Well some of you may have already seen and replied to our previous posts, but we still have had no luck. We had some good interest with a couple of our ads but to be honest only a handful were of interest. Strangly enough all the ones of interest were all male, we have tried a meeting with another guy and needless to say it didnt go well.
Me and Gemma have both decided that we need another couple, or another woman to get things going. Since we have had only the one meeting and it didnt go well, we think this could resolve our worries.
We are a young couple, I am 23 and Gemma is 19. We are both of the larger build and we feel this could be what is putting people off, are we right?? I have short dark spiked hair and dark eyes, i am 6ft 11 nearly 7ft tall. Gemma is 5ft 10 and has long dark blonde hair, blue eyes and very big boobs. She is very open to suggestion and will give anything a go. Gem is Bi and loves to be treat rough.
We are looking for a couple or another woman who is between 18 and 35, they have to be fun loving and want to have a laugh aswell as fun and games. We are not concerned about looks really just as long as the personallity is good.
We hope to have some more luck this time, as we are thinking to give it up as a bad job.
Hope to hear from you soon
Melv + Gemma xxxxx
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Sex God
No,no, nooooooooooooooo! Don't give up.
Ask a mod to move this post to the cafe. Join in more there so's you get better known. The rest will follow. I'm sure you'll be ok.
Good luck!
:wink:
Ask a mod to move this post to the cafe. Join in more there so's you get better known. The rest will follow. I'm sure you'll be ok.
Good luck!
:wink: 
Mod
I'm not going to move this to the Cafe, as it is a request to meet up. As for your failure to meet the right people, you need to join in on here and treat any sexual activity that comes your way as incidental and not the main reason for being here. Then you wont feel the pressure of wanting to have sex with everyone you speak to, which is a way of self -filtering until you do get to chat/meet with someone who makes you both go - 'this is the one!!' Keep an eye on Munches and just generally join in. that's the best way bar none of fulfilling your sexual needs.
Anyone want to prove me wrong, be my guest
!!
Mal
Anyone want to prove me wrong, be my guest
!!Mal
Sex God
Just had a nosy at other posts you have made in the time you've been here and IMO, it looks as if you are a little desperate - I don't think many people find that appealing. As was mentioned in one of your other threads, your g/f has to be drunk/likes it rough, which I think some people might find a little worrying! I can't imagine that I am alone in checking previous posts by people, so maybe your previous ones have put people off somewhat. I wouldn't have thought your age/size/looks would be a barrier to be honest, people are looking for different qualities in other people, there is someone for everyone!
Just my thoughts,
Bev
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Just wanted to add, I agree with Mal's post to you, get yourselves to a munch or several (but don't be too pushy when you're there)
Just my thoughts,
Bev
xx
Just wanted to add, I agree with Mal's post to you, get yourselves to a munch or several (but don't be too pushy when you're there)
hi there well as we ourselves have been through these phazes ourselves thought we better at least put a reply in here because we went through (more than once ) what may be a similar situation to urselves We have had single male envolvment and if ur picky enough they can be fun (w mean no disrespect to any of the nice single males out there and ther is some too ) yes it can be tense and nervous hell we have been swinging quiet a while and both of us are alwys tense and nervous .Dont just give up on something that if its an extra to a realationship can be fun but dont put preasure on eachother for it to work every time because that will only end up u 2 asking eachother the questions that u possibly have asked urselves /ie is it us whats wrong with us wen the real answere ther is nothing wrong with u 2 always look at it like we do were the normal one everyone else isnt ( seriously we do think like that ) u may meet soem very nice pple u may meet some absolute idiots but please dont rush and make urself seem desperate take ur time met whoever u want to we have been on many many meets were we have just had a drink and a chat ( 2 in the last week ) so dont beet urselves up about it !!!! ohyer and our add is 87329 not promise more than a drink but u pm us well give u our phone number
