Swinging Heaven Santa Soiree Saturday 26th November 2016 Xtasia 8pm 3am

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The list is closing at midnight tomorrow. After this time couples and single fems will be able to attend as guests at Xtasia but at the normal price + your membership fee. Only single males already on the list will be able to attend the event though as Xtasia do not normally allow single males to attend on a Saturday. The list and the deposit money will be sent to Xtasia on Wednesday morning ... Lassy xxx

 Lassy I forgot to put my username on the little info bit, when joining xtasia...  there is always one lol 

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The list is closing at midnight tomorrow. After this time couples and single fems will be able to attend as guests at Xtasia but at the normal price + your membership fee. Only single males already on the list will be able to attend the event though as Xtasia do not normally allow single males to attend on a Saturday. The list and the deposit money will be sent to Xtasia on Wednesday morning ... Lassy xxx

 Lassy I forgot to put my username on the little info bit, when joining xtasia...  there is always one lol 

 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^hahahahahaha oh dear and you defo wont fit in me handbag woman xxxxxx 

They will have the list on the door so they will just match you up with it on the night. Am sure you are not the only one lol. xxx

be there circa 8 ish

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They will have the list on the door so they will just match you up with it on the night. Am sure you are not the only one lol. xxx

 
ermmmmm what can I say? I can't remember doing it either 

The list is now closed. The final list and all your deposit money has been sent to Xtasia. If you have joined xtasia using a name different from your you SH profile name you will need to make sure they match this with your SH profile name on the night. 

Any couples or fems still wishing to go can do so but as Xtasia guests with the normal membership and entry fee (you will find this advertised on their website). 

Xtasia DO NOT allow single guys to attend on a Saturday night so please do not try to gain entry if you are not on the list as you will not be allowed entry. Only those on the list and have confirmed will be allowed in. 

Other than that nowt to say other than lets make it a great evening.

Lassy xxx

Have fun you all xxxx

Lassy I am Coming down now  man flu or no man flu, don't worry about list I'll just go as a couple ,, see you all there , xxx

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Lassy I am Coming down now  man flu or no man flu, don't worry about list I'll just go as a couple ,, see you all there , xxx

 
be good to see you there xxx

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Lassy I am Coming down now  man flu or no man flu, don't worry about list I'll just go as a couple ,, see you all there , xxx

 
be good to see you there xxx

 Ooohhhh you brave lil soldier lol xxx

Bring it on, ready to party here!

lol 

I must be in the right place. Didn't even make it to reception without bumping into familiar faces :-

Sorry guys we've had something come up last minute! And it's a bit late now to come over, have fun everyone 

Nice to see old friends and make some new ones last night

thanks for organising this event, had a great time, with some very nice people xx

Only a few on the list that I don't think I said hello too... To be honest its not somewhere I am going to be in a rush to attend again, I know the club allowed the single men in but it wasn't the place for them on a couples night, its a good job most of the guys who attended were familiar with the other members of SH, as it may have been a pretty lonesome night for them.  Was nice to see familiar faces and meet some new ones. Unfortunately didn't get to meet the organisers, as I left at and I am led to believe car broke down (sorry to hear that, as I would have had a pure melt down). Funniest thing of the evening is being told someone left there socks on for a shag and it got caught on cam in the blue room. For the guilty party to come in and bare all 10 minutes later himself

Thank you Lassy & Co for organising such an enjoyable evening/weekend, it was great to catch up with friends old and new. I was sorry to hear of your breakdown on the motorway, that was a bummer.

A particularly big thank you to Paul, Flirt and the team at Xtasia, as always the hospitality was second to none. The work you guys have done in transforming and incorporating the neighbouring pub into the club complex has without doubt created a unique venue which caters well for both swingers and fetishists alike, without either encroaching on the other. Personally I felt very comfortable in both and will certainly be back again very soon.

Thanks to Lassy for organizing, shame circumstances meant you didn't make it. Thanks also to the staff at Xtasia, a fun night for me. Didn't meet too many people, but all seemed to be enjoying themselves that I did say hi too.

Thanks for a lovely weekend. Lisa and I had a great couple of days at the club with lovely friends.

Thanks for organising a great night, sorry you didn't make it to claim that beer we owe you, maybe next time? We stayed late & enjoyed a very steamy finally with a mystery lady, brilliant evening, thanks again.

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Thanks for organising a great night, sorry you didn't make it to claim that beer we owe you, maybe next time? We stayed late & enjoyed a very steamy finally with a mystery lady, brilliant evening, thanks again.

