Hi people, i'm C, 28/m/bristol, i am 6'5 so understand i am a big boy. I seem to be stuck in the worst possible city 4 fun and games. I left this place for a year and went to london, I came back and the locals are even more boring than they were before. No offence to anyone who is from here but this place is dire. I need to meet women 23 and over no 18 year olds, who are up for regular meets. I travel a lot with work so as long as you are not to far, I can travel, cannot accomodate and don't really do hotels that often. I have tried but am not getting responses.
So i need help, I am one randy son bitch in need of some new friends, without all the usual hangups. Oh yeah i like curvy women not to big not to small
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This doesn't mention dogging at all, so I'll move it.
Mal
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Ok so i did not mention dogging but I cant talk about dogging if I don't make contacts can I? So i am introducing myself to whoever is reading this, so that people can know who i am and what i'm after. Amalthea' age ain't nothing but a number baby, i'm not out to get married i'm here to FUCK. So, if there are any women out there who are game, then semd me a message. I, like most guys may stand you up but that willl only be due to circumstance. So women, read the profile understand what I want, don't give me that line of oh he's sweet. Just understand i am here to fuck.
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Amalthea' age ain't nothing but a number baby, i'm not out to get married i'm here to FUCK. So, if there are any women out there who are game, then semd me a message. I, like most guys may stand you up but that willl only be due to circumstance. So women, read the profile understand what I want, don't give me that line of oh he's sweet. Just understand i am here to fuck.
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Sex God
i'm not out to get married i'm here to FUCK. So, if there are any women out there who are game, then semd me a message. I, like most guys may stand you up but that willl only be due to circumstance. So women, read the profile understand what I want, don't give me that line of oh he's sweet. Just understand i am here to fuck
Oh dear what a lot to learn
1. Us women like a little more than just ot fuck, not a lot but just a little.........
2. And as for already suggesting you may stand us up due to circumstance........have you not heard of ringing to cancell.
IMO unless your attitude changes towards us women on this site, I dont think you will be getting many meets.
Sex God
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ooh oooh :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
let me Maia :P I'll take the pics for your "more interseting avatar"
can I ? hu? pleaaaase? :twisted:
Hey, so once again I am being told off by women. You will need a cyber whip to get me in shape eh lol. The avatars are not that good on here anyway where can i get a good one. As for the swinging thing this is part of my learning curve, i'm used to a different way of meeting people. So who's gonna teach me, my naughty streak is in full gear at the moment so i am more than up for it. I just don't wanna meet any weirdo's or gimps.
As for the dogging thing i am still waiting, I won't be trying Birdlip in gloucestershire as the cops found a dead body there this morning. So, ladies I just the same as you am looking to meet safely with some like minded adults who are up for fun and games. Show me what to do I like teachers
As for the dogging thing i am still waiting, I won't be trying Birdlip in gloucestershire as the cops found a dead body there this morning. So, ladies I just the same as you am looking to meet safely with some like minded adults who are up for fun and games. Show me what to do I like teachers
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Hey, so once again I am being told off by women. You will need a cyber whip to get me in shape eh lol. The avatars are not that good on here anyway where can i get a good one. As for the swinging thing this is part of my learning curve, i'm used to a different way of meeting people. So who's gonna teach me, my naughty streak is in full gear at the moment so i am more than up for it. I just don't wanna meet any weirdo's or gimps.
As for the dogging thing i am still waiting, I won't be trying Birdlip in gloucestershire as the cops found a dead body there this morning. So, ladies I just the same as you am looking to meet safely with some like minded adults who are up for fun and games. Show me what to do I like teachers
If you're not having much luck, it is more likely to be your attitude. Nobody is here as a teacher, you have to put the effort in yourself. Try reading some of the help topics all over this Site and see what you need to do. I'll stress this, as I don't think you have picked up on it yet, but this is not a 'quick shag' site. You treat us with respect and get to know us and then and only then will you be in with a chance of success, however you measure success. The aim of most people on here is to have fun and meet others. The sex is a by-product of the fun and friendship, not the ultimate goal.
hope that helps.
