Last time I posted on here I got a tirade of abuse and hardly any genuine answers so I've left it a while until it calmed down!
What I am looking for are at least 10, hopefully more, sexy dares and forfeits for my wife. We get the occassional few days away where we like to get a little naughty and I am attempting to push the barriers a little further next time. As yet it has all been bedroom fun, toys mild bondage/spanking etc but I would love to have a few more ideas up my sleeve for next time and take it outside our hotel room.
Basically they'd have to be legal ie not end up in a court case so shagging on the bonnet of the car in the supemarket car park is probably out but stuff like flashing (to me) in a supermarket ie squatting down to get something off a low shelf while not wearing underwear or wearing a revealing top and then asking someone of her (or my) choice for assistance with something. I'm not sure whether I could get her to go to a swingers club but that would be great if I could - maybe the ultimate forfeit?
Anyway, if you have any sexy dares or forfeits you like to use then I'd be delighted to hear from you - and hopefully my wife will also be delighted !
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10 sexual forfeits please
Sex God
I still believe the best dare would be to put your balls in your wife's hand and tell her you've had a single males profile on a swinging site for nine years
I can only imagine what the forfeit would be :sparring:
But on a serious note your looking for 10 suggestions but you have already suggested four, surely you can think of a few more. The best idea would be to speak to her to find out what she would be prepared to do, rather than ask people who have no idea of your limits and circumstances.
I can only imagine what the forfeit would be :sparring:
Quote by tarkadahl
probably out but stuff like flashing (to me) in a supermarket ie squatting down to get something off a low shelf while not wearing underwear or wearing a revealing top and then asking someone of her (or my) choice for assistance with something. I'm not sure whether I could get her to go to a swingers club but that would be great if I could - maybe the ultimate forfeit?
But on a serious note your looking for 10 suggestions but you have already suggested four, surely you can think of a few more. The best idea would be to speak to her to find out what she would be prepared to do, rather than ask people who have no idea of your limits and circumstances.
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Last time I posted on here I got a tirade of abuse and hardly any genuine answers so I've left it a while until it calmed down!
No need to worry about that now !! All the lovely fluffy bunny people who used to post in here are back so you won't get anything but helpful answers
Well that was really helpful from a (presumably) non lovely fluffy bunny person
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Tarkadhal - are you looking for forfeits or dares? Forfeits suggests your partner does your bidding for a 'misdemeanour'. Dare is maybe different and involves you more possibly?
Hi, one decent reply anyway! TBH either, she will do my bidding for a misdemeanor or I can dare her to do something.
We had a card game last time - snap basically - but the penalty for loosing was based on the value of the card. So I drew up a list of things I'd like her to do for when I won and she drew up her own list for her wins. So a low card win for me may be for her to masturbate for ~2 minutes close to my face so I could enjoy the view but she was not allowed to cum, and her low card win would be for me to give her a body butter massage for 5 minutes. Higher cards carried 'more interesting' penalties - I can elaborate if anyone is interested. This time I want it to be a bit more public - flirting with other couples or men, just pushing the boundaries a little more??
Part of the pleasure for me is a control aspect - not something I normal have much of, and I've had her permission to say so, and for her it is the promise to obey so she can convince herself that she has no responsibility in what she does (she can and does refuse if she wants, which incurs some pre-agreed penalty). I can quite understand it would be boring to many but one step at a time hey!
The point of asking on here is that I was hoping someone may have dreamt up things that haven't yet crossed my mind.
Hi, yes, they could be 4 options I've mentioned above but I was hoping the broad and hopefully peverse knowledge of SH members would possibly come up with ideas I'd never think of, those above were examples of the sort of thing I had in mind but I am looking for inspiration from your good readership.
As for speaking to her - that rather rules out the element of surprise!
1. Go to a hotel bar together with her dressed in sexy outfit (short skirt, no underwear), but make her sit at a table on her own for a bit while you watch her from across the room opening her legs etc. with a drink so other business men can see.
