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Sex God
D - Judy is right in saying that the term "she-male" isn't used by transgendered people in the UK, and is one, I think, only made popular by the porn industry. I took your post to mean that you are looking for a pre-op transsexual? If I'm right, you might get no offers as transitioning TSs do not define themselves as she-males. I think you need to re-define your terminology and make it clear what you are looking for. Otherwise, good luck!
Orgasminator
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she-male
My PC keeps crashing so I have only just been able to get around to replying to this post and personally I find the term She Male degrading
The following Transvestite and Transsexual and taken from some medical dictionary or other.
Transvestite
Adj. : receiving sexual gratification from wearing clothing of the opposite sex n : someone who adopts the dress or manner or sexual role of the opposite sex
For me I am somewhere between these two but near to a transsexual without the overwhelming desirour to change sex, as I know I was born as a female and all these people without the male genitalia were from another planet. I was born with a gene defect called Klinfeltures Syndrome which mean I have more female genes than the so called Normal "Whats normale?" male.
Even though I was born with male genitalia and because of my extra female genes I was always under the ilusion that all females had the same. As a child I was under the ilusion that both male and females from my planet had male genitalia
Transsexual
Adj. : overwhelmingly desirous of being, or completely identifying with, the opposite sex n 1: a person who has undergone a sex change operation 2: a person whose sexual identification is entirely with the opposite sex
Sex God
D - I see you've posted again, asking for a TS. This is fine, but if I were you I would have been a little bit more specific. Someone who identifies as TS might be pre- or post-op, and might be either male to female (MTF) or female to male (FTM). I think you are looking for a pre-op MTF TS?
Sorry to be a nit picker but it is very easy to offend, and also you might attract people you are not looking for if you use the wrong terminology.
If anyone is interested in transgender issues, check out - it's dead good 8) 8) 8)
Sorry to be a nit picker but it is very easy to offend, and also you might attract people you are not looking for if you use the wrong terminology.
If anyone is interested in transgender issues, check out - it's dead good 8) 8) 8)
Orgasminator
A little more from me.
Because of my gene defect I pass as female weather I am in a frock or dressed as a guy.
One weekend I had a couple of str8 female friends to stay at my place and they were looking forward to going out to the pub, so instead of going to the village pub I decided to take them to a gay pub in Stoke on Trent.
As we walked in to this pub, a cry went out by that evenings entertainer a drag queen, Watch Out srt8 women entering, then my two guest were asked if they knew that they were in a gay bar?
The fact that I was in a male suite was taken by this drag queen and most of the customers in the pub as me being a butch lesbian, when I later met the drag queen in the toilets and put her hand on my genitals, it was only then that the penny dropped and she rushed back into the bar to inform everyone that it was not three females but only two.
While living in Reading for 30 years most of my neibours thought I was a female who dressed as a guy, and the few who saw me in a dress as a female took it that I was female. The fact that I did not talk to most of my neibours but kept myself to myself meant that I could carry on the illusion off of being what ever I wanted to be.
Some of us who are Transgender, TV (Transvestite), TS (Transsexual), CD (cross dresser) or what ever we wish to be called, weather it is MTF male to female or FTM female to male just want to be left to get on with our lives and not be degraded by people who are not clued up on what we are, but expect us all to conform to what they think we should be.
Fighting for the rights of people like myself has taken up a lot of my life, as a gay man I was fighting for the rights of people like myself in the early 60's who were not just gay but also considered themselves as female and long before we had Transgendered people who considered themselves as str8, the only thing most people knew about us was that we had to be drag queens because we liked guys and like to dress as females.
What now pisses me off are the people who are pre or post opp TS who slag off gays on gay sites and try to make out that because they are having the sex change then they are Normal but gays who perform anal sex are abnormal, when they should be thanking gays for fighting for the rights of all sexual minorities to have a life of their own, if gays had not fought for the rights of these people in the first place then I doughty if organisations like The Northern Concord or the Bowmont Trust would have got off the ground in the first place.
You see it is not only some of the heterosexual community that think some of us are freaks, but also the gay community and even people within the transgendered community.
From what I have seen in the in my lifetime, where it was illegal for two guy to have sex with each other, to them having rights if they were both over 21, then over 18 and now they can be gay if they are over 16, it is going to take much more time than this for transgendered people to become accepted with the same rights as the rest of the community.
