What is wrong with us Can anyone tell us???

30 Oct 2004

Hello there fellow players of the lifestyle.
After placing yet another ad on the couple 4 couples and the dogging section of the site we find we are yet again spending another saturday night alone due to the lack of interest from other genuine couples .
So we pose this for you all on here if you could help us in our answer if youd care to check our Ad in the couples section number 166213/And in the dogging section number171152, and give us some feed back as to where the hell are we going wrong?
Thanks Kay and Andy

30 Oct 2004

From a subjective point of view looks very good. Nice pics, better than some which look like ancient pieces of scroll or sommat... Dont know why you wouldn't have had some replies to that.

30 Oct 2004

nothing wrong with your ad...nice boots by the way lol

30 Oct 2004

Thanks ever so for that hun x

30 Oct 2004

Hi,
Your ad is fine. Stick at it and it'll all come together for you.
Happy humping,
Scotty biggrin

30 Oct 2004

Nothing wrong with anything in your add wink

.... i would hazard a guess that its the soft swing part maybe that stops as many replys.... dunno

Some swingers are soo greedy lol

30 Oct 2004

You may be right but we wont be pushed into full swap until we both feel comfy with it. and theres still lots of horny exciting stuff to do with soft swing .

30 Oct 2004

Totally agreee.. :twisted:
Soft swing lasts soooooo much longer too mmmm 69position

30 Oct 2004

Oh i dont no pmsl

30 Oct 2004

<<< see number of my posts
I think it has to be the fact that you are not well known on the site. Don't dispair this site does work if you give it time. biggrin

30 Oct 2004

you have e-mail as we would luv to play with you! xxxx Tiga

30 Oct 2004

Thanks tiga, just sent you guys a pm

30 Oct 2004

nothing wrong with your ad biggrin

maybe you could try a club or munch?we did and have never looked back take care kiss

30 Oct 2004

Thanks for that wewantu, to be fair though we have been on a couple of muches with various groups admit weve not been to any of swng hev have organised and its too late now for the Nottingham munch lol.
Weve also got ads and profiles on other sites too and the response is pretty much the same and i cant understand i mean i think my missus is a cracker im not that bad lol and weve personalitys to match.

30 Oct 2004

same as andy
we got one on aff(waste of money)so in the end we decided to go to a club,and meeting people there who are very similar to ourselves was so uplifting,also it was very erotic,you ought to try it?me thinks you will enjoy the expierence
take care kiss

31 Oct 2004

Hi there wewantu2, and yet again thanks for the advice, aff yes im affraid we are on there too and yes what a waste of money it is weve been there for the past 2 yrs i think now and in all that time weve never met anyone from the site so therefore weve decided not to rejoin.
As for the club scene well we are members of a fantastic club and have been since they opened at a place in lutterworth and yes we do meet people there and yes we do play there, its just that wed like more response to our ads both on swing hev and on the other sites we are on giving us the choice to then choose either a club or an ad.
Weve even been thinking about starting a monthly much/get together in and around the notts area for fellow players to meet up so therefore giving us the chance also to meet people.
Andy and Kay.
ps a Big thankyou to sexysal for giving us both a laugh tonight pmsl. xx

31 Oct 2004

please check us out. we feel just the same. We want to share sum fun too. x

31 Oct 2004

hi single guy here
your missis makes me want to find a girl and move nearer you worship

your add looks fine,just takes time more your in here or chat room more people see you, more replys you get.
just for the record did have some sucess at aff very nice she was{see soozy in story section}
any way this thread should get you well on the way hump

:hump:
goodluck wave

2 Nov 2004

Well what can we say apart from a great big thankyou to all of you whos offered us advice and whos taken the time to read our subject and gave us encourgement.
THANKYOU TO YOU ALL from l and w aka Andy and kay!

2 Nov 2004

Maybe you could add a pic of yourself andy,i know if you were nearer us my missus would want to see you also.....

3 Nov 2004

A pic ? do you mean on our ad? or as an avitar? If you meant the latter then please tell us how to go about it and we will gladly put one there.

3 Nov 2004

Morning Andy
Go to your profile ..... at the bottom of the page you are able to ad a picture to be used as your avatar.
The picture has to be of a certain size. The easiest way to resize your picture is to use a program written by one of the users of the site ... the link to that program is http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/8017.html
Its an absolute doddle to use :grin:
Lucy kiss

3 Nov 2004

Fantastic Thanks for that Lucy will try it later late for work already lol

3 Nov 2004

What i meant was,on your add your have 3 pictures of your wife(which look great)
but some guys and girls would probaly like to see some sought of a picture of you,well i know my wife would anyway....just a thought!
good luck!

3 Nov 2004

Can't comment - both ads come up not found. Technology eh!