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Hi just new here , seems quite difficult to get involved if your single , or am i just hasty
Quote by frogman
no your right its a nightmare /all couples after fems and other couples

No they aren't.
Quote by Harry02007
Hi just new here , seems quite difficult to get involved if your single , or am i just hasty

Harry your ad says you're with someone and suggests your partner would be involved but your ad is in 'men seeking couples'. Maybe people looking might be confused as to who's looking and for what?
It's equally annoying if you're looking for single guys and find that very few are actually single. Just an observation from a different view point.
H.x
I would like to add my piece.
It is difficult for the genuine single men, because of the ones who are not genuine.
But I have found with patience and talking to couples in chat rooms, I have met quite a lot of people, some I have clicked with others I have not. but always had an enjoyable meet.
Also I found the socials helpful
kev
but not as frustrating as seeing women/couples being let down by 'single men' when you're a genuine single m who's 100% reliable and never get's a positive responce.
Ah well, my falt for being fit, slim, vwe, easy going, well mannered ugly bastard lol!!!
Its NOT you Harry it's just that the odds are against you every which way!!
Lots more single guys on here after the same so the people that advertise have a great choice .You just need to reply to as many as you can but do not hold your breath.
When I first started I wrote to as many adverts that I could and sat waiting for a reply am still sat here waiting lol
Just keep trying Harry it will come good but be patient
Quote by frogman
no your right its a nightmare /all couples after fems and other couples

wrong!
Quote by deputysitman
Its NOT you Harry it's just that the odds are against you every which way!!
Lots more single guys on here after the same so the people that advertise have a great choice .You just need to reply to as many as you can but do not hold your breath.
When I first started I wrote to as many adverts that I could and sat waiting for a reply am still sat here waiting lol
Just keep trying Harry it will come good but be patient

the interesting thing for me is I tend to the exact opposite of the bit in bold, don't really reply to many at all, and if I do then only to ones that I think they would in interested in me as much as I am them.... and then sell myself!!!
But as someone else has said, I got myself known in the forums, in the chatrooms, and at socials/munches. and that works for me, I have made loads of friends and anything more than that is a bonus....
Rome was'nt built in a day. Get yourself in the chatrooms and make friends. I am a single guy and have plenty of fun.
Quote by philhardrider
but not as frustrating as seeing women/couples being let down by 'single men' when you're a genuine single m who's 100% reliable and never get's a positive responce.
Ah well, my falt for being fit, slim, vwe, easy going, well mannered ugly bastard lol!!!

its the ugly that gets you every time lol ...... and the fact you too far for me too meet
au contrare...
i find that if i put one line adverts, with absolutely no details, no photos, along the lines of " free a week on wednesday"
They swamp me...up to twenty replies an hour , from couples begging me to meet them, offering me all sorts of inducements and sending photos to try and tempt me , limousines to pick me up and bring me to them etc..sigh...its embarrassing and takes so much time to reply and decline.
many become semi stalkers, but i havnt the heart to call the am i doing wrong?
Harry. Change the advert and make them form a queue!
(smirk)
I wouldn't worry about not meeting people... Most are best avoided...! loon
Just run yer peepers over this!
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
Its horses for courses...
No one can tell you how to attain what your looking for on the site but if you get the point being made in the above post I'm sure you will enjoy Swinging Heaven a whole lot more than just using it to get a leg over!
Chill out take some personal time find out what makes you tick& have fun within yourself!
Some pointers on things not to say in chat;
I'm bored, who wants a meet?
It's been so long I can't remember what to do.
The wife's out for the day who wants to come over? (this is especially bad when their profile says single)
**** whispers: Hi babe, you're hot (this is especially bad when subsequently pasted by every woman in the room)
Who's going to go on cam to entertain me for half an hour?
You get the general idea biggrin
H.x
Quote by H-x
Some pointers on things not to say in chat;
I'm bored, who wants a meet?
It's been so long I can't remember what to do.
The wife's out for the day who wants to come over? (this is especially bad when their profile says single)
**** whispers: Hi babe, you're hot (this is especially bad when subsequently pasted by every woman in the room)
Who's going to go on cam to entertain me for half an hour?
You get the general idea biggrin
H.x

Bloody hell, H-x .............. you've just given away all my best chat-up lines! :grin:
Personally, I've always used Roger743's advice as my Bible ................ innocent
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/10408.html