Now I have had a bit more to say about this, I think I should step down off my soap box.
TS
Because of my gene defect I pass as female weather I am in a frock or dressed as a guy.
One weekend I had a couple of str8 female friends to stay at my place and they were looking forward to going out to the pub, so instead of going to the village pub I decided to take them to a gay pub in Stoke on Trent.
As we walked in to this pub, a cry went out by that evenings entertainer a drag queen, Watch Out srt8 women entering, then my two guest were asked if they knew that they were in a gay bar?
The fact that I was in a male suite was taken by this drag queen and most of the customers in the pub as me being a butch lesbian, when I later met the drag queen in the toilets and put her hand on my genitals, it was only then that the penny dropped and she rushed back into the bar to inform everyone that it was not three females but only two.
While living in Reading for 30 years most of my neibours thought I was a female who dressed as a guy, and the few who saw me in a dress as a female took it that I was female. The fact that I did not talk to most of my neibours but kept myself to myself meant that I could carry on the illusion off of being what ever I wanted to be.
Some of us who are Transgender, TV (Transvestite), TS (Transsexual), CD (cross dresser) or what ever we wish to be called, weather it is MTF male to female or FTM female to male just want to be left to get on with our lives and not be degraded by people who are not clued up on what we are, but expect us all to conform to what they think we should be.
Fighting for the rights of people like myself has taken up a lot of my life, as a gay man I was fighting for the rights of people like myself in the early 60's who were not just gay but also considered themselves as female and long before we had Transgendered people who considered themselves as str8, the only thing most people knew about us was that we had to be drag queens because we liked guys and like to dress as females.
What now pisses me off are the people who are pre or post opp TS who slag off gays on gay sites and try to make out that because they are having the sex change then they are Normal but gays who perform anal sex are abnormal, when they should be thanking gays for fighting for the rights of all sexual minorities to have a life of their own, if gays had not fought for the rights of these people in the first place then I doughty if organisations like The Northern Concord or the Bowmont Trust would have got off the ground in the first place.
You see it is not only some of the heterosexual community that think some of us are freaks, but also the gay community and even people within the transgendered community.
From what I have seen in the in my lifetime, where it was illegal for two guy to have sex with each other, to them having rights if they were both over 21, then over 18 and now they can be gay if they are over 16, it is going to take much more time than this for transgendered people to become accepted with the same rights as the rest of the community.
Now I have had a bit more to say about this, I think I should step down off my soap box.
TS
Personally speaking, I consider people to be people - not a specific gender, race,colour or of any religious persuation.
You should treat ALL people as you would wish to be treated yourself, with respect and dignity! ok ok you can lose the dignity bit sometimes - but respect and understanding is crucial.
Muah to you TS
Alex x
You should treat ALL people as you would wish to be treated yourself, with respect and dignity! ok ok you can lose the dignity bit sometimes - but respect and understanding is crucial.
Muah to you TS
Alex x
Sexpert
If only more people shared that attitude, Alex, then the world would be a much better place. 
People shouldnt be squeezed into little boxes (insert smutty comment here), and should be judged on their action and how they relate to and treat others, not on other shallow and basically meaningless factors.
My wife is a size 20 and had been put down and made to feel like a second class citezen for years by her ex-husband - an exercise in power - keeping other people down so they dont see their strength and beauty.
He was the ugly one to need to do that and to treat another person (especially one he married and claimed to love) with such malice.
Btw when I read the title of this thread I thought it was going to be about 80s cartoons, cause it sounds like a cross between He-Man and She-Rah Princess of Power. (ok showing my age now. lol)
People shouldnt be squeezed into little boxes (insert smutty comment here), and should be judged on their action and how they relate to and treat others, not on other shallow and basically meaningless factors.
My wife is a size 20 and had been put down and made to feel like a second class citezen for years by her ex-husband - an exercise in power - keeping other people down so they dont see their strength and beauty.
He was the ugly one to need to do that and to treat another person (especially one he married and claimed to love) with such malice.
Btw when I read the title of this thread I thought it was going to be about 80s cartoons, cause it sounds like a cross between He-Man and She-Rah Princess of Power. (ok showing my age now. lol)
Orgasminator
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My wife is a size 20
Well I am looking for a female friend, who is a size 24 so she can pass on her hand me downs on to me.
