
Friday , the couple I had arranged to meet over a week ago cancelled because they couldn't get a sitter but only told me when on on the friday
Chatted to a couple in chatroom on fri who arranged a meet for sat but guess what.... cancelled last minute with friends from out of town
I seem to have a natural talent for arranging meets on dates with "women's troubles", sudden deaths, acts of god etc.... does anyone actually meet outside of clubs as their ads would indicate?
do people actually reply to mail received?
Another weekend totally wasted
If you are a genuine and real cple ( or , dont' laugh) single fem who has read this far, do me a favour and look at my "real ad" and get in touch
not sure about anyone else but while chatrooms can be fun, Ijoined the site with the intention of MEETING genuine,like minded folk for relaxed fun
how about you?
joe
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It did to me on tuesday.I was meeting a lady who was playing with hubby`s permission.I was in regular contact with the said lady by text the monday evening i had a text saying i had text her 37 times in a week!So she had changed her mind,now please bear in mind - yes i had text that many times due to my texts and also replying to a rough estimate i received the same amount of the monday evening i had a reply to a text saying meet was off because of the amount of times i had text her! 
Now all i could assume was 1)She had a change of mind,perfectly acceptable.2)She intended to meet.3)She gets her kicks from the build up and does not actually meet. Or. 4)I am a psycho who has been stalking her!! :shock: At the end of the day you have to put it down to experience and move it is worth moving on may i add as i have met some great people and had immense fun here,which is why this site takes up so much of my time and will,i think continue to do `s well worth the disappointments,dont lose heart,All the best in the future. :P
Now all i could assume was 1)She had a change of mind,perfectly acceptable.2)She intended to meet.3)She gets her kicks from the build up and does not actually meet. Or. 4)I am a psycho who has been stalking her!! :shock: At the end of the day you have to put it down to experience and move it is worth moving on may i add as i have met some great people and had immense fun here,which is why this site takes up so much of my time and will,i think continue to do `s well worth the disappointments,dont lose heart,All the best in the future. :P 
Warming the Bed
i have relised that their is alot of time wasters in the"scene of swingers"which makes it hard work wich it should not be cos that defeats the object...lol..xxxfuck knows.. 
Sexlightened
quote..'does anyone actually meet outside of clubs as their ads would indicate?
do people actually reply to mail received?
hiya.
Yes i have meets from this site and have replies to is alot of genuine swingers on here believe take this the wrong way but please dont knock them .ok you get timewasters but couples and single females get let down too u know.
Just move on and put it behind you
do people actually reply to mail received?
hiya.
Yes i have meets from this site and have replies to is alot of genuine swingers on here believe take this the wrong way but please dont knock them .ok you get timewasters but couples and single females get let down too u know.
Just move on and put it behind you
two hundred and twenty views but only three comments? All frome single guys too! is my case closed?
Need I say any more?
Any of the many many couples I've sent long, detailed and individual mails to with contact details, pics etc,,, do feel free to join in?
Should I send one liners and cock shots instead? Come on, you wouldn't have such bad manners in " real life" , so why save it of here? surely it's about chatting to and hopefuly meeeting with like minded folk?
Need I say any more?
Any of the many many couples I've sent long, detailed and individual mails to with contact details, pics etc,,, do feel free to join in?
Should I send one liners and cock shots instead? Come on, you wouldn't have such bad manners in " real life" , so why save it of here? surely it's about chatting to and hopefuly meeeting with like minded folk?
Know what your saying Joe......... but suppose you haven't had many people repy because this has been talked about before, many times, in the cafe area!
Others have had some of the same problems as yourself. Tho, not me
:lol:
Just got to keep going the way you have been!
Good luck :smile:
xanaisx
Others have had some of the same problems as yourself. Tho, not me
:lol: Just got to keep going the way you have been!
Good luck :smile:
xanaisx
Sometimes people get so many PMs, its difficult to reply to them all, sometimes people sign up and then don't access their accounts for weeks (if ever)
a good tip is to see the last time they were on the site before you pm them.
