Xmas Social In Sussex - 5th December

30 Nov 2009

Ok sorted it were coming yay smile

Hope everyone don't mind!! But least its going ahead with help from dippergt750 she did well to keep it going :)
Thank you x

1 Dec 2009

hi there blue ocean told me about this do can i get my name down as a maybe im not sure if im free yet but may be able to pop in xx

1 Dec 2009

:lol: :lol: You couldn't resist Steve smile

I'm glad I started this thread now but Dippergt750 is ending it and she did well :)
Marie x

1 Dec 2009

hi marie i would love to come on sat

1 Dec 2009

hi this is jon 9 inch single male just spoke to marie would i be welcome?

1 Dec 2009

Quote by 100walter100
hi this is jon 9 inch single male just spoke to marie would i be welcome?

As I said hun this is a meet for people to get to know each other but up to Dippergt750
Marie x

1 Dec 2009

Well been working hard chatting to peeps on chat etc so maybe be more to join in the meet so fingers crossed it's to make up for it smile

Going to be a great night
Marie xxx

1 Dec 2009

Got your message that you are now coming.....see you have spent all night on the chatroom "drumming up" extras, only to tell them in the forum to contact me!
Frankly, having abandoned the whole thing, I think you are now being quite patronizing, and I think you have a damned cheek, but what the heck......you do what you want babe and invite who you like......all back to you now it would seem.
I have to say it's about what I expected!
We will be coming to meet the nice people who have messaged us. After all, it is a public venue.

1 Dec 2009

Quote by dippergt750
Got your message that you are now coming.....see you have spent all night on the chatroom "drumming up" extras, only to tell them in the forum to contact me!
Frankly, having abandoned the whole thing, I think you are now being quite patronizing, and I think you have a damned cheek, but what the heck......you do what you want babe and invite who you like......all back to you now it would seem.
I have to say it's about what I expected!
We will be coming to meet the nice people who have messaged us. After all, it is a public venue.

Mmmmmm you seemed to be nice in private then say all this on here so everyone can see?? As you took it on it was the RIGHT thing to do!!!! To tell people to contact you for details. As I thought it was 8pm and in private you say its so I would have given the wrong info anyway.
What do you mean its what you about expected!! You know why I cancelled and I had other reason as well tbh which I didn't want to broadcast but I am coming I am NOT taking it over again so why your being so rude about it all is beyond me!
Marie

1 Dec 2009

Simply this.....when you didn't think anyone was coming, you didn't want to know! Now they are, including most of those you thought had cried off, you have jumped straight back into the chatroom drumming up people. Now this is something that would have you jumping up and down if someone did that while you were organising things......
You were completely apathetic not logging on for days at a time, ignoring messages etc.....Now all of a sudden you are full of enthusiasm once again!
Since you ask, the reason I said it was as expected is simply that my partner predicted that you would suddenly regain your interest as soon as you realised that it was all going to happen anyway.....and he was bang on!
It really does not matter......we are going anyway, lots of people we want to meet.....BUT.....there should only be one chef in a kitchen and you have put the hat back on!
I'm sure that those attending will have a good time anyway, as a group of adults on a night out don't really need an organiser, either you or me.

1 Dec 2009

Quote by dippergt750
Simply this.....when you didn't think anyone was coming, you didn't want to know! Now they are, including most of those you thought had cried off, you have jumped straight back into the chatroom drumming up people. Now this is something that would have you jumping up and down if someone did that while you were organising things......
You were completely apathetic not logging on for days at a time, ignoring messages etc.....Now all of a sudden you are full of enthusiasm once again!
Since you ask, the reason I said it was as expected is simply that my partner predicted that you would suddenly regain your interest as soon as you realised that it was all going to happen anyway.....and he was bang on!
It really does not matter......we are going anyway, lots of people we want to meet.....BUT.....there should only be one chef in a kitchen and you have put the hat back on!

You know what I really can not be arsed to row with you!! I had my reasons and YOU took it on so you did well I said from the beginning I would probably still come just wasn't sure at the time. I have a ill mother right now not that's any of yours but that's the other reason I was unsure and I didn't want to splash it all out but now you know!! I just don't like splashing my private life on here. But don't worry Dipperdg750 you will still get all the effort for organising this!! As for ignoring messages I was not online!! And when I am I answer them all.
Loads of people are looking forward to meeting up and I said I am glad you got it all up and running and still am!! Despite what your partner said. All petty tbh your the one going on about it! I cancelled it so what!! Some and most people do when they think its not going well I am not the only one to have cancelled a social I just thought at the time was best thing to do. Its all up and running well so well done to you.
We are still going to meet new people and people we have met before. Everyone I spoke to on chat in last couple days have said they understand WHY I cancelled and don't have a problem with it except you. As for not being on here this I do have a life and work and mother to look after so we cant be all on here al the time.
So far as I am concerned its over and done with you get the round of applause for keeping it on I just simply couldn't hence me cancelling in first place.
See you all there.
Marie x

1 Dec 2009

For heaven sake Marie.....the only person who goes on about "credit" for organising things is you! It's a meet in a pub, and takes about as much organising as a bus ride to Tesco! Do grow up! Frankly, you personal business is yours alone as you rightly point out.....I want neither thanks nor recognition, I simply resent your on off attitude and the fact that you ignore your own rules of politeness about inviting people when it suits you to do so!
The people I have contacted all know when and where so all you need to do, is let the people YOU spoke to on the chatroom know what is going on.....not that difficult to do......then you can turn up on the night and do your own thing, as will I.
I really don't think the others on the forum need to deal with any more of this. Frankly, after this little episode I doubt anyone will show anyway......

