Sigh, another newbie alas!!! Same or Different Room Fun?

6 Sep 2005

Hi all. We are a brand new (i know another one) scottish couple who are going to Euphoria in Blackpool to hopefully have our first experience. Our main question is we both appreciate that the first time might be awkward us, and after discussing it, we reckon we would both be more comfortable on the first occassion going back for separate room fun. We then read lots of ad's out of interest, and it seems most cpls want same room fun. Are we weird confused

lol? What did everyon else do on their first time? Any help or hints would be gratefully appreciated. Thanks!

6 Sep 2005

hello and welcome to the site......
the best piece of advice i can give is if you do decide to play then go with whatever makes you feel most comfortable.....obviously you have discussed this with the better half, the main advantage of being in the same room, especially if you are new, is that if either of you feel uncomfortable then you can just say stop there and then...
what did i do for my first time.... i almost bricked it... smile

:) but after the inital 15 minutes in which i was like a bunny caught in the headlights, i worked out that everyone was in fact normal.....
anyway.. hope it goes well for you both, have a blast, stick around the website and when you get better known... ask the delightful lucyweebaps for an invite to the scottish munch at the end of november......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxx

6 Sep 2005

There are no strict rules! (except No means No!)
I'm by no means an expert on this, but i would say just be comfortable with what you do. If that's going to Euphoria to dip your toe in the water, thats fine.
If after you have been, you realised you enjoyed yourselves, then you may want to go back. You may never want to move on from the point you are at, or you may try out new things...
you two are the ones in charge of where you go with it, explore if you want, but always have fun!
Lastly, seeing as you joined today, it isn't too late to change your name.... you are going to cause a lot of confusion with your name!!!! Check out this link>>>
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=18267

6 Sep 2005

Quote by postie
Lastly, seeing as you joined today, it isn't too late to change your name.... you are going to cause a lot of confusion with your name!!!! Check out this link>>>
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=18267

Yeh, better choices would be
Pastie
Pasty
Posty
Pesty
Pestie.....
help yourself :thumbup:

6 Sep 2005

Quote by johneboy
Lastly, seeing as you joined today, it isn't too late to change your name.... you are going to cause a lot of confusion with your name!!!! Check out this link>>>
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=18267

Yeh, better choices would be
Pastie
Pasty
Posty
Pesty
Pestie.....
help yourself :thumbup:
Or, you could use a name that johneboy answers to:
muppet
wombat
numpty
twazzock
purple-headed freak
M2PU's boyfriend.
MCB's love-puppet.
just some ideas ya know :thumbup:

6 Sep 2005

Quote by Marmelade
Hi all. We are a brand new (i know another one) scottish couple who are going to Euphoria in Blackpool to hopefully have our first experience. Our main question is we both appreciate that the first time might be awkward us, and after discussing it, we reckon we would both be more comfortable on the first occassion going back for separate room fun. We then read lots of ad's out of interest, and it seems most cpls want same room fun. Are we weird lol? What did everyon else do on their first time? Any help or hints would be gratefully appreciated. Thanks!

No, you're not weird! I'm happy with either but a lot of people have strong preferences one way or the other.
Euphoria isn't a club I know personally, but looking at the site it seems it has a big advantage that it's a hotel, so you won't have the 'shortage of rooms' problem
I'd maybe suggest that when chatting in a general way with people you make your prefs known early on. A 'the sort of thing we're into' comment can be non-specific just while you're chatting, not necessarily deciding. But then at least you may get an indication of whether other couples you chat to are potentially into the same thing.
Be safe, have fun, enjoy :happy:

6 Sep 2005

Quote by postie
Lastly, seeing as you joined today, it isn't too late to change your name.... you are going to cause a lot of confusion with your name!!!! Check out this link>>>
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/profile.php?mode=viewprofile&u=18267

Yeh, better choices would be
Pastie
Pasty
Posty
Pesty
Pestie.....
help yourself :thumbup:
Or, you could use a name that johneboy answers to:
muppet
wombat
numpty
twazzock
purple-headed freak
M2PU's boyfriend.
MCB's love-puppet.
just some ideas ya know :thumbup:
MPB?

6 Sep 2005

Sozan't help you not had the experence yet sad

:(