Sometimes people see you are a single male (not wishing any disrespect whatsoever to single males) and that just automatically rules you out.
There are a lot of single guys on the site looking for a meet, and inboxes can get overwhelmed with pms from them, and if people have put that in their profile that they dont want messages from single guys, that could mean that you just get deleted.
Hope you do find what you are looking for, and end up having a good time on the site.
a good tip is to see the last time they were on the site before you pm them.
Sometimes people see you are a single male (not wishing any disrespect whatsoever to single males) and that just automatically rules you out.
There are a lot of single guys on the site looking for a meet, and inboxes can get overwhelmed with pms from them, and if people have put that in their profile that they dont want messages from single guys, that could mean that you just get deleted.
Hope you do find what you are looking for, and end up having a good time on the site.
Sex God
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two hundred and twenty views but only three comments? All frome single guys too! is my case closed?
Need I say any more?
You could mention that people were willing to give you advice via Private Message
Sexlightened
joe
I take it that you are referring to us with the following quote's?????????
"Chatted to a couple in chatroom on fri who arranged a meet for sat but guess what.... cancelled last minute with friends from out of town"........."do people actually reply to mail received?
If I remember right Joe I said I would get back to you B4 4pm regarding meet yes?
I did, and although I was late for which I appologised, I still replied??????
I also asked if you would go dogging? which was originally our plan, yes?
You replied "no don't do dogging" fair enough....
I also asked you in the chat room to just send us a mail so It would be easy for me to reply without having to search for your name etc......??? Let me get 1 thing clear here, I Don't remember asking you to leave yr 4ne number??????
Anything really serious could of happened from when we were chatting friday night to getting back to you saturday afternoon and you still would of posted the thread that u did.
On reply to yr mail I also quoted....
"I will keep yr details & will be intouch. Take care for now"????
You also said in the thread......."If you are a genuine and real cple"............yes we are genuine and a real couple and also never let ppl down, but on this occassion like I said earlier.... "I also asked if you would go dogging? which was originally our plan", yes?, and that I said in my e-mail "we have been waiting for some friends to get back to us about a meet tonight and they have asked us to join them for fun outdoors/doggin, something you don't do.
I (mrs clint) feel quite upset that you posted this thread after my quote at the end of my mail........"I will keep yr details & will be intouch. Take care for now"????
So now I won't keep yr details!
Sorry but if yr going to have a go at couple's in a forum without putting the whole truth then yr not going to have much success.
Mrs Clint!
I take it that you are referring to us with the following quote's?????????
"Chatted to a couple in chatroom on fri who arranged a meet for sat but guess what.... cancelled last minute with friends from out of town"........."do people actually reply to mail received?
If I remember right Joe I said I would get back to you B4 4pm regarding meet yes?
I did, and although I was late for which I appologised, I still replied??????
I also asked if you would go dogging? which was originally our plan, yes?
You replied "no don't do dogging" fair enough....
I also asked you in the chat room to just send us a mail so It would be easy for me to reply without having to search for your name etc......??? Let me get 1 thing clear here, I Don't remember asking you to leave yr 4ne number??????
Anything really serious could of happened from when we were chatting friday night to getting back to you saturday afternoon and you still would of posted the thread that u did.
On reply to yr mail I also quoted....
"I will keep yr details & will be intouch. Take care for now"????
You also said in the thread......."If you are a genuine and real cple"............yes we are genuine and a real couple and also never let ppl down, but on this occassion like I said earlier.... "I also asked if you would go dogging? which was originally our plan", yes?, and that I said in my e-mail "we have been waiting for some friends to get back to us about a meet tonight and they have asked us to join them for fun outdoors/doggin, something you don't do.
I (mrs clint) feel quite upset that you posted this thread after my quote at the end of my mail........"I will keep yr details & will be intouch. Take care for now"????
So now I won't keep yr details!
