We are concidering running a singles night in January in Scotland
As everyone is always moaning that singles get a bad deal, so let us know what you think
the kinksxx
Hi babes yeh thats what i thought too and your welcome to come along babes anytime xxx
as you've asked what people think heres my view, seems strange you as a " couple" are arranging singles only even your profile states "no singles" IMO that may scupper your chance of this being successful, i'd certainly delete the bad bit about singles in your profile b4 this goes ahead, but good luck if it goes ahead anyway.
Well lets hope this can change things for all singles they do get a bad rep and its not fair
but there is deffo some who dont deserve to be on here
I know lots of singles and as i have the time to organise it
so i said i would look into it
thanks for your comments and i have taken note of it
the kinks xxx
i heard that sex clubs in scotland are not allowed
is this true?????
Why are "singles " being spoken of here like something on the bottom of a shoe?
Seems some couples think this site is exclusive to the click well some of us "singles" do know how to behave and i for one am house trained.
Rant over, i am sure some couples would enjoy the company of single guys and i for one would like to take you up on your offer, Thank You.
First i would like to say i know this couple very well and have been to many events they have been too and organised themselves.
Its so easy for single women to get to events but not so easy for single men if both sexes are evened out i do not see a problem and do not understand why ppl nit picking about others when all they do is try to help.
Lets see who are interested in going before dampers are put on it b4 its even got any names down.
Also what does it matter if they are a couple why should that matter ppl should be honoured that they want to do this for the singles in the swinging world.
Sorry to all if ive offended anyone with my big mouth but it had to be said.
Take care all and happy shagging
brennnny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Nobody is nit picking....well im certainly not. But why should people be honoured that there doing something for the singles?? There are plenty of people on here who do things what singles are invited to.
I was giving advice from past experiences.. and like i said earlier... good luck. Unfortunetly i wouldn't be able to make it to scotland.
If it all hits off.. jobs a good un.
:thumbup:
If I lived in Scotland I would go, but as I'm based towards the bottom of the Midlands it's way too far.
I only play with single guys so it sounds like fun to me.
We would like to say in our defence that we have many single freinds both male and female, and certainly dont need to organise a social to meet single females.
we know from our freinds how difficult it is for a single swinger of any gender to meet suitable people
without having to go through all the hassle of coffees, calls and emails , just to find out your not compatable after all, so the idea came to light;
Thank you for your comments Bren it is appreciated as a single females yourself. I am sure this effects im sure you will be there if anything comes out of it xx
Thanks venus
shame your so far away (trains planes and auto mobiles ) lol
the kinks xxx
i wasn't nit picking either but as we've organised 31 derby socials i feel people have to fully trust the organiser b4 attending such events and if i was single and saw a couples profile advertising such events but their profile states if your single don't contact us ( i wouldn't) any maybe others near you won't. just suggesting perhaps remove that bit from the profile if your now seeking singles even if its just for a social.
thanks for your coments park hun
I certainly dont think all single maLES ARE SCUM OR DIRT ON MY SHOES
I know you know i dont think that hun xxxxx
we have removed the part of profile, although we did have good reasons to have it there but maybe its time to show that we have faith in singles again
the kinksxx
i see the good intention, but as a single yes it did make me think why are a couple organising this? will they be allowed to be there if its singles only? lol
i dont actually "mind" the coffee meet up to see if im compatable with someone. its all a part of swinging to me, friends first fun second.
i dont understand why its harder for single males to get to socials than it is single females?
isnt everyone welcome at socials, munches? regardless of status?
will single playing peoplebe allowed ie those married with someone playing without consent? or purely only single people?
xx fem xx
I am with bren on this one! The Kinks are a great couple and yes their profile might say no singles but that is what they want as a couple!!!! Mr and Mrs Kinks are great at setting up events and I am sure she tells you in the first instance that she was approached by singles to arrange this!
So
if ya single and want to go give her yer name!!!!
If ya not single but would like to attend as such do the same!!!
Its not hard peeps and I am sure that mrs kinks would set up the night of your life.
Mr kinks m8 respect. Mrs Kinks hone lurve ya.
C
xx
Hi Scotty Guy
Mr Kinks here
Thanks for the comments bud.
Never look a gift-horse in the mouth, folks.
If someone offers to do a favour - and organising a munch for whatever categories is a favour for which we should feel grateful - questioning why is not very gracious behaviour.
Sure there are points to question sometimes like if there's a huge gate fee being asked for at a venue which does free room 'hires' (Note I'm NOT questioning that or implying it should be here), but you have to give folk the benefit of the doubt in the 1st instance.
thanks for all above comments
the kinks
Hi Kinks,
I for one would be overjoyed to accept your kind invitation, but as i am up north plenty of advance notice of dates would be cool. Your efforts are most appreciated by this single chappy xxx
PS
Can i volunteer me spare room for venus68 if she wants to go woohoo!!