Mal
PS - if you don't like the avatars here, don't slag them off, just google avatars and come up with something yourself.
As you admit you're on a learning curve I'll try and offer a bit of advice.
In your first post you state you don't think you're getting the response you should.
I have to say you come across as very "I want this" "I don't want that" and don't say a lot about what you have to offer.
As Sarah pointed out you've already stated that you'd quite possibly stand someone up on a meet.
Now you have to bear in mind that there are far more men on hear than women, so luckily for us we can afford to be choosy.
So if you consider it from a female perspective, would you spend your time with men who you've chatted to are reliable, unselfish and you "click with" and you know will take the time to satisfy your needs and desires...
or would you arrange a meet with you knowing that you would quite possibly stand them up and come across in your post that your only interested in satisfying your own needs.
As I say this is just a bit of helpful advice and constructive criticism, please don't take offence
In your first post you state you don't think you're getting the response you should.
I have to say you come across as very "I want this" "I don't want that" and don't say a lot about what you have to offer.
As Sarah pointed out you've already stated that you'd quite possibly stand someone up on a meet.
Now you have to bear in mind that there are far more men on hear than women, so luckily for us we can afford to be choosy.
So if you consider it from a female perspective, would you spend your time with men who you've chatted to are reliable, unselfish and you "click with" and you know will take the time to satisfy your needs and desires...
or would you arrange a meet with you knowing that you would quite possibly stand them up and come across in your post that your only interested in satisfying your own needs.
As I say this is just a bit of helpful advice and constructive criticism, please don't take offence
Hi Mal, I think that the replies I have got here so far are a bit touchy. So I shall reintroduce myself: 28, single male, looking for new friends for fun and games. Good sense of humour and can take as well as give criticism. As for the avatars the ones i dont find so good are the cartoon characters. I have been viewing this site for a number of months, and I had to see what kind of peoplke are on here.
I do not know anybody on here so, that leaves me in a precarious position. If most of you on here have been talking for a while you will have formed a bond. So I have to attempt to join a new circle of complete strangers, some of whom probably do not exist. Now I absolutely love women and every time i go out I see and meet loads of women. I am not a sleazy leech so if they show no interest I have to find out what they like. I know what i like.
So I am here to meet women, full stop, I love them yeah. Maia's avatar would look much better if the resolution was changed the picture is to digitized. Sarah:west of milton keynes, bien culo (nice bum, spanish). Now, if you read what I put here, without any thoughts of he has a bad attitude, you will see that I am entering this circle with clear intentions. i know what I want , so, ladies if you are interested let me know what you want.
I do not know anybody on here so, that leaves me in a precarious position. If most of you on here have been talking for a while you will have formed a bond. So I have to attempt to join a new circle of complete strangers, some of whom probably do not exist. Now I absolutely love women and every time i go out I see and meet loads of women. I am not a sleazy leech so if they show no interest I have to find out what they like. I know what i like.
So I am here to meet women, full stop, I love them yeah. Maia's avatar would look much better if the resolution was changed the picture is to digitized. Sarah:west of milton keynes, bien culo (nice bum, spanish). Now, if you read what I put here, without any thoughts of he has a bad attitude, you will see that I am entering this circle with clear intentions. i know what I want , so, ladies if you are interested let me know what you want.
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Maia's avatar would look much better if the resolution was changed the picture is to digitized. Sarah:west of milton keynes, bien culo (nice bum, spanish). Now, if you read what I put here, without any thoughts of he has a bad attitude, you will see that I am entering this circle with clear intentions. i know what I want , so, ladies if you are interested let me know what you want.
Eh? Since when did this thread turn into a critique of other people's avatars? It wasn't your avatar that some people had issues with. Plus, everyone here was new to the forum at some point, we all had to break the ice.
