1. Have you asked them why, they might be more clued up than the rest of us.
2. Are you sure you went to the right house.
H.x
sorry to hear about that........
ive a couple of questions.......before i can hazard a guess at the right answer.
1) did u meet them in chat? picture adverts or the fourms?
2) did you ever talk to the lady? and/or see them both live together on cam?
3) did you ever send them a full, recent face, body pic?
4) did they ever send you one?
5) do you think it was the right address?
Yes i sent them a face picture and got theres back i also spoke to the lady and arranged the meet via her and have tried to call them but they dont answer also left a email for them and it was the right address as they sent me directions also it was them who emailed me and asked to meet. so cant understand why.
sometimes there may be a perfectly good explanation for this situation,if they got "cold feet"in between you speaking and arriving,it would have been curteous of them to tell you,save wasting your time,I'm guessing you want to mention their name but unfortunately I think it's against the rules,you appear to have done as much as you can to make sure everyone was happy about the , in time ,you may get the explanation or apology you deserve,you have been unlucky on this occasion,better luck next time,john
There is the possibility that they were setting up another innocent couple by giving you the other people's street address. Perhaps they hoped to induce them to start swinging or maybe it was a nasty way of bullying the other couple.
Thrill seekers maybe. Fantasing about it right up until the moment you force them to face reality.
Or maybe had a big bust up whilst finalizing the rules.
Don't know any way you can guarantee this won't happen again. Sadly. But there are genuine players out there. Good luck.
Yeah, too extreme, but just wanted to point out other possibilities or reasons.
At least be grateful you got a reply. 100% of the advertisers I've contacted on here don't even bother to say 'no thanks'.! They are ALL inundated with emails, all the time? I don't think so!
whatever their reaso there is no excuse for bad manners which their behaviour certainly is.
Can anyone tell me why people make an arrangment to meet then dont open the door. i arranged to meet with a couple for this afternoon a week back we emailed and text (there choice) for a bit and then set a time to meet for some fun. before i left home i rang and asked if we were still on and they said yes. so i turned up at there address this afternoon knocked on the door and no answer i rang there phone and no answer i knocked again and could hear them inside but they did not open the door so i went back to my car and come home i dont get it why would anyone arrange to meet and then not open the door even if it was to say not interested go away. :( 
me for one 
