Update on the Chameleons meet

13 Mar 2005

Right i have been on touch with the club and we have hit small hitch lol
The manager has said that they are to busy at the moment to give out the discounts for single males at a weekend but happy to help us in the week, so we can go two ways here, either we still have it at the weekend as a couples/single fems only meet, or we can have the meet thro the week so the single guys can come, for the couples/women going who like the single males wink

please remember that there will be single guys at the club anyway if we hold it on a friday, and if any of the single guys can find a partner they are welcome to come on the weekend smile

I am sorry i have tryed but this is the best i can do.
Please let me know what you all think, if you still want the meet to go ahead :)
Alison xxx

13 Mar 2005

How about us single guys who are already members we`ll be able to come anyway if it a friday :twisted:

13 Mar 2005

Personally I think it would be great to have this meet during the week - but being a single non-member male I may not be totally objective here ;)
Anyway, if it does turn out to happen during the week and the meet is open to non-members I'd love to put my name down on list ! :bounce:
Love,
Thomas x

13 Mar 2005

Can i suggest a poll here..
some couples might like the idea of weekend and only a few single guys but don't want to say it out aloud.
also some of us single guys might not like to say in the week please therefore sounding a little selfish.
and we all agree to the poll results.

13 Mar 2005

if your still taking names i would love to come i will sort my membership out before date never been to a club. only meet people from ads usually
it would be great to put some faces to names i see in threads
i live 10 mins from darlaston so any night is good for me
any fems or couples needing a lift or a companion for the proposed meet pm me i can pick u up 60 miles radius only please driving can zap your energy and we dont want that.
biggrin

hoping to meet you soon jamie x

13 Mar 2005

Quote by bimale28mids
All the nicest people are BI

So being straight makes peole NOT nice.
Nice theory bimale28mids rolleyes

13 Mar 2005

Quote by Dawn_Mids
All the nicest people are BI

So being straight makes peole NOT nice.
Nice theory bimale28mids rolleyes

sorry dawn
Note to self must not make flipent statements which could be taken literally by other individuals i will adjust my signature to avoid this issue arising in the future.

13 Mar 2005

Just for you Dawn
never let it be said i dont take on constructive critasism
but do let it be said i cant be bothered to use spell check wink

13 Mar 2005

Quote by bimale28mids
Just for you Dawn
never let it be said i dont take on constructive critasism
but do let it be said i cant be bothered to use spell check
Most BI people tend to be nice

What happened to the straight people still? Are they nasty dunno

Dawn :lol:

13 Mar 2005

i am still up to go in the week if anyone wants to pick me up wednesday nights they can is there a master who would take me

13 Mar 2005

Of course any single guys who are already members of chameleons will be able to come to the meet if its held on a friday, as for pulling it to a poll thats what i was trying to do lol as i said in the first posting if people still want this meet to go ahead will you please let me know if you would like it on a friday (bearing in mind none member single men wont be able to go unless they find a female partner for the night) or if you would sooner have it thro the week when all can go biggrin

Hope to get a few opinions soon smile

13 Mar 2005

We would prefer a weekend meet not that we have anything against single guys especially if they are bi. As we are a very nice Bi couple biggrin

13 Mar 2005

naughtynymphos1 I've had 2 thoughts that I decided to share with you rolleyes

If you are looking for plenty of fun then think about what you would like, such as not too many single men but more couples then go at the weekend.
If you are looking to help the newer members get involved and introduce them to clubs and generally have a good giggle then go in the week :thumbup:
If I was going (which I am not) then I would arrange it mid week to help those that are nervous about joining clubs which is a good form of introduction.
dunno

Dawn

13 Mar 2005

If this meet is going to be sometime in the next couple of months I'm not likely to be able to make it much as I would like to!
If I can make it I would most likely be half of a couple so could attend either weekday or weekend but I would say that a weekday would be best as it would be a shame if some of the single guys couldn't make it as well.
Roger the Dragon. cool

13 Mar 2005

looks like your ahve to do 2 meets
1 in the week and 1 at the weekend lol
hope to be there jo xxxx

13 Mar 2005

hi i am new to the club I went last week and I had a great time so I would like anyone to take me with them and show me the ropes while i was there
So any offers please pm i would go both times
I am very interested

13 Mar 2005

I know what u mean Dawn about the week thing for newbies, to be totally honest i'm not bothered either way i was more trying to sort something out to suit everyone, we only 5 mins away so can go anytime, a mid week meet would be good in theory as its quieter so more chance of getting play rooms and in the jacuzzi, and better for having a natter and getting a seating area for a drink etc but what springs to my mind is are there going to be many people wanting to travel in the week due to work etc? and if i did a mid week meet will it only be a hand full of locals that turn up? i have had lots of input and advice on what to do but not many seem to be telling me when they would like to go :cry:
If people are intersted in this going ahead would you please let me know when would be the best time for YOU to go and we can sort it from there biggrin

Thank you all for your help
Alison xxx

14 Mar 2005

yeah i will stil come if anyone can take me as I don't drive.

14 Mar 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Or why not do 2 meets - one in week and one on a Friday?

:eeek: Now that's just greedy.......
I like your style :rascal: :rascal:

14 Mar 2005

Sexysteph may have something there.................people could meet during the week and those who are unable could meet on the Friday night. (Like us and other people who have kids). If people are willing to meet up on the Friday night then please count us in :happy: hump

14 Mar 2005

yuo will never get a consensus of opinion on this cos of the different types of relationships/people who are interested in coming.... as has been suggested, there is only one solution...
have two evenings...one now midweek...quite rightly, this helps the newbies/the nervous/the single guys...and hold one one later in year on a friday to which all can go... then everyone has been catered for......
otherwise you will go round in circles for ever and get pissed off and decide that you wont organise it cos no one can make up their mind...andas an event organiser myself, i know how it feels when u dont think you are making progress... suggest you be decisive and go for it!!!!
count me in for the midweek on...... and if jennaj wants me to take her on a friday..count me in for that one too...
nice to be of help
david
xxxx

14 Mar 2005

i think mid week meet would probably be a low attendunce due to work and im not sure all the effort of organising a club meet mid week would be worth all the effort if only a handfull of ppl turned up dunno

. a friday evening would work best for most i guess then at least the single guys that are current members could attend and i'm sure some single ladies could pair up for the night with some single guy non members and get in as a a thought hope it helps

14 Mar 2005

Thanks davidn48 count me in babes
Just pm me and i will be your parnter

14 Mar 2005

I would love to come to either a midweek OR a weekend meet.....but to be honest weekends would be better for me but it would be a shame cause then single guys couldn't go......
I know you probably want to do it as soon as possible but to give people the chance of getting time off work and getting babysitters why don't you do it sometime in July or August?

14 Mar 2005

This souds like a neat idea, but if fems team up with guys, does it mean they have to register for membership as a new couple ? :confused:
Love,
Thomas x

14 Mar 2005

well i don't suppose it matter if you have 2 register as a cpl member so long as the guys realise that they wont be able to use the membership card as a single guy lol
I think a friday meet would be better personally as most people who have pmed me are either cplz after fridays the only peple who seem to want a mid week meet are single guys which is understandable but i can't see the point of a meet if only single guys turn up confused

Right so now i'm off to sort out a date etc watch this space lol biggrin