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Should SH have a birthday party?

Not sure what's more scary.

SH being 20y old. Or the fact its nearly been 19 years since I (jiggle) stumbled across this great site.

Happy birthday SH. Heres to another 20 years. :-)

Oh. And yes we are definitely up for a party if its organised :-)

Quote by Nutty_Jiggle

Not sure what's more scary.

SH being 20y old. Or the fact its nearly been 19 years since I (jiggle) stumbled across this great site.

Happy birthday SH. Heres to another 20 years. :-)

Wow your an OG is there many still here?

I went to the 10th birthday party of the site!
A 20th birthday party sounds like a great idea!

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What a fabulous idea .... but where ?

No idea looking at how far ahead the 10th birthday was organised it might need to be 21st πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

The last one was on a Sunday at Xtasia

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Not sure what's more scary.

SH being 20y old. Or the fact its nearly been 19 years since I (jiggle) stumbled across this great site.

Happy birthday SH. Heres to another 20 years. :-)

those were the days and havent they gone quickly 😈

Sounds good to me! 😁 xx

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What a fabulous idea .... but where ?

The 10th was at Xtasia I remember it well it was me or reminded people it was 10 years.

I see there are some no votes are they No they won’t attend or no don’t have a party?

I'd just like to make a little comment about the SH 10th birthday party.
I was a single guy there and I spoke some of the other single guys who were attending at the time, which included the male half of a couple who decided to walk around my himself as his partner was occupied, and we all had the same experience of getting dirty looks from people. The kind of looks that say "what are YOU doing here?!?" and "you're not welcome here" as we were exploring the club. Even trying to approach couples that I recognised from chat was met with either dirty looks or backs being turned to me. It was not a nice experience. Had I not gone to the event with the couple I'd gone with, I would have left within an hour.
If the 20th birthday party goes ahead could I please ask people to just be kinder to everyone attending?

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I'd just like to make a little comment about the SH 10th birthday party.
I was a single guy there and I spoke some of the other single guys who were attending at the time, which included the male half of a couple who decided to walk around my himself as his partner was occupied, and we all had the same experience of getting dirty looks from people. The kind of looks that say "what are YOU doing here?!?" and "you're not welcome here" as we were exploring the club. Even trying to approach couples that I recognised from chat was met with either dirty looks or backs being turned to me. It was not a nice experience. Had I not gone to the event with the couple I'd gone with, I would have left within an hour.
If the 20th birthday party goes ahead could I please ask people to just be kinder to everyone attending?

Definitely such a good Idea I think we need to find a way to introduce people so they are not going alone. I think it takes so much for a single guy to attend any social I know they never regret it after 10 mins but does take so much.

Quote by tigerstyle2k2

I'd just like to make a little comment about the SH 10th birthday party.
I was a single guy there and I spoke some of the other single guys who were attending at the time, which included the male half of a couple who decided to walk around my himself as his partner was occupied, and we all had the same experience of getting dirty looks from people. The kind of looks that say "what are YOU doing here?!?" and "you're not welcome here" as we were exploring the club. Even trying to approach couples that I recognised from chat was met with either dirty looks or backs being turned to me. It was not a nice experience. Had I not gone to the event with the couple I'd gone with, I would have left within an hour.
If the 20th birthday party goes ahead could I please ask people to just be kinder to everyone attending?

Plenty of couples are looking for single guys so I doubt they'd be thinking like that but, of course, there are those couples who've had bad experiences being pestered by guys so maybe that's accounts for it. One 'dirty look' obviously goes a long way but doesn't necessarily reflect the view of a majority of attendees and wouldn't necessarily be levelled at every single guy. When we attended SH socials many years ago, we certainly didn't give or get that impression.

Sounds a good idea. Would be up for that

The last one was good but the one before at xstasia was even better

Alas because it was a sunday the day after cov social there was a lot of tired people but still a great evening

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Wow your an OG is there many still here?

There's a few of us. I joined a few months after the site started. There was just over a 1,100 members I think. Met my partner through here and we've been together 17 years!!

Jiggle was the baby of the site if I remember right!!

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Wow your an OG is there many still here?

I do not recall exactly when I joined but must have been around then.

I do feel that the fun and inclusivity was better in the earlier years but that could of course be me 'maturing'πŸ˜•