Your all invited to a drink out!!

2 Oct 2003

Hi all,
Me again sorry lol,ok here is the deal on friday 25th Oct im meeting my very nice couple for a drink in either Coventry or B,ham havnt decided all of you are invited we dont care if your single/couple whatever its just a good drink and a dance nothing more,please do NOT come if you think your going to get a shag its just a drink/dance with nice people thats it!! On the other hand you might meet someone there thats on the same wavelenght as you and thats great but DONT expect it!! What we really want is all you regulars there Heather,Mark,KitKat,Blue etc im sure you all have met before but it would be good for us to all meet you we DONT expect anything from you other than a laugh and who knows maybe a dance on the floor(might do my Saturday night fever for ya lol) everyone and I mean everyone is invited im going to be staying in a hotel and if your coming from distance like me your more than welcome to share the 2nd bed in the room however im a straight single guy do NOT expect anything from me and I wont you this is just a genuine offer to try and get as many of us together!!
Two more things guys cant say this enough DONOT expect a shag your be very upset if you do!!
2nd thing is if after a drink your the type that likes to get in fights etc DONOT come we just want a good time drinking and dancing nothing more!!
If anyone is intertrested they can pm me and I will give you my mobile and try to give you more info this is very very genuine and look forward to maybe meeting some of the gooderns on here.
Thanks for reading this and hope to see you there..
Rob

2 Oct 2003

well done Rob, sounds like excellent fun, and there certainly should be more of this sort of thing.
Unfortunately I will be away in a different part of the country that night, or I would have made it.
Best of luck, and I hope you get a good attendance

2 Oct 2003

Hey Beckers.
Thats a real shame coz ive heard all about ya!! lol
Just wanting to try and put to rest that there are great people on here and we need to meet and have a laugh thats all,anyway have fun in your part of the country mate!!
Rob

2 Oct 2003

That's what I like to see... someone taking the initiative!
Sadly I can't travel that far... I'm more of less stuck to London and Croydon. Pity... would have been fun!
:bounce:
Hxx

2 Oct 2003

Heather,
Im coming from Middlesex, was expecting you regualrs to come not looking good is it!! sad

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2 Oct 2003

Well... we most of us haven't met each other yet. Most of the 'regulars' only ever email each other. If you look at our demographics you'll realise we live over such a wide spread area. I've spoken to several folks on the phone and met the odd one or two... :twisted:
That was the idea behind my thoughts of getting something similar going in London. I know there's a few of us down here...
But if you think it's hard trying to organise a piss up, try organising a swingers party. banghead

Hxx

2 Oct 2003

Heather.
I agree with what your saying but I lived out in Australia and its a much bigger country and we was able to arrange stuff there,hell London to Coventry 1/1/2 I done it on saturday so I should know!!
If you and your partner are stuck for a lift i'll take you up even a spare bed??
Rob

2 Oct 2003

im game for pretty ceantal and accessable form most help you organise a southern meet if you wish?

2 Oct 2003

Mark,
Thats great maybe the following month not sure how many we will get down to London but guess will see!!
Rob

2 Oct 2003

Great idea - but I'm in Newcastle!!
Have fun fellow swingers
x xx

2 Oct 2003

Hey Jags,
It seems this is a bigger country than I thought and as for this being a good idea im now having my doubts!! lol

2 Oct 2003

Hey Flirt,
A good and somewhat original idea, I really hope it works out for you.
Picking the NW was a good idea. There's more swingers per square yard around there, than per square mile elsewhere. I know, I'm going to a swingers party in that vicinity this weekend. I have to pick up a lady on the way so its a 400 mile round trip for me, but as I said elsewhere, you have to be prepared to travel.
This will be my second party in the NW in three weeks. If it's half as good as the first it will be great fun. I also think I've found out the secret of getting party invitations. They're all from the guys/couples who organise them. If I go, then they're not the oldest swinger(s) in town. lol

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I may not be as good as I once was, but I'm as good once, as I ever was. lol

2 Oct 2003

Hey Harry O,
Think all us single guys could take lessons from you sounds like your not only doing something right but again and again and again!! lol
Good luck on your party hope it all goes well and maybe catch up if we ever get a meet up and running..... 8)
Rob

2 Oct 2003

I guess getting us all together on one night in one place is a bit of a tall order confused

. I can't make it to Bham on the 25th, although I guess it's closer to me than it is for the Southern division members of this forum. Perhpas you should organise something like a dogging extraveganza (spelling???) and we'd all be there wink

(trouble is, so would the cops!)

2 Oct 2003

Blue,
You wouldnt believe we are probably all within about 200 miles of each other or there abouts in Australia it was thousands of miles!!
But your right next time I think of something like this guess I need to tempt people with more than just a drink and seeing me make a prat of myself on the dancefloor!! 8) 8)
Rob

2 Oct 2003

I think it's more to do with perceptions of distance, rather than actual mileage. To me, Bham is miles and miles away, but it's only about an hour and a half on the train. People who are used to travelling would think that nothing, but I live in my own little world and think that going 10 miles to work is a long way wink

:wink: :wink:

2 Oct 2003

Blue,
If I was to think like that I know that I would never meet anyone thought you had to put something in to get something out!! lol

8)

2 Oct 2003

Yes, you're right, but a lot of it depends where you live. I'm very lucky as I live in the North West, not that far from Manchester. Hence I don't have to travel far to do whatever I want. HarryO said on one thread today that the NW is the swinging capital and he is dead right! There are several clubs within easy distance of me and a few dogging locations too. People in other parts of the country are used to travelling further for meets as they have to. Like I said before, it is just a matter of perspective.

2 Oct 2003

Blue,
Guess im gonna have to check out the real estate at the weekend who said London was the place to be there lying!! lol

8)

2 Oct 2003

They were lying indeed. Houses are cheaper up North too wink

:wink:

2 Oct 2003

Not cheaper - just less expensive wink

Mal

2 Oct 2003

Well looks like us southerns are getting stiched up coz not only are they less expens sad

8) ive up there but you have more swingers!!

2 Oct 2003

Rob
Distance isn't the problem - it's the ease of the journey!
Don't forget, in good old Oz you have long, straight and unclogged roads and nothing but a stray camel to break the journey. Here, it takes me half a hour to travel the three miles to work and I have to step over sleeping drunks just to get a seat on the bus.
To get to Coventry (and I don't drive) would take me forever... and then I'd have to come back. Booking a train or bus ticket well in advance would be cheap enough... but it would also mean booking two days off work.
Possibly I might do it in exceptional circumstances and if it were convenient... but at the mo' I need to be near home for all sorts of reasons.
Hxx

2 Oct 2003

Heather,
Yea your right takes me hours to get 3 miles also but this is a one of and if it was really down to not being able to get there I would be happy to take you and your partner!! lol

8)

2 Oct 2003

Well ive tried to tempt you with a drink and a dance and I have no takers so I guess its back to the drawing room to think up another cunning plan to meet you all!! dunno

8)

4 Oct 2003

Quote by Heather
Rob
Distance isn't the problem - it's the ease of the journey!
Hxx

Ditto from me Rob - today it's taken me 5 hours to come 188 miles up the M1/A1 - not normal I know but that's the way of those roads. I regularly drive the 154 miles to Glasgow and then return the same day for family reasons so it's not the distance. AND I travelled all the way across the Nullabor by Ansett Pioneer bus so I am a seasoned traveller - hated the salt waters showers though!!!
Hope you get some takers/sharers cos the idea is brilliant - go for it.
x xx x