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having joined this site well over 4 months ..i'm still finding it dificult to get any invite to meet or munches.. ok so i'm 37 ok looking with i thimk a gsoh..but this still seems not to matter.. having spent time in the chat rooms lisning to people i've now realise that unless i find a swing partner i think i'm doomed to just staying in the chat rooms ..so if you're looking for a guy to swing with then i'm your man..if then please invite me to meet up ...and lets get to know each othe..thank
you..kev
Kajman, you have not exactly given it very long have you? You have done 11 posts, 4 of them where to a party where the list stated it was closed to single men, and none of them have been asking to go to a Munch?
Firstly, you dont need to be a swinger to attend a Munch, this is purely a social event for REGULARS on the forums or in the chat room, so I am presuming you are mentioning a munch and meaning a swinging party.
You need to put a little more effort in, let people get to know you, join in the banter and dont just post for meets. There are thousands and thousands of single guys asking for meets, how many are successful? The ones who put the effort in!
Good luck and you may also find this post will give you some pointers!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
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You need to put a little more effort in, let people get to know you, join in the banter and dont just post for meets. There are thousands and thousands of single guys asking for meets, how many are successful? The ones who put the effort in!
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Good advice here ... 11 posts in 4 months doesn't give people the chance to find out anything about you, maybe you're different in chat but not everyone here uses chat.
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having joined this site well over 4 months ..i'm still finding it dificult to get any invite to meet or munches.. ok so i'm 37 ok looking with i thimk a gsoh..but this still seems not to matter.. having spent time in the chat rooms lisning to people i've now realise that unless i find a swing partner i think i'm doomed to just staying in the chat rooms ..so if you're looking for a guy to swing with then i'm your man..if then please invite me to meet up ...and lets get to know each othe..thank
you..kev

Just have to be patient...............it does get better honestly :!: :!: wink :wink:
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Kajman, you have not exactly given it very long have you? You have done 11 posts, 4 of them where to a party where the list stated it was closed to single men, and none of them have been asking to go to a Munch?
Firstly, you dont need to be a swinger to attend a Munch, this is purely a social event for REGULARS on the forums or in the chat room, so I am presuming you are mentioning a munch and meaning a swinging party.
You need to put a little more effort in, let people get to know you, join in the banter and dont just post for meets. There are thousands and thousands of single guys asking for meets, how many are successful? The ones who put the effort in!
Good luck and you may also find this post will give you some pointers!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html

Bloody hell.......You're quoting me again young lady.
I really must be stuck in your favourites eh?
Seriously though.
have a look at that thread mate.
I wrote it almost 2 years ago now and it still holds true.
Marcuso