Help!
I’ve had a fantasy for a number of years now to see my wife get fucked by a big black cock.
We have been married for 15 years and we are still young at heart (both late 30’s). My wife is very sexy and we have a solid relationship but this yearning to see her being fucked and having her pussy stretched is driving me mad.
In the cold light day, we don’t talk about this fantasy however when we are fucking each other we both enjoy talking about this fantasy and we talk dirty and blunt to each other. We talk about what she would do with two cocks (mine and ‘our friends’). The fantasy always starts with us meeting our black friend in a pub or club before going back to our hotel where my wife sits next to our friend on a sofa in the hotel bar having a drink and they kiss and fondle each other in front of me.
My wife & I then go up to our room on our own to decide whether to take our fantasy further. She sits on the edge on the bed sipping a glass of wine looking very sexy with her stocking tops showing and ask’s me the question “are you sure you want to go through with this, because if we invite him up, you know that there’s no going back?†I then look at her and ask her “well, if you want to, then I want you to – are you sure you want to fuck your first big black cock?†and she answers “Yes I think I doâ€
I then phone our friend on his mobile and give him our room number. I turn to my sexy wife and we drink our wine looking at each other knowing that in a few moments our friends black cock will be fucking & stretching my wife’s pussy like no man has fucked her before while I watch.
Then there’s a light tap on our room door…………
Has anyone else had a fantasy like this and if so, how have they gone about making it a reality?
Also, are there any ladies out there who have been in a similar situation who can offer my wife & I some advice.
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Quote by gjohnf1
Help!
I’ve had a fantasy for a number of years now to see my wife get fucked by a big black cock.
We have been married for 15 years and we are still young at heart (both late 30’s). My wife is very sexy and we have a solid relationship but this yearning to see her being fucked and having her pussy stretched is driving me mad.
In the cold light day, we don’t talk about this fantasy however when we are fucking each other we both enjoy talking about this fantasy and we talk dirty and blunt to each other. We talk about what she would do with two cocks (mine and ‘our friends’). The fantasy always starts with us meeting our black friend in a pub or club before going back to our hotel where my wife sits next to our friend on a sofa in the hotel bar having a drink and they kiss and fondle each other in front of me.
My wife & I then go up to our room on our own to decide whether to take our fantasy further. She sits on the edge on the bed sipping a glass of wine looking very sexy with her stocking tops showing and ask’s me the question “are you sure you want to go through with this, because if we invite him up, you know that there’s no going back?†I then look at her and ask her “well, if you want to, then I want you to – are you sure you want to fuck your first big black cock?†and she answers “Yes I think I doâ€
I then phone our friend on his mobile and give him our room number. I turn to my sexy wife and we drink our wine looking at each other knowing that in a few moments our friends black cock will be fucking & stretching my wife’s pussy like no man has fucked her before while I watch.
Then there’s a light tap on our room door…………
Has anyone else had a fantasy like this and if so, how have they gone about making it a reality?
Also, are there any ladies out there who have been in a similar situation who can offer my wife & I some advice.
Genuine.
Does your wife know about you being on this site?
If so I suggest you let her read what you have written and read through some of the other topics that are around on such subjects.
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Sex God
Your profile says you are a single male, maybe talk to your wife about joining in here first and then you may find people are more willing to help you.
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Sex God
Only way you can persuade her is by talking to her, preferably in the cold light of day. What's said in the heat of passion may just be a reflection of your desires and might not be hers. Only way you're going to find out is to bring the subject up in a conversation and find out if it's what she wants as well.
Once it's done there's no going back, so you need to be absolutely certain that this is where you want to go and that your relationship is strong enough to handle it.
Once it's done there's no going back, so you need to be absolutely certain that this is where you want to go and that your relationship is strong enough to handle it.
I dont think that anyone should be persuaded. Its either what she wants or not. Also there is always a chance to go back and saying that sh cannot will bring too much pressure to the situation and she will end up doing it just to please you which im sure you do not want. Im sure that you want her to enjoy herself too.
Louise xx
Louise xx
Sex God
Yes but he is genuine - that's one thing.
Do you really know what you are saying my friend? Life's wonderful in the middle of a fantasy.
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Do you really know what you are saying my friend? Life's wonderful in the middle of a fantasy.
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Quote by gjohnf1
Help!
I’ve had a fantasy for a number of years now to see my wife get fucked by a big black cock.
We have been married for 15 years and we are still young at heart (both late 30’s). My wife is very sexy and we have a solid relationship but this yearning to see her being fucked and having her pussy stretched is driving me mad.
I've only quoted this bit as it seems to the the crux of the whole thing. That being it's YOUR fantasy and not hers. In the heat of passion it's very easy to say things that wouldn't even enter your head at any other time.
Acting out a fantasy is all well and good so long as you BOTH want to do this. If she feels coerced into doing this, not only will she not enjoy it but it could ruin what seems to be a very happy and successful marriage.
Don't blow it! Talk to her about HER fantasies but don't do it during sex. Set aside an evening where you can chat openly, out of the bedroom, without fear of being disturbed and see what she says.
Good luck
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Quote by Rainbows
I am probably going to get flamed for this - but I am sorry - I found your thread title a bit offensive. A big black bull? That's beastiality. A black man's cock - different story.