Sorry but if yr going to have a go at couple's in a forum without putting the whole truth then yr not going to have much success.
Mrs Clint!
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Scousejoe, if memory serves me correctly, you have been whinging about the same issue for at least two years.
Give it a rest, eh
Give it a rest, eh
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Scousejoe, if memory serves me correctly, you have been whinging about the same issue for at least two years.
Give it a rest, eh
he came in NW room last night with the same rant and was given good advice by many expereinced and genuine people but still wouldnt let it drop..
my only advice is the same as i said to him in the chat room last night..suggest he takes 5 and has a break cos obv its getting to him and the constant rants will reduce any chance of success on the site even further..
RWL
whilst i can nderstand an smpathise with this predciment! we ae a genuine couple and DO NOT ime waste! alot of probems can arise for couples as most have children ie Myself and my husband have 4!
they are not the easiest things to dump off! if you have a pet your lucky you can usually leave them on there own with some food and water but ts more complicaed with children!
oh and unfourtunatly women cant always time or control there monthlys and this has let me down in the past never mind people we were supposed to meet with!
i hope that you can find what you are looking for and please dont bang on about couples being time wasters as not all of us are we just live slightly mental lfestyles!
kisses
wendy xx
they are not the easiest things to dump off! if you have a pet your lucky you can usually leave them on there own with some food and water but ts more complicaed with children!
oh and unfourtunatly women cant always time or control there monthlys and this has let me down in the past never mind people we were supposed to meet with!
i hope that you can find what you are looking for and please dont bang on about couples being time wasters as not all of us are we just live slightly mental lfestyles!
kisses
wendy xx
Sex God
Quote by Bobnwendy
whilst i can nderstand an smpathise with this predciment! we ae a genuine couple and DO NOT ime waste! alot of probems can arise for couples as most have children ie Myself and my husband have 4!
they are not the easiest things to dump off! if you have a pet your lucky you can usually leave them on there own with some food and water but ts more complicaed with children!
oh and unfourtunatly women cant always time or control there monthlys and this has let me down in the past never mind people we were supposed to meet with!
i hope that you can find what you are looking for and please dont bang on about couples being time wasters as not all of us are we just live slightly mental lfestyles!
kisses
wendy xx
This is all true.
I have had many good meets off here in the last 3 years, but sometimes things don't go according to plan.
I have had to cancel meets cos I was ill, cos my son was ill, cos of a family berevement, cos I had to work at short notice, cos of lack of transport, cos babysitters have let me down... and those are just a few that I can remember!
It doesn't mean I am not genuine, just that I have a life and responsibilities outside of swinging. As we all do.
People like Joe are annoying cos they bang on and on about their lack of success without taking heed of the MANY genuine people here. People like Joe do reduce their chances by appearing very negative - in fact, as Joe was told TWO - yes TWO - years ago. IMO it is just selfish conduct and really quite boring.
Fair dos, i've been let down too, in all sorts of ocassions. But hey..... get over it!
Sex God
joe.......
It sounds like the only record likely to be broken here is the length of time someone has been whinging on about the same subject....
you were given loads of advice 2 years ago....you have been given loads of advice via pm in fact (i still have the one i sent to you) did you take any of that in..
the "oh woe is me" act is wearing really really thin.... and to drag other people into it is not on....
people were prepared to give you chances and the benefit of the doubt but after two years to appear to have learned absolutely nothing is really quite sad
I doubt that you will come back to this thread and you'll start another one going on about the same subject......
mrs clint.... i am sorry you have been dragged into this, you have been nothing but lovely at the times i have met you both at munches, and i hope that the likes of "joe" have not put you off meeting other people
It sounds like the only record likely to be broken here is the length of time someone has been whinging on about the same subject....
you were given loads of advice 2 years ago....you have been given loads of advice via pm in fact (i still have the one i sent to you) did you take any of that in..
the "oh woe is me" act is wearing really really thin.... and to drag other people into it is not on....
people were prepared to give you chances and the benefit of the doubt but after two years to appear to have learned absolutely nothing is really quite sad
I doubt that you will come back to this thread and you'll start another one going on about the same subject......
mrs clint.... i am sorry you have been dragged into this, you have been nothing but lovely at the times i have met you both at munches, and i hope that the likes of "joe" have not put you off meeting other people
Sexlightened
Quote by fabio
joe.......