 
I'll try it again but was my first time - Just think i'll go on another night and try another club too xx

Thanks for organising ...was good to see old friends and make some new ones.

Thanks also to Paul and Flirt for letting us use their facilities and making us feel so welcome.  (Wasn't expecting the free pair of knickers lol).  Was good to be able to feel relaxed in the pub and then take the short  walk into the club.  A place that I wouldn't mind trying again which says a lot in my book.

It was a different experience for the single men.  I understand why - they have regular members who come on couples nights because they expect there to be no single men.  We were tolerated, not welcome.  It was clear the staff didn't really want us there.

We were left waiting in the quiet room for the others to come and join us.  They never did.  There was porn playing on the TV in there.  When I arrived it was three men and one rather passive woman, who was expected to simply respond as the men thrust bits of themselves at her.  It was all about what the men wanted.  Her pleasure wasn't considered at all.  In a later one, a man snuck into a woman's bedroom and started touching her while she slept.  That was a bit jarring after being told explicitly that consent is essential.  If you're looking to set a mood, you need to consider the mood you're setting.  There must be better porn out there somewhere.

So I spent an hour or so watching the fish, before being told that we might was well just go down to the bar and dance-floor.  Now, I realise that I'm alone in this, and others like the loud music.  But I go to socials to socialise, and that's impossible if I can't hear anything that anyone says.

I left early, and am not tempted to go back.

This isn't a complaint (apart from the porn - I thought we were past that kind of objectification).  Life is full of risks, and sometimes things don't work out.  It didn't work out for me.  Others enjoyed themselves, and that's great.

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It was a different experience for the single men.  I understand why - they have regular members who come on couples nights because they expect there to be no single men.  We were tolerated, not welcome.  It was clear the staff didn't really want us there.
We were left waiting in the quiet room for the others to come and join us.  They never did.  There was porn playing on the TV in there.  When I arrived it was three men and one rather passive woman, who was expected to simply respond as the men thrust bits of themselves at her.  It was all about what the men wanted.  Her pleasure wasn't considered at all.  In a later one, a man snuck into a woman's bedroom and started touching her while she slept.  That was a bit jarring after being told explicitly that consent is essential.  If you're looking to set a mood, you need to consider the mood you're setting.  There must be better porn out there somewhere.
So I spent an hour or so watching the fish, before being told that we might was well just go down to the bar and dance-floor.  Now, I realise that I'm alone in this, and others like the loud music.  But I go to socials to socialise, and that's impossible if I can't hear anything that anyone says.
I left early, and am not tempted to go back.
This isn't a complaint (apart from the porn - I thought we were past that kind of objectification).  Life is full of risks, and sometimes things don't work out.  It didn't work out for me.  Others enjoyed themselves, and that's great.

 When we came in, that was not the way it was painted to us. We were told *Most of the SH lot* were meeting in the chill room. Not that the single males were asked to wait there. Although that now makes sense, why the single females were asked to pretend they were with the single males, in order to avoid upsetting the regulars. At one point I looked in and couldnt see anyone familiar so came down  to the bar, which is where I saw most people so remained there. Lmao although going up the stairs is not my forte, as I tripped and practically flew out to go home lol x

Still laughing at being given a S/M pair of bad girl pants like them fuckers will ever fit me Pah ha ha ha... Would make a lovely alternative to a gobble bobble

As a critique:  We were very grateful to have the evening event organised, and it was our first.  That said, we hoped to meet other SH members, not just go to a club.  There seemed to be no real intent to say 'Hi, we are SH'.  That is fine - but please, say, this is organised SH entry, not an SH get together (we know the club was open to regular members).

In anticipation of anyone saying that it is a club and that you just chat to everyone, please re read my second sentence.  We hoped to meet those that we had chatted to (and not always seen) on the site.

So, a great night, but not (in our eyes) an SH night. 

With that in mind, thank you very much Lassy.

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As a critique:  We were very grateful to have the evening event organised, and it was our first.  That said, we hoped to meet other SH members, not just go to a club.  There seemed to be no real intent to say 'Hi, we are SH'.  That is fine - but please, say, this is organised SH entry, not an SH get together (we know the club was open to regular members).
In anticipation of anyone saying that it is a club and that you just chat to everyone, please re read my second sentence.  We hoped to meet those that we had chatted to (and not always seen) on the site.
So, a great night, but not (in our eyes) an SH night. 
With that in mind, thank you very much Lassy.

 Just from a personal point of view ... I'm not brave enough to go up to people I don't know and introduce myself or ask if someone is from SH .... just saying like.