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Well whether the advice was touchy or not, we know what works on here and what doesn't. If you feel, from the months of browsing here, that you have a way which will work better, then go for it.
just don't be offensive to anyone and don't be surprised if you don't get the offers you hope for. This Site does work for some, very well indeed, for others they just don't get it. Which category will you fall in currently?
good luck
Mal
just don't be offensive to anyone and don't be surprised if you don't get the offers you hope for. This Site does work for some, very well indeed, for others they just don't get it. Which category will you fall in currently?
good luck
Mal
Have to agree with the posters above (and I am new to this site and have not been around long enough to make a 'bond' with anyone :shock: ) This is a forum not the ads page, we are here to chat, exchange thoughts and , generally, be friendly. I don't think the idea is just to come on asking for a fuck. I have met many different guys and there's nothing worse than the one who just wants a fuck, I never call them back, if that is what you want then perhaps you should be looking elsewhere? I'm nit trying to be rude, just honest and I hope it makes some sense to you?
I studied psychology for three years so I have a very sharp character, it's just a dry sense of humour really, and I don't take offence a constructive criticism. I actually appreciate being told what i am doing wrong as it helps me to adopt to different scenarios. Now I choose not to say what i have to offer because I like to know who i speaking to. Once I get to know you, I am a bit more light hearted. Now when I say i may stand you up, I don't mean i am planning to do this to every woman i meet. That would make me a bit of a doughnut wouldn't it. What i mean is that nobody is 100% perfect so don't expect me to be.
To be honest i am really looking for somebody who understands the meaning of what i say straight away. Not asking much am i? I like women with a good sense of humour, who like fun and like to live life. I'm a free spirit so I just go with the flow i adopt to every scenario. I don't dig racism, or child abuse, I like to stay up late talking absolute nonsense or serious politcs. I love to drive, I love to see the world, i love money. I amm coming across more clearly yet?
To be honest i am really looking for somebody who understands the meaning of what i say straight away. Not asking much am i? I like women with a good sense of humour, who like fun and like to live life. I'm a free spirit so I just go with the flow i adopt to every scenario. I don't dig racism, or child abuse, I like to stay up late talking absolute nonsense or serious politcs. I love to drive, I love to see the world, i love money. I amm coming across more clearly yet?
Sex God
due to "circumstance" maybe no one will want to meet you!
i cant believe that you can think that only standing people up when due to "circumstance" is a selling point! :roll: :roll: :roll:
i cant believe that you can think that only standing people up when due to "circumstance" is a selling point!
:roll: :roll: :roll: Obviously we do not seem to be on the same wave length, i'm a charater who has met his match many a time so the search goes on. My type of rudeness is understandable to some it all depends on how you think. You how i think is naughty i like sex yeah so i think about sex. I see boobies boobies everywhere, i click a page with boobies there, yet i can't feel i sure as hell can see that women with nice boobies are good enough for me 
Sex God
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Ok, i like the photos, i have a smile on my face. Maybe, i have come across as stupid, it's more unobservant. Maybe i will post more in the cafe rathe than this chat room eh :doh:
This is a forum NOT the CHAT ROOM thats a different part of the site :shock:
You like straight to the point ok You want constructive criticism?
How you come across to me is as a self serving adolescent tosser who is only interested in getting a fuck. (Now I am not saying that is what I think you are as that would be a breach of the AUP and I don't do that). You claim to be educated but I would say not in the art of social graces.
You say you wont give out information so that we can guage whether to converse with you or more to the point meet with the view of potentially shagging you. Sorry but that just shows your ignorance of the swinger scene as well as being bloody damn right dangerous. It is not sensible to meet someone you don't know without far more safeguards than you seem capable of understanding.
Your posts are so self orientated they give no welcome to someone to make them want to respond other than in an antagonistic way. Swinging is about respect both for yourself and for the prospective partners - I see absolutely no respect for anyone on this site by yourself.
Personal opinion - I cannot see myself adding further to this thread so I will end with Best of Luck
Steph
Steph.... tell him how you really feel hun!!!!
:) :) no sugar coating it now!!!!seriously though..... there is a very very thin line between confidence and arrogence.... and i think the problem is that you are on the wrong side of that line for a lot of people here....
for a lot of people here... the sex is a bonus... not the be all and end all....
I mentain that a nice "hello i am new, this is what i am after" post is always treated with respect....
and you being a psychology student... you should know that you get one chance to make a great first impression.......