2. Take her to an adult cinema.
3. Book her a sensual (yoni) massage and allow you to watch.
4. Get her to be totally submissive one night where you go out and she has to do anything you say.
A few to get you started
2. Take her to an adult cinema.
3. Book her a sensual (yoni) massage and allow you to watch.
4. Get her to be totally submissive one night where you go out and she has to do anything you say.
A few to get you started
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1. Go to a hotel bar together with her dressed in sexy outfit (short skirt, no underwear), but make her sit at a table on her own for a bit while you watch her from across the room opening her legs etc. with a drink so other business men can see.
2. Take her to an adult cinema.
3. Book her a sensual (yoni) massage and allow you to watch.
4. Get her to be totally submissive one night where you go out and she has to do anything you say.
A few to get you started
Thanks Game4anything34 - some nice ideas there - I particularly like 1. That is the sort of scenario that would be a real turn on - especially if someone came on to her a bit. 4. is also very appealing, 2 and 3 would depend where we were I guess, probably not too many of either somewhere like the Cotswolds but for a city break I will certainly investigate.
Thanks for your replies, I was giving up hope :sad:
Sex God
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Get her to call her Mum/best friend and talk 'normally - no groans' while you fuck her from behind :-)
we did this but i made liza order takeaway :twisted:
Forum Virgin
There's always the classic order pizza, get wife to answer door in towel and "accidentally" drop it.
1/ When going out in public wear a coat. ONLY.
2/ Get a remote control vibe, she inserts it and you both go out with you controlling it and she cannot do anything but "enjoy" it.
3/ I like the idea of "accidentally" dropping her towel when answering the door.
4/ get her to masturbate on webcam (on here or a site of your choosing)
5/ In a busy bar grope at least two randon guys with you watching.
6/ Again at a bar, pantieless, insert an ice cube and watch her squirm.
7/ Sit her in a hotel lobby "alone" and she has to flirt with anyone that approaches her, male or female.
8/ She has to invent her own forfeit that is based on what she knows about your fantasies.
9/ She wears a sheer top and no bra that she shows to guys of your choosing.
10/ get her nice and wet and then she slips her panties in a randon guy's pocket, without being caught.
That should push some boundaries without being illegal (I hope)!!!!
2/ Get a remote control vibe, she inserts it and you both go out with you controlling it and she cannot do anything but "enjoy" it.
3/ I like the idea of "accidentally" dropping her towel when answering the door.
4/ get her to masturbate on webcam (on here or a site of your choosing)
5/ In a busy bar grope at least two randon guys with you watching.
6/ Again at a bar, pantieless, insert an ice cube and watch her squirm.
7/ Sit her in a hotel lobby "alone" and she has to flirt with anyone that approaches her, male or female.
8/ She has to invent her own forfeit that is based on what she knows about your fantasies.
9/ She wears a sheer top and no bra that she shows to guys of your choosing.
10/ get her nice and wet and then she slips her panties in a randon guy's pocket, without being caught.
That should push some boundaries without being illegal (I hope)!!!!
Master of Sex
1: Get her to visit an adult shop on her own and pick a porn video of her choosing to watch
2: Get her to find out from one of her friends, male or female, how and when they masturbate and then tell you.
3: When you are out together get her to notice and point out to you men with big bulges and/or a good camel toe.
4:Ask her to photograph herself with a carrot in her and send it to you when you are away.
5:Get her to take your cock out in public unobtrusively
6:Come in her pants and get her to pop out to the shops wearing them wet
7: Get her to tell you all the TV actors she'd fancy shagging during an evening's telly
8 Get her to watch gay male porn.
9: If she doesn't shave, get her to dye her bush green pink or purple.
10: Get her to find out from her friends how many have had 3somes at some point in their lives
If it's you that has to pay the forfeit - fair is fair
1: You have to wank into your pants and you have to go out wearing them wet.
2: She gets you to watch gay male porn.
3: You have to finger her unobtrusively in public
4: You have to masturbate unobtrusively in public while she watches you
5: You have to dye your bush green pink or purple
6: You have to find out from your male friends which are cut or uncut and tell her
7: You have to tell her which TV actors you could bring yourself to suck off during an evening's telly
8: You have to go to work with a bow tied round your cock
9: She gets to spank you.
