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We offer to meet and no one is showing interest why?

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Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Hi we leave messages on the forum to speak to you sexy people and we never seem to get no joy.
We just not sure what we are doing wrong, Is our profile crap? are our pics no good?
Come on sexy peeps we are a fun loving couple who love playing with other like minded couples so don't be shy and come and say hi. xxxxx
Dawnxx
Warming the Bed
When i finally get round to arranging a trip to B'ham i would love to meet up with you both xxx
fabio
Sex God
Quote by Te_smoothy
Hi we leave messages on the forum to speak to you sexy people and we never seem to get no joy.
We just not sure what we are doing wrong, Is our profile crap? are our pics no good?
Come on sexy peeps we are a fun loving couple who love playing with other like minded couples so don't be shy and come and say hi. xxxxx

okay..... just from having a gander at it... and the word i would use is confused....
You say here that you are after other couples.... but you have an ad in couples seeking women...
you say that you are not after single men..... but in you looking for it has... well... single men!
the approach seems a bit "scatter gun"....
as for the actual words... well you actually say something without actually saying anything....
"sell yourselves" wink
you don't actually say anything about yourselves, you don't actually say anything about the people are you after.... and SH hasn't started charging but the word quite yet... so use them!
nothing that you have said screams at me "yes, this is a couple that I must meet".. and this is speaking when I have played as a couple and as a single
think about the type of person you are trying to actually attract, especially if you are looking for a woman, because as you can imagine they can afford to be choosy... a bit like you can when you look for single men... or not... or do....
hope that gives you something to think about.....
Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Quote by Dawnxx
When i finally get round to arranging a trip to B'ham i would love to meet up with you both xxx

Can't wait Dawn.... we'd love it too. Get your A-Z out pronto. lol.
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Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Quote by fabio
Hi we leave messages on the forum to speak to you sexy people and we never seem to get no joy.
We just not sure what we are doing wrong, Is our profile crap? are our pics no good?
Come on sexy peeps we are a fun loving couple who love playing with other like minded couples so don't be shy and come and say hi. xxxxx

okay..... just from having a gander at it... and the word i would use is confused....
You say here that you are after other couples.... but you have an ad in couples seeking women...
you say that you are not after single men..... but in you looking for it has... well... single men!
the approach seems a bit "scatter gun"....
as for the actual words... well you actually say something without actually saying anything....
"sell yourselves" wink
you don't actually say anything about yourselves, you don't actually say anything about the people are you after.... and SH hasn't started charging but the word quite yet... so use them!
nothing that you have said screams at me "yes, this is a couple that I must meet".. and this is speaking when I have played as a couple and as a single
think about the type of person you are trying to actually attract, especially if you are looking for a woman, because as you can imagine they can afford to be choosy... a bit like you can when you look for single men... or not... or do....
hope that gives you something to think about.....
Thanks for that Fabio.... we actually weren't aware that we were down as looking for single men, must have been a clerical error lol.
As for selling ourselves i'm far too shy lol. Nah we'll get to working on it right away... Thanks again.
xx
Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Hey guys....
Just to let you sexy peeps know that we have updated our profile and our pictures.
Thanks to the people who let us know it was in need of a makeover.
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Unknown User
With over 500 views on your ad, your Pm box must be over flowing by now!
Have fun!
Charlesell
Forum Virgin
Ooops sorry guys, but I looked at the new profile before reading Fabio's comments. And I still agreed with them. And I'm also speakng as a guy thats swung as a couple more than as a single, so still have both views.
Sorry about that.
Charlie
Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Quote by Charlesell
Ooops sorry guys, but I looked at the new profile before reading Fabio's comments. And I still agreed with them. And I'm also speakng as a guy thats swung as a couple more than as a single, so still have both views.
Sorry about that.
Charlie

Well your profile doesn't seem to say much more about yourself than ours does to be honest.
We're pretty happy with our new profile now and don't feel the need to change it any more.
Thanks.
tavenerman
Forum Virgin
You have a great profile, perhaps you should consider Essex where real men come from lol
Geordiecpl2001
Sex God
Can't see anything wrong with that profile, says what your like, what you want etc. Should work fine!!
John & Shel
Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Thank you guys since we changed it and updated our pics we have been having a little more success. xxx
Quote by Geordiecpl2001
Can't see anything wrong with that profile, says what your like, what you want etc. Should work fine!!
John & Shel
skinny
Sex God
Hi, nothing wrong with your profile and any pics will be adequate. I've met a few people off the site, all nice folks, not all my perfect lover but what the heck I'm no young stud m'self. I've never had any success with ads. or in the forum ... all meets have come through the chatrooms....more likely if you have a cam, and let the ladies talk to each other. Lots of timewasters and pretend couples otherwise. Best of all, if you don't fancy a club, go to a social close to you, the people will be genuine ordinary folks like you and me. Good luck .... keep us posted xx
Sara_2006
Sex God
one thing that puts me off is no pics in public profile or the mr i understand about shyness discretion etc but some sort of hint (body shape) is always nice to help make a judgement to get in touch.
Sunseekercouple
Warming the Bed
Quote by tavenerman
You have a great profile, perhaps you should consider Essex where real men come from lol

Or Wales, where men are men and the sheep run fast. lol
Amour69
Warming the Bed
Hi guys
Going to Chams next Saturday 28th and Sunday so see you both there is that a date lol
Amour69 x
Unknown User
we often go to xtasia or chams and we would definetly be up for meeting you two xx
Te_smoothy
Warming the Bed
Quote by Sara_2006
one thing that puts me off is no pics in public profile or the mr i understand about shyness discretion etc but some sort of hint (body shape) is always nice to help make a judgement to get in touch.

Hi Sara,
Thanks for that we'll be putting a pic of mr smoothy on as soon as possible, i guess it would help others when they're browsing.
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