Lighthearted humour is what one would class as a means of breaking the ice. I specified myself as a person who knows and understands the needs of others and has given a general introduction to his character. I posted this stating that I am willing and able , also, ready to meet potential sex partners, i did this in the hope that i would not have to argue my way through every conversation. That would be adolescent would it not. As this forum allows members to freely conversate without the need for too many rigorous constraints, i thought i would put myself out in the hope that somebody would click with me. The manner i write is purely down to how i feel, i don't wish to be absolutely posh all the time. I like to relax so i am speaking to you in a relaxed manner. I reply to everything, i question everything. Just try not to take it personally. 
Maybe it's the lack of children that allows me to keep a mature but young mind,
: : I read somewhere that being a father is natures chill pill so to speak. Helps us behave in a civilised manner, 
Anyway i thought that adults were from 18 upwards why do i have to only model myself towards one type of woman. :welcome: to all who wish to talk to me
Maybe it's the lack of children that allows me to keep a mature but young mind,
: : I read somewhere that being a father is natures chill pill so to speak. Helps us behave in a civilised manner, Anyway i thought that adults were from 18 upwards why do i have to only model myself towards one type of woman. :welcome: to all who wish to talk to me I seem to have attracted a right bunch today, yah. First impressions count alot, i damn well know that. But hey, i seem to have attracted a few people who have taken my comments to heart. Maybe, i did not insert the (I am not desparate) into my profile. All i have done here is test the water, and now i'm ready to jump in. This is a swinging site is it not? Understand that my response is not being rude this is how i talk to people. I have read countless profiles of women looking for sex. I am constantly attached to this sodding computer as the pictures have lured me in. I have a very dirty and broad mind. I see photo's of women who i really want to sleep with. But i do like to get to know some of the people i sleep with. I enjoy different kinds of sexual encounters, so i am letting women choose the option of yes/no. It's as simple as that with me, if you like me fine i will respond to you in a warm and welcoming manner, if not 
I find all sorts of women attractive so i respond in different ways, guys sorry but i just don't care if men don't like me. I am not here to please men only wome, hence i give them the option , so girls/ladies/ women only if you want me contact me show some interest because i'm not a mind reader. But i will respond to any mail from interested women. Does that give a clearer impression of what i am trying to say
I find all sorts of women attractive so i respond in different ways, guys sorry but i just don't care if men don't like me. I am not here to please men only wome, hence i give them the option , so girls/ladies/ women only if you want me contact me show some interest because i'm not a mind reader. But i will respond to any mail from interested women. Does that give a clearer impression of what i am trying to say
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Ok, i like the photos, i have a smile on my face. Maybe, i have come across as stupid, it's more unobservant. Maybe i will post more in the cafe rathe than this chat room eh :doh:
This is a forum NOT the CHAT ROOM thats a different part of the site :shock:
You like straight to the point ok You want constructive criticism?
How you come across to me is as a self serving adolescent tosser who is only interested in getting a fuck. (Now I am not saying that is what I think you are as that would be a breach of the AUP and I don't do that). You claim to be educated but I would say not in the art of social graces.
You say you wont give out information so that we can guage whether to converse with you or more to the point meet with the view of potentially shagging you. Sorry but that just shows your ignorance of the swinger scene as well as being bloody damn right dangerous. It is not sensible to meet someone you don't know without far more safeguards than you seem capable of understanding.
Your posts are so self orientated they give no welcome to someone to make them want to respond other than in an antagonistic way. Swinging is about respect both for yourself and for the prospective partners - I see absolutely no respect for anyone on this site by yourself.
Personal opinion - I cannot see myself adding further to this thread so I will end with Best of Luck
Steph
Steph.... tell him how you really feel hun!!!!
:) :) no sugar coating it now!!!!seriously though..... there is a very very thin line between confidence and arrogence.... and i think the problem is that you are on the wrong side of that line for a lot of people here....
for a lot of people here... the sex is a bonus... not the be all and end all....
I mentain that a nice "hello i am new, this is what i am after" post is always treated with respect....
and you being a psychology student... you should know that you get one chance to make a great first impression.......
Scary avata, nice wig lol
