I've posted up in the photo ads, lost track of all the emails I've sent out (not just from contact addresses on this site, but a couple of others)
I've had a few email exchanges (3-4 mails each way, some blatent timewasters, but not all I'm sure), but after a month, no actual liasons.
What does a genuine guy have to do....Ladies????? Any hints ??
Not trying to sound whingy, but it seems to be a massive amount of effort for as yet no return.
As an aside, why do you ladies post advertising for fellas when there are the thick end of 3000 posts already offering services. Just curious.
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well I'm still trying
be patient. be very polite. never come across as forceful,as some and most blokes took me months and im having some very posative guys are too demanding it gets to the stage when the girls feel like they are being stalked via email. that puts them right off. im nothing short of polite and i never pester youll get timewaters thats just one of the downsides,they are however many ups. 
WHOA there boys!!!!! Markus - my PMs have been to encourage you in your encounter with Heather... both today. We are NOT going to meet and I haven't suggested it. It doesn't mean that you a bad/ugly guy, it just means that I have, until we decide differently, met a very lovely man from here and we are doing our stuff.
Jags
Jags
What's all this noise about...?
This is a local site for local people - we'll have no trouble here!!
:lol: :lol:
Beckers, glad to see you back old boy. We've missed you, we really have.... but as with anything is life, the more desparate you *appear* to be the less likely you are to get it. I'm sure you knew that...
Markus... lovely little piece of strumpet you... Beckers is only the same as you were when I first replied to your 'post of despair'. We shall be meeting soon I have no doubt... but poor Beckers is stuck in the sticks and can't get to any of the ladies on here.... he needs some tea and sympathy.
And some bod even offered to pay me to take a day off work
to meet him.... do I really have to tell you what I thought of that!!!
Now *that's* a sign of desparation.
Hxx
This is a local site for local people - we'll have no trouble here!!
:lol: :lol: Beckers, glad to see you back old boy. We've missed you, we really have.... but as with anything is life, the more desparate you *appear* to be the less likely you are to get it. I'm sure you knew that...
Markus... lovely little piece of strumpet you... Beckers is only the same as you were when I first replied to your 'post of despair'. We shall be meeting soon I have no doubt... but poor Beckers is stuck in the sticks and can't get to any of the ladies on here.... he needs some tea and sympathy.
And some bod even offered to pay me to take a day off work
to meet him.... do I really have to tell you what I thought of that!!!
Now *that's* a sign of desparation.Hxx
Sex God
I seem to be saying agggghhhhh a lot tonight - but I really mean it this time -AAAAAAGGGGGGHHHHHHHHH 
:x :x :x :x :x
Beckers, the last lot of whinges, sorry, posts, you sent some time ago sounded like you were posting out of desperation, and weeks later, you still sound desperate. Sorry to be rude, but there's more and more of this whinging happening! Maybe if some of you guys engaged in conversation that didn't sound like whinges, you would get further than maybe one or two emails.
Think about it, eh
:x :x :x :x :x Beckers, the last lot of whinges, sorry, posts, you sent some time ago sounded like you were posting out of desperation, and weeks later, you still sound desperate. Sorry to be rude, but there's more and more of this whinging happening! Maybe if some of you guys engaged in conversation that didn't sound like whinges, you would get further than maybe one or two emails.
Think about it, eh
As a single man on this site I find all this
"I'm not getting any" pity party stuff really irritating, it does not help.
I've not had any meetings from this site.
If I get invited then "I'm priveliged and honoured"
otherwise "I'm unlucky"
It's a lottery cos the ladies and couples can't believe the crap most of us men write about ourselves. It's difficult for them to make decisions because most of us lie.
(the statistical average male member is around 6 inches the swingers website average is probably over 7)
"I'm not getting any" pity party stuff really irritating, it does not help.
I've not had any meetings from this site.
If I get invited then "I'm priveliged and honoured"
otherwise "I'm unlucky"
It's a lottery cos the ladies and couples can't believe the crap most of us men write about ourselves. It's difficult for them to make decisions because most of us lie.
(the statistical average male member is around 6 inches the swingers website average is probably over 7)
Sex God
I'm loving your positive attitude, Lonely :P - see guys, you don't have to sound like whingers!
Mmmmm - this is the same old same old - some men think they can irritate us into responding and then 'gloat' about it. Damn it!
Markus - I was just concerned cos what you wrote seemed to be implying, to me at least, that we had been PMing frequently and so on... when in fact you sent me a PM about something else. I don't want to give anyone the impression that I am doing anything behind the scenes. I felt that others reading your post would/could have got the wrong impression, that's all.
Am still chilled though 8) now we have got it sorted and I have resolved not to *yawn* or *sigh* at another whinging whining bloke.
*Come up and see me make me laugh*
Jags
Markus - I was just concerned cos what you wrote seemed to be implying, to me at least, that we had been PMing frequently and so on... when in fact you sent me a PM about something else. I don't want to give anyone the impression that I am doing anything behind the scenes. I felt that others reading your post would/could have got the wrong impression, that's all.
Am still chilled though 8) now we have got it sorted and I have resolved not to *yawn* or *sigh* at another whinging whining bloke.
*Come up and see me make me laugh*
Jags
Sex God
Some good points on this thread - I've absolutely no doubt that females lie too about all sorts of things. Perhaps we should shift the focus slightly and say that it is important for EVERYONE to be honest when placing and replying to ads, at the end of the day time wasting is time wasting regardless of gender! Ok, let me state the obvious - I usually do!
Wow, I never expected this post to evoke such a pasionate response.
Heather, thanks for your reply, I appreciate your support. maybe we'll meet up some day (if you like).
All I really meant was that's it can be very frustrating for genuine, single guys, who get so many un answered, or bogusly answered replies)
I'll hang around until I get at least one genuine encounter ('cos that's my nature). Only then will I truly take a view.
Beckers xx
Heather, thanks for your reply, I appreciate your support. maybe we'll meet up some day (if you like).
All I really meant was that's it can be very frustrating for genuine, single guys, who get so many un answered, or bogusly answered replies)
I'll hang around until I get at least one genuine encounter ('cos that's my nature). Only then will I truly take a view.
Beckers xx
