utopia 17th march

4 Mar 2006

Hi any couples or singles going to utopia on the 17 th of march or if you havce been before please let us know what it was like thank you sazzysan

4 Mar 2006

my honest opinion on utopia is don't go alone, we have been twice the first time we just went with another cpl found the people there veryyyyyyyyy clicky, noone would talk unless they knew you and believe me, as anyone who knows me will agree i can talk for england and tryed on several occasions to chat to people only to be ignored, at one point in the night we went and sat near some people and they actually got up anf moved away from us :shock: so it wasn't tro lack of effort on my part that noone would chat, we had a good night tho saying that but only cause we went with another cpl who we knew, had we gone alone i think i would have left after a hour, the second time we went there was a few off the site there, which was the only reason we went back, it was a good night as we knew a few people there, the clubs nice, can't really moan about that was clean and the pools lovely.

4 Mar 2006

Thank you we have met at jackies new year party we are trying to get some friends to come with us i really hope they can meet up now with what you have told me xxx

5 Mar 2006

quite interested in the reply as with all new ventures especially sexual its not only your fears but the person you are trying to talk to also, so the people in the club will play safe and mix with friends they know are similiar to them.
dont believe me? :shock: ok im a newie to this site, yet as such its very difficult to chat in the groups cos its clicky or to get an invite to a munch is impossible and they are only to meet similiar people. (I would love to go to any in hampshire) :( this site is safe as, for talking, and thats a start.
so when you go to this or other clubs remember you are as nervous as they are cos no one knows anyone ,
you can still have fun just by being there watching :twisted:

5 Mar 2006

Hi Sazzy, still getting over J&W's new year party lol

Ditto on NN's comments. It can be quite a "don't know you" attitude.
However, the wet area is second to none (to my way of thinking) and the "cave" area is also pretty unique.
It's my local club, but the recent price hike (Â£35 on Fri/Sat) has made it expensive.