10: She gets to put a dildo up you.
A few ideas at least.....did I mention I have a dirty mind?
2: Get her to find out from one of her friends, male or female, how and when they masturbate and then tell you.
3: When you are out together get her to notice and point out to you men with big bulges and/or a good camel toe.
4:Ask her to photograph herself with a carrot in her and send it to you when you are away.
5:Get her to take your cock out in public unobtrusively
6:Come in her pants and get her to pop out to the shops wearing them wet
7: Get her to tell you all the TV actors she'd fancy shagging during an evening's telly
8 Get her to watch gay male porn.
9: If she doesn't shave, get her to dye her bush green pink or purple.
10: Get her to find out from her friends how many have had 3somes at some point in their lives
If it's you that has to pay the forfeit - fair is fair
1: You have to wank into your pants and you have to go out wearing them wet.
2: She gets you to watch gay male porn.
3: You have to finger her unobtrusively in public
4: You have to masturbate unobtrusively in public while she watches you
5: You have to dye your bush green pink or purple
6: You have to find out from your male friends which are cut or uncut and tell her
7: You have to tell her which TV actors you could bring yourself to suck off during an evening's telly
8: You have to go to work with a bow tied round your cock
9: She gets to spank you.
10: She gets to put a dildo up you.
A few ideas at least.....did I mention I have a dirty mind?
Master of Sex
I guess the thinking behind the ideas above is to give each of you the chance to step slightly out of your comfort zones briefly.
Orgasminator
If you live in house with garden, then this scenario might be of interest to you:
Tie her breasts tightly with rope so they jut out. Make her wear a silky blouse (not see through) and send her out in the garden to hang the washing up or fetch stuff from the shed. She will feel very self conscious, especially if she runs the risk of being seen by neighbours who will do a double take at the size of her melons but not suspect what is going on.
An alternative solution is to make her ride in the passenger seat in your car dressed like that and make her smile to all men in cars when you stop at traffic lights... just to see their reactions! Go very close to the speed limit near traffic cams to give her an adrenaline buzz as she will be begging you to slow down... LOL or simply threaten to do so if she doesn't rub her nipples with her palms at every traffic light. :twisted:
Tie her breasts tightly with rope so they jut out. Make her wear a silky blouse (not see through) and send her out in the garden to hang the washing up or fetch stuff from the shed. She will feel very self conscious, especially if she runs the risk of being seen by neighbours who will do a double take at the size of her melons but not suspect what is going on.
An alternative solution is to make her ride in the passenger seat in your car dressed like that and make her smile to all men in cars when you stop at traffic lights... just to see their reactions! Go very close to the speed limit near traffic cams to give her an adrenaline buzz as she will be begging you to slow down... LOL or simply threaten to do so if she doesn't rub her nipples with her palms at every traffic light. :twisted:
Quote by Tania
If you live in house with garden, then this scenario might be of interest to you:
Tie her breasts tightly with rope so they jut out. Make her wear a silky blouse (not see through) and send her out in the garden to hang the washing up or fetch stuff from the shed. She will feel very self conscious, especially if she runs the risk of being seen by neighbours who will do a double take at the size of her melons but not suspect what is going on.
An alternative solution is to make her ride in the passenger seat in your car dressed like that and make her smile to all men in cars when you stop at traffic lights... just to see their reactions! Go very close to the speed limit near traffic cams to give her an adrenaline buzz as she will be begging you to slow down... LOL or simply threaten to do so if she doesn't rub her nipples with her palms at every traffic light. :twisted:
The second one is appealing (the first a bit impractical for us) but as a passenger in the car it could be fun, even if it is something like a short skirt and very thin top and no bra, I bet it would get some interest (certainly from me if no-one else).
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I guess the thinking behind the ideas above is to give each of you the chance to step slightly out of your comfort zones briefly.
Hi Tosh, that is about it really, but I would find it very sexy to have her the centre of attention - with my agreement, I think she'd love it and as it had been my idea, then she is only trying to please me!!
I like your list, let your dirty mind work overtime and send some more :-)