So guys do's that let you know what you would be wrestling with?
TS
Orgasminator
Quote by Alexandra
You should treat ALL people as you would wish to be treated yourself, with respect
Well Alexx if we all did then the world would be perfect and leave no room for some one like me, who has not got respect for ppl such as one guy who's grave i would love to piss on.
TS
Orgasminator
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So are there any very sexy pre op mtf bi ts's in here then ? lol
Paul I dought it, 99% of the MTF per or post op ppl i have come in contacy with have been in the transvestite rooms on gay sites.
There again i would be interested in being proven wrong
TS
Sex God
Paul, you're right - subjects like this one always stir up wasps nests!
Although society in general is becoming more tolerant of minorities such as gay men, lesbians and transgenderd people, there are still so many misconceptions and misunderstandings about what transgender (in whatever form) really means. Probably because of the lack of education or positive press about transgender issues people very often use the wrong terminology, and in fact consider terminology such as "she-male" (which triggered off this debate!) to be an acceptable and usual way to address transgender people, although many transgender people are very offended by such terms. Until we have more education about tarnsgender issues, I'm sorry to say that these misunderstandings will continue.
As TS has already said, it is not just heterosexuals that are prejudiced towards transgendered people. Many gay people are equally in the dark about transgender as straight people are, and some don't even want to be associated with the transgendered at all. In gay night clubs you very often see the macho gay boys taking the piss out of the TVs and TSs that are there. Obviously, I'm only talking in very general terms here, but the point I'm making is that transgendered people face oppression from lots of different sectors of society.
I'm very much of the opinion that it really doesn't matter whether someone is gay, lesbian, bisexual or straight, they really don't know what it is like to be transgendered. They might sympathise with the prejudice that the transgendered face, and they might support their transgendered friends where they can they cannot fully understand what it is like. People who have never needed to question their gender identity in any way do not understand what it's like for people that have. Some people might think that they support transgender issues but then will say something that they consider not offensive or well meaning which a transgendered person might feel very sensitive about. It's a very tricky subject to say the least!
Although society in general is becoming more tolerant of minorities such as gay men, lesbians and transgenderd people, there are still so many misconceptions and misunderstandings about what transgender (in whatever form) really means. Probably because of the lack of education or positive press about transgender issues people very often use the wrong terminology, and in fact consider terminology such as "she-male" (which triggered off this debate!) to be an acceptable and usual way to address transgender people, although many transgender people are very offended by such terms. Until we have more education about tarnsgender issues, I'm sorry to say that these misunderstandings will continue.
As TS has already said, it is not just heterosexuals that are prejudiced towards transgendered people. Many gay people are equally in the dark about transgender as straight people are, and some don't even want to be associated with the transgendered at all. In gay night clubs you very often see the macho gay boys taking the piss out of the TVs and TSs that are there. Obviously, I'm only talking in very general terms here, but the point I'm making is that transgendered people face oppression from lots of different sectors of society.
I'm very much of the opinion that it really doesn't matter whether someone is gay, lesbian, bisexual or straight, they really don't know what it is like to be transgendered. They might sympathise with the prejudice that the transgendered face, and they might support their transgendered friends where they can they cannot fully understand what it is like. People who have never needed to question their gender identity in any way do not understand what it's like for people that have. Some people might think that they support transgender issues but then will say something that they consider not offensive or well meaning which a transgendered person might feel very sensitive about. It's a very tricky subject to say the least!
I didn't expect to get any were with that question twisted sister , just trying and failing I think to make a point that there is more than just mtf or ftm ts's theres gay,bi and str8 etc etc
how colourful we all are
Your spot on blue xxx its always lack of education that causes predjudices like this what ever the subject , I myself have to hold my hand up now and say I was once very poorly educated .
which site did you say again twisted sister lol
how colourful we all are
Your spot on blue xxx its always lack of education that causes predjudices like this what ever the subject , I myself have to hold my hand up now and say I was once very poorly educated .
which site did you say again twisted sister lol
Orgasminator
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which site did you say again twisted sister lol
It is quite obvious that you have not look at my www site or you would not have to ask that question.
TS
Orgasminator
Well blue I think Judy, you and myself can step down untill the next person needs educating.
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