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I am 33 single male looking for busty older woman in the area for some adult fun eventually,
happy to meet for drinks or chat on phone before any real fun starts.
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Trafford Busty Woman (No replies am I doing something wrong)
Sex God
Now please dont be offended by this as it meant as some constructive criticsm. You have been a member since end of May this year and so far done 21 posts. Have a quick look your posts all of which are pretty similar and in all honesty, they say absolutely nothing about you.
What you have got to do is sell yourself. Remember there are thousands of single guys on here which you are infact in competition with every single one them. What makes you better than the rest (and I dont mean the size of your bits)
You need to show the ladies/couples that you are better than the rest, what is that something special that you have to offer, why should they meet you and not the others? (But dont go over the top and come accross as being totally big headed, that will just have the opposite effect)
Spend a little time on your post, show that you are a human being with a sense of humour and that you are prepared to put in a little effort to find someone and most of all, be patient, things like this just dont happen over night!
Most of all, while you are waiting to meet someone, why not have fun on the forums? Best of luck to you and I really hope you take this in the spirit it was written :lol:
What you have got to do is sell yourself. Remember there are thousands of single guys on here which you are infact in competition with every single one them. What makes you better than the rest (and I dont mean the size of your bits)
You need to show the ladies/couples that you are better than the rest, what is that something special that you have to offer, why should they meet you and not the others? (But dont go over the top and come accross as being totally big headed, that will just have the opposite effect)Spend a little time on your post, show that you are a human being with a sense of humour and that you are prepared to put in a little effort to find someone and most of all, be patient, things like this just dont happen over night!
Most of all, while you are waiting to meet someone, why not have fun on the forums? Best of luck to you and I really hope you take this in the spirit it was written :lol:
Sexpert
You do need to say a bit more about yourself, I mean with so many blokes for women to choose from you need to compete, and that means making it easier to make an informed choice. 
Speaking for myself, when I saw the title of your thread I thought that YOU were the busty lady from Trafford, rather than that being what you were looking for.
But the rest of the advice you've been given is true. My swing partner uses the forum and he gets to know people that way;subsequently he has met quite a few other women.
But the rest of the advice you've been given is true. My swing partner uses the forum and he gets to know people that way;subsequently he has met quite a few other women.
Sex God
Quote by dp4
Thanks I get the idea, didn't realise it was a competition.
as much as i hate the word competition when it is used in these terms.. i sort is....
as others have said.... your titie can be construed at mis-leading.... i for one didn't know if you were said busty lady from trafford or if you were looking for a busty lady until i read it..
for the purposes of what i am about to use as an example i am going to assume that what was written that you are a man looking for a woman......
so using the ads for the example, in the last 30 days.....
number of ads of men seeking women: 7658
number of ads of women seeking men: 134
so rough 57 times more men looking than women......
so in a sense you are going to have to make yourself stand out... unfortunatly you haven't done this so far.. and like NWC said a lot of people will go back and read what you have written in the past, again nothing standing out and all looking the same....
the thing with swinging heaven is that you get out of it the effort you put into it..... and if you were to look at what you have written, if you put your hand on your heart and looked at it from a womans propective.... would you want to meet you???
i think you know your answer...
sean xxxxx
Warming the Bed
Quote by fabio grooverider
so in a sense you are going to have to make yourself stand out...
sean xxxxx
Yes but where do we get the wig from :twisted:
Sex God
Quote by hornyguylondon
so in a sense you are going to have to make yourself stand out...
sean xxxxx
Yes but where do we get the wig from :twisted:
that's no wig, he's just Baaadass Superfly!!!!
Sex God
Quote by jay28
wig !! how dare you lol
Thought he meant me at first
7658:134
thats.. Er
7500 : 125.... ish
Er.....
6200: 100
.....
620: 10
.........
60: 1
.... I wouldn't back that horse!
.. Back to sleepless nights and secret liasons with .... Er well no one actually
Still I can lie to myself can't I?
... In fact now you mention it that horse is PRETTY GOOG LOOKING!
Whats her name?
..."Stays the distance!".. Yep fantasy land HERE I COME!
... "Yeah Lads I was with this young filly the other night.........."
Maybe not.
thats.. Er
7500 : 125.... ish
Er.....
6200: 100
.....
620: 10
.........
60: 1
.... I wouldn't back that horse!
.. Back to sleepless nights and secret liasons with .... Er well no one actually
Still I can lie to myself can't I?
... In fact now you mention it that horse is PRETTY GOOG LOOKING!
Whats her name?
..."Stays the distance!".. Yep fantasy land HERE I COME!
... "Yeah Lads I was with this young filly the other night.........."
Maybe not.