RSxx :color:
Bull is also sometimes used as a term for a man that is involved within cuckold relationships. A cuckold (I'm guessing the original poster sees himself as the cuck) and a 'bull' is sometimes used to summarize an individual's personality or behaviour and the variability commonly seen in male libidos. The cuckold or beta male is suggesting a lack of virility, impotence, infertility, weakness, or even anxiety and the 'bull' or alpha male representing virility, potency, a larger phallus, fertility, masculinity (siring), strength and a sense of confidence and an ease with which he may sexually possess another man's wife.
Some people think the use of the term 'bull' is offensive, and this term is not commonly used in the BDSM community. The more virile male was once almost exclusively referred to as a 'stud'.
Anyway my thoughts on the matter are I am never comfortable when people start using words like 'persuade'. Could your wife persuade you not to have your fantasy any more than you can persuade her to share your desires?
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I am probably going to get flamed for this - but I am sorry - I found your thread title a bit offensive. A big black bull? That's beastiality. A black man's cock - different story.
RSxx :color:
Bull is also sometimes used as a term for a man that is involved within cuckold relationships.
Thanks for clarifying that for me Kiss. I wasn't aware of that and appreicate you explaining it.
RSxx :color:
Quote by Rainbows
I am probably going to get flamed for this - but I am sorry - I found your thread title a bit offensive. A big black bull? That's beastiality. A black man's cock - different story.
RSxx :color:
Bull is also sometimes used as a term for a man that is involved within cuckold relationships.
Thanks for clarifying that for me Kiss. I wasn't aware of that and appreicate you explaining it.
RSxx :color:
No problem. Sometimes my being a pervert can actually come in useful.
Orgasminator
well i suggest seeing as you arer both pretty vocal about this fantasy while you are being intimate you should just ask her AFTER your intimacy if its one of those fantasies that she is interested in pursuing, or one of those best left in her imagination........
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You never know your wife might have they same fantasy but it’s the big black guy that’s doing you, would you give in to her persuasions? :shock:
I was just thinking the exact same thing...
turn the tables....
how could your wife persuade you to be "fucked by a big black cock"?
If it's something she actually wants to do she'll happily discuss it with you outside of the bedroom... if it isn't then you'll never persuade her to do it and incessant nagging/begging/pleading/whining/asking nicely will eventually piss her off
Some people like to fantasise but would never act them out. Doesn't make it wrong to share the fantasies with your partner, but some just aren't as good as you think they're going to be when played out.
Just enjoy the fantasy for what it is.
Absolutely not Fun Scottish Couple - As I said, it's a verbal fantasy we have in the throws of passion. Maybe it's best left there. Thanks for all reply's though.
One of the reasons for starting this thread was to see if anyone else had been in this position and if so, what had they done about it, had it progress and if so had they enjoyed it or regretted it, especially from the womens point of view!!
(nice profile by the way F S Couple)
One of the reasons for starting this thread was to see if anyone else had been in this position and if so, what had they done about it, had it progress and if so had they enjoyed it or regretted it, especially from the womens point of view!!
(nice profile by the way F S Couple)
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You never know your wife might have they same fantasy but it’s the big black guy that’s doing you, would you give in to her persuasions? :shock:
I was just thinking the exact same thing...
turn the tables....
how could your wife persuade you to be "fucked by a big black cock"?
If it's something she actually wants to do she'll happily discuss it with you outside of the bedroom... if it isn't then you'll never persuade her to do it and incessant nagging/begging/pleading/whining/asking nicely will eventually piss her off
Some people like to fantasise but would never act them out. Doesn't make it wrong to share the fantasies with your partner, but some just aren't as good as you think they're going to be when played out.
Just enjoy the fantasy for what it is.
Yep I was thinking the very same thing :lol2:
Celestria summed it up perfectly for me.... IF she wants to make it a reality SHE should be the one to say so.... Trust me by trying to persuade her you may actually turn her against it...
Persuading & making this {cough cough} 'fantasy' happen has some very disturbing connotations,
...far be it to suggest this thing with your 'wife' may or may not be genuine but the fact is when you try to persuade someone you are using some form of coercion.
Now your 'wife' may be willing to talk about this fantasy while your giving her the time of her life but I beg to ask why are you here asking us & not your wife?
Now you may think all women are gonna be 'wired' in the same way as your 'wife' & I can only presume that's an option your perusing & that's why your seeking feedback in this forum...
The only advice I can put to you is...
please take your 'suggestions' to your 'wife'
DO not try to persuade her...
DO not make YOUR 'fantasy' happen
The only fantasy that might happen is the one with your wife full consent
Please forgive me if I sound a bit harsh but I know for a fact that many females who have contributed to this thread will be very worried when a male posts & uses the words persuading & make happen when referring to their 'partners'
btw gjohnf1 welcome to the forums...
...far be it to suggest this thing with your 'wife' may or may not be genuine but the fact is when you try to persuade someone you are using some form of coercion.
Now your 'wife' may be willing to talk about this fantasy while your giving her the time of her life but I beg to ask why are you here asking us & not your wife?
Now you may think all women are gonna be 'wired' in the same way as your 'wife' & I can only presume that's an option your perusing & that's why your seeking feedback in this forum...
The only advice I can put to you is...
please take your 'suggestions' to your 'wife'
DO not try to persuade her...
DO not make YOUR 'fantasy' happen
The only fantasy that might happen is the one with your wife full consent
Please forgive me if I sound a bit harsh but I know for a fact that many females who have contributed to this thread will be very worried when a male posts & uses the words persuading & make happen when referring to their 'partners'
btw gjohnf1 welcome to the forums...