1 Dec 2009

I would love to attend if I may be added?
I know I am not within the week deadline but have only just looked on here.
Please let me come?
smile

2 Dec 2009

Quote by smudger7
I would love to attend if I may be added?
I know I am not within the week deadline but have only just looked on here.
Please let me come?

Sure you can come hun I will send you details.
Marie xxx

2 Dec 2009

Who is in charge of arranging this now?
Marie you opted out of this and cancelled it, dippergt took it over, now you seem to be sending out invites, or are you both now jointly arranging this?.
How does any one who wants to attend this know who to pm or ask any questions, Marie have created a very confused situation.
Please clarify via pm.
Thank you

2 Dec 2009

I have sent you a pm Sarah.
Dippergt750 wrote --- The people I have contacted all know when and where so all you need to do, is let the people YOU spoke to on the chatroom know what is going on.....not that difficult to do....
So hence what I have done?
Marie

Quote by Sarah
Who is in charge of arranging this now?
Marie you opted out of this and cancelled it, dippergt took it over, now you seem to be sending out invites, or are you both now jointly arranging this?.
How does any one who wants to attend this know who to pm or ask any questions, Marie have created a very confused situation.
Please clarify via pm.
Thank you

2 Dec 2009

Thank you Sarah for pm back. Now back to the fun part of this wink

Marie xxx

2 Dec 2009

At the risk of setting things off, I have people mailing me saying that they have been waiting 48 hrs for details after asking if they can come. If I give them details it sparks it all off again! Please could you respond to those asking.....I gather a couple asked on the forum and another couple of guys spoke to you in the chatroom.

2 Dec 2009

Quote by dippergt750
At the risk of setting things off, I have people mailing me saying that they have been waiting 48 hrs for details after asking if they can come. If I give them details it sparks it all off again! Please could you respond to those asking.....I gather a couple asked on the forum and another couple of guys spoke to you in the chatroom.

I gave details to everyone who contacted me about it as of last night. There was one person who has mailed me since then and now they know the details too. I have given the details to people who I have chatted to as you told me to via chat. Anyone else is probably not someone I've spoken to directly. This is still your social, if anyone asks me for details, should I refer them to you or just give them out? So there is no more confusion between us.
The people I have spoken to on chat and given details to are 100walter100, Smudger and Sussexsteve as for anyone else I have no idea.
Marie xx

3 Dec 2009

bump!

3 Dec 2009

2 Days

:bounce::bounce::bounce:
M x

3 Dec 2009

Delete

3 Dec 2009

where and when is this?
steve

3 Dec 2009

don't get mixed up with the wedding party, like I did a couple of years back. I thought it was great fun, dj, dancin, buffet,pretty young things makin an old perv's mouth water... then someone asked if I was with the bride's side or the groom's.."woops...not swingers huh...so the wedding dress is for real..congrats..gotta go."

3 Dec 2009

Quote by skinny
don't get mixed up with the wedding party, like I did a couple of years back. I thought it was great fun, dj, dancin, buffet,pretty young things makin an old perv's mouth water... then someone asked if I was with the bride's side or the groom's.."woops...not swingers huh...so the wedding dress is for real..congrats..gotta go."

:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao: Was that at the same pub Skinny?
Well at least they have them heaters outside for anyone that smokes Brrrr
Not long to go looking forward to it wink

Marie x

3 Dec 2009

I would just like to add my pennyworth re the above rumpus and thank Dipper for stepping in and saving the situation from ruin. Well done Dipper wink

In most forms of life when someone takes over a project, the previous 'occupant' keeps a low profile or communicates politely behind the scenes so as not to upset any apple cart. I just hope the cart is still intact !
I remember in the not to distant past another party was organised in Town, to which the organiser wobbled and fell, but was also rescued and a small event took place. So what is it with the Place ? Considering the size of our area along the SE coast, we have very few meets or clubs and have to travel to London area for our 'fun'.
We all have 'other lives' and various reasons not to do things but for goodness sake make this event a huge success.
Rupe.

4 Dec 2009

Does that mean your coming Rupe? I KNOW you know where wink

4 Dec 2009

I've had quite a few more people PM'ing me asking for details, they all seem to be saying that they have been told to contact me, but I don't know who is telling them to do so.
PLEASE guys, blueocean_04 has taken control once again and should be giving out the invites. If you have asked for an invite but not been given details then I suppose you can message me, but please only as a last resort.
For interest, with the list as it was, plus the extras that have asked, I make it well over 50 people now, but it's hard to be accurate, perhaps Marie can update her list.

4 Dec 2009

I thought this had been sorted through PM. I am NOT in charge of this event. I have mailed you who I have spoken to on chat (3 people) these are the only 3 people who need to be added to your list. Anyone who has said they have been told to contact you have not spoken to me I just thought I'd clarify that before I get flamed again. I have barely been online over the last 24 hours as my connection has been dodgy.
Marie

Quote by dippergt750
I've had quite a few more people PM'ing me asking for details, they all seem to be saying that they have been told to contact me, but I don't know who is telling them to do so.
PLEASE guys, blueocean_04 has taken control once again and should be giving out the invites. If you have asked for an invite but not been given details then I suppose you can message me, but please only as a last resort.
For interest, with the list as it was, plus the extras that have asked, I make it well over 50 people now, but it's hard to be accurate, perhaps Marie can update her list.

4 Dec 2009

Aladdin thank you so much for your lovely message wink

Sorry did not get back to you sooner but my connection was off from 5ish last night Grrrrr
Thanks again
Marie xxx