We're taking the plunge...

5 Jul 2006

...and going to a ladies/couples party in Staines on Saturday July 15th.
It's a Hedonism-hosted thing, organised by
Seems very well screened and the facilities look great (pool, movie theatre, lockable/unlockable play rooms).
We're equal parts excited/nervous and wondered if anyone else around here is going to the party and fancies meeting up, or has any tips on the dos and don't-dos.
smile

5 Jul 2006

Kittenbear,
I went to a Sussex club last year a few times (but it has changed to a fetish club so I don't go anymore).
I guess the obvious first thing is to follow their rules. It means you won't annoy or offend anyone and and probably get some respect from the regulars. Such things like where you can be naked and where not. If they have set aside places from fun and games then get to know where. Maybe hook up with someone who seems like a regular and show an interest to understand the club and how it works. That way you'll win points for not being a couple in to just take advantage of the fun parts without contributing.
Take a good sized towel, tho' they may supply some at the door. It is good practice to sit on a towel when using any of the facilities. You may want to get intimate with people there but others will respect you not putting your bum direct on what someone else will use plenty of fluids with you - even if they have a bar - you know how energetic things could get hopefully!
I am sure you will have a great time if you don't act pushy and just realx into the atmosphere.
Good luck
Nigel

5 Jul 2006

Quote by de_sade
:shock:
Jingle-jangle...
De_sade
P.S. Please check me out too @ www. .

Haha. Can't beat a good knee-jerk.
We're not linked with the party organisers in any way. Just posting the details here to see if anyone else (first-timers or other) might be going, too. smile

nandrews - thanks for the advice. Didn't know about the towel thing. Devil in the details, and all that.
For a first time, we're just gonna go with open minds and see what happens. No hopes/expectations - but definitely entertaining one or two fantasy scenarios, if the chemistry fizzes.

5 Jul 2006

Yep, the towel thing is common with many regular nudist clubs.
It makes common sense really, tho' I am sure nobody has anything to fear from your bum! I suspect that some visitors are, lets say, not too particular about hygene!
I am sure you will do fine and come away with happy memories if not some extra freinds!
Nigel

5 Jul 2006

Quote by Kittenbear
...and going to a ladies/couples party in Staines on Saturday July 15th.
It's a Hedonism-hosted thing, organised by
Seems very well screened and the facilities look great (pool, movie theatre, lockable/unlockable play rooms).
We're equal parts excited/nervous and wondered if anyone else around here is going to the party and fancies meeting up, or has any tips on the dos and don't-dos.

My wife and i go to Abfabs regular(once a a month)....we really enjoy this place,its relaxed and you get a good assortment of couples,you should have fun!..we maybe going ourselves that night!