Having just had my first visit to a swingers club(only to visit my mate who works on reception) i have got an overwhelming urge to visit for all the right reasons.I was wondering if there are any ladies or couples who would be willing to do me a great big favour and take me with them ? Truth is i'm a little nervous and shy of just turning up on my own,any genuine help would be appreciated....
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Sex God
Why don't you ask your mate? You weren't nervous about going to see him there so at least you won't feel quite so odd, knowing the place already and he might be able to introduce you to some of the clientele
Bev
Bev
Warming the Bed
yeah i must admit i feel the same. There is a local swinges club near me and i would love to but im realy nervous. Wish i could find some one to go with me
ohh well i suppose its cool to dream
ohh well i suppose its cool to dream
Sex God
Quote by *Guy4Gals&Guys*
Having just had my first visit to a swingers club(only to visit my mate who works on reception) i have got an overwhelming urge to visit for all the right reasons.I was wondering if there are any ladies or couples who would be willing to do me a great big favour and take me with them ? Truth is i'm a little nervous and shy of just turning up on my own,any genuine help would be appreciated....
I am quite shy, but found that my first visit to a swinging club on my own was okay. I was terrified when I went in, but soon got chatting with people - just like going into a bar, except that some people are wearing towels instead of clothes! It might be a good idea to say to yourself that on your first visit you will just watch, and not join in anything - this should make you feel more relaxed. And if your reason for asking is pure shyness, why does it have to be "ladies or couples"? I have had several helpful chats with (straight) single guys in clubs (and I am straight by the way), some guys there are very willing to chat, give advice and compare notes with others. Good luck anyway.
Mike.
Just go for it mate! Go on your own, just be yourself and you are sure to get talking to people. Thats the thing about swingers, they are generally very nice people and your hardly likely to meet a jealous husband whilst your talking to his wife. Lots of single guys go to these places and as there can be a fair bit of just standing around, so just strike up a conversation with some of the other singles and see what advice they can give you.
Your bets but though may be to talk to some of the staff behind the bar(probably non-alcoholic, never seen a wet one) as they will have seen everything (including lots of nervous new people) and will be able to help you with whatever questions you may have.
Bets of luck mate, you'll love it!
Sid
Your bets but though may be to talk to some of the staff behind the bar(probably non-alcoholic, never seen a wet one) as they will have seen everything (including lots of nervous new people) and will be able to help you with whatever questions you may have.
Bets of luck mate, you'll love it!
Sid
Sex God
What !!!!!! I doubt people go for the music 
Sex God
Maybe funk/soul is sexy to you but perhaps not to everyone, and there is a mix of all kinds of people in swingers clubs - would you possibly miss out on meeting some great people/having great sex just because they played a track you didn't like to listen to?
*Bev imagines Joseph going up to the DJ, asking him to changer track whilst he has a shag*
Bev
xx
*Bev imagines Joseph going up to the DJ, asking him to changer track whilst he has a shag*
Bev
xx
Sex God
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hi i am new to the swinging scene and i would like to know everything about swingers clubs as i am interested in a club near me called club isis. as anyone heard of this club and is it anygood. i am a single male and up for loads of fun times.
thanks
darrell
If you click on "clubs and parties" in the menu at the top of the page you will see details of Isis Quest on the list, including some reviews. I know a few people who have been there and say positive things about it, but it is one of the smaller swinging clubs around. I prefer to travel to clubs a bit further away from home.
Good luck,
Mike.
Quote by *Guy4Gals&Guys*
Having just had my first visit to a swingers club(only to visit my mate who works on reception) i have got an overwhelming urge to visit for all the right reasons.I was wondering if there are any ladies or couples who would be willing to do me a great big favour and take me with them ? Truth is i'm a little nervous and shy of just turning up on my own,any genuine help would be appreciated....
any genuine help?
yes just go on your own
you felt turned on being there so go with the the flow!
i`m sure a lady or a couple will do you a favour
or not
you do`nt mind cause your there for the right reason`s yea!
Ok I'm as new to this as a few other's I've read but want to go to a fetish club first like club rub or Torture Garden or any other someone's willing to suggest in the south before I attempt the swinging clubs.
I am lucky enough in the fact I have an old fuckbuddy of mine who's bang up for coming with me and she's already looking for stuff to wear. Which leads to my question......
As a 6ft slim muscular defined build man, what can I wear without looking gay (no offence guys I love ya but this is about impression not preference) or like a gimp(same again, no offence to gimps, you go for it)?
Someone said some sort of fancy dress was good but I'm sure a Bernie Clifton ostrich outfit aint gonna do it either!
I have a dominant nature if that helps with your suggestions, I don't want to look like a sub either.
Any Ideas paople or have I just put this in the wrong post? :shock: xx
I've just realise I've put the wrong line in my signature too (muppet!)
I am lucky enough in the fact I have an old fuckbuddy of mine who's bang up for coming with me and she's already looking for stuff to wear. Which leads to my question......
As a 6ft slim muscular defined build man, what can I wear without looking gay (no offence guys I love ya but this is about impression not preference) or like a gimp(same again, no offence to gimps, you go for it)?
Someone said some sort of fancy dress was good but I'm sure a Bernie Clifton ostrich outfit aint gonna do it either!
I have a dominant nature if that helps with your suggestions, I don't want to look like a sub either.
Any Ideas paople or have I just put this in the wrong post? :shock: xx
I've just realise I've put the wrong line in my signature too (muppet!)
