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hi..i read this elsewhere....superb advice..well writtten..so we thought we would share
al rach xxxx.
chat in the room and get to know folks
say hi to all ..... and chat away and get to know folks....
dont hit on every couple or fem the sec they come in.....
dont expect sex within 20 mins.... yu might get some but unlikely...
be different..... stand out in someway
there are hundreds of single guys ..... so be different....
have pics ..... and not cock only ..... many dont like cock pics..... and a guy in pants is attractive lol .. trust me I look at em
be uber respectful to ladies..... treat them as such and not pieces of meat....
I watch everyday when lovely ladies on cam and the faceless wankers come in. and hassle them in whispers.. ask to whisper it is polite to do so....
if a lady is 'new' on the site...... dinna pounce like a pack of baying wolves.... welcome her to the site and let her settle in...... ffs, how scary can it be to have 20+ whispers for sex within a few mins of first entering. the room..
go to socials, lunches and meet folks socially....... they are ideal to get to be known ......
I personally dont write to couples/fems asking for meets .....
having been part of a couple on here, its a volume game with some guys.... they hit every new couple/fem wi same mail content, read every profile, digest information..... write message tailored around what couples/fems are looking for ( not what yu want) ....
and if they say no single guys.... ffs dont write to them .....
dont have a chip on yur shoulder as a single guy...... there are couples looking for single guys out there....
I watch one guy every day ....
he says 'hi , then yu have mail x'.....
then moves to next couple and says 'hi, then yu have mail x 'and guess what.... he moves to next couple and says 'hi..... lol .... yu have mail' x gives a desperate impression and disrectful in the extreme ....
.... expect to travel to meet folks.. many guys expect the fems/couples to travel to them... one guy asked mrs and i to drive to largs from forfar, we had to book a hotel, and he would pop roond for an hour.... 350 miles and hotel cost for us.... and he didna even have a 14inch cock lol ...........
dinna strop if yu dont get a reply...... it goes with the territory..... some will reply others wont.... let it go....
be honest on yur profile.... if yu married, say it ...... folks meet married guys..... again honesty is best policy ....
but most of all........
be nice...
honest.......
respectful to all.......
if yu make a mistake...... apologise
have a laugh......
speak today for a possible meet next week ..... no the next 20 mins cause yu passing the end of the road lol and its yur lunchtime ......
I wish yu well.......... I am a player and I know it and am honest about it .... and this life is great ... when yu go into with your eyes open en...
excellent post
fab advice al and and rach but this goes for everyone couples as well as single fems and single guys
btw wanna doing lol
Good post, Rachel, some good tips, well worth reading x Rob
Seems funny but most of that seems obvious to me (I mean it in a good way). I often see blokes (and hear comments) about blokes going in like the bull in the china shop or just being rude and lewd without so much as any preamble.
Do they use such chat up lines in the pub/night club. They'd get a few slaps one imagines.
It's sort of nice to know that my normal thinking is not odd (on here), if you get what I mean!
did any of um get a shag ??? lol
Although a very good post,
I am rather hoping that the silly men who steam in like a bull in a china shop dont read or cant read this post. Only because it means I have a better chance of a meet :twisted:
The problem is that most single males just do not take time to read profiles let alone read your advice ;-)
Shame really this should be a nice easy site full of people that are so laid back and all frustrations should be sexual lol
deputy
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Guys that dont expect sex within 20 mins ?
surely not :0
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Post subject: single guys and advice
Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 8:22 am
hi..i read this elsewhere....superb advice..well writtten..so we thought we would share
al rach xxxx.
like i said.........i read it elsewhere...i only lifted it,,,
al rach xxx