It sounds like the only record likely to be broken here is the length of time someone has been whinging on about the same subject....
you were given loads of advice 2 years ago....you have been given loads of advice via pm in fact (i still have the one i sent to you) did you take any of that in..
the "oh woe is me" act is wearing really really thin.... and to drag other people into it is not on....
people were prepared to give you chances and the benefit of the doubt but after two years to appear to have learned absolutely nothing is really quite sad
I doubt that you will come back to this thread and you'll start another one going on about the same subject......
mrs clint.... i am sorry you have been dragged into this, you have been nothing but lovely at the times i have met you both at munches, and i hope that the likes of "joe" have not put you off meeting other people
Thanx for your kind words fabio, and no it hasn't put me off meeting other people it was just annoying that the likes of joe could be so low to condemn people in the way he has.
mrs clint xxxx
ive worked in customer services for some time and my moto is "under promise, over achieve" and this moto seems to work for most tings!
in my opinion if you sit there and moan then expect things to be handed to you on a plate then think again!!
maybe this is why you are having trouble getting a meet or maybe the whole reason you are single!
i am not tryng to attack you but having such a bleak outlook on life is never going to turn a girl on or win her heart!
Dude have fun and make friends if you get your leg over in the process then "WOOOOOO HOOOOOO" made up for you!!
please dont think im being horrible as this is not my intention but please do try and uderstand that a moaning minnie isnt a fun person to be around!
i hope that you eventually reavaluate your prospective on life and enjoy it for what it is!!
not what you expect from people
take care hun xxx
in my opinion if you sit there and moan then expect things to be handed to you on a plate then think again!!
maybe this is why you are having trouble getting a meet or maybe the whole reason you are single!
i am not tryng to attack you but having such a bleak outlook on life is never going to turn a girl on or win her heart!
Dude have fun and make friends if you get your leg over in the process then "WOOOOOO HOOOOOO" made up for you!!
please dont think im being horrible as this is not my intention but please do try and uderstand that a moaning minnie isnt a fun person to be around!
i hope that you eventually reavaluate your prospective on life and enjoy it for what it is!!
not what you expect from people
take care hun xxx
erm,,,
first of all, the posting was about being let down three times in two days? is this acceptable?
discretion would prevent someone naming on a profile but clint, if you want to i/d yourself as sommeone who pulls out at 5pm on the day of a meet? ..be my guest
and blue? first off, nice dress mate! as for your girlfriend? Fabio, I seem to recall you two guys hijacking folks posts with personal abuse two years ago too..funny, some things don't change! eh
as I only send , long polite mails with contact details, pics etc,, to people who advertise for single guys, it may have been nice to hear from some of the people I have chatted with or mailed
i'd never dream of hijacking someone's post with personal abuse , but , then again,,, i'd never think of hanging about in knee boots and a skirt,,maybe that's where I'm going wrong haha
first of all, the posting was about being let down three times in two days? is this acceptable?
discretion would prevent someone naming on a profile but clint, if you want to i/d yourself as sommeone who pulls out at 5pm on the day of a meet? ..be my guest
and blue? first off, nice dress mate! as for your girlfriend? Fabio, I seem to recall you two guys hijacking folks posts with personal abuse two years ago too..funny, some things don't change! eh
as I only send , long polite mails with contact details, pics etc,, to people who advertise for single guys, it may have been nice to hear from some of the people I have chatted with or mailed
i'd never dream of hijacking someone's post with personal abuse , but , then again,,, i'd never think of hanging about in knee boots and a skirt,,maybe that's where I'm going wrong haha
