September 2005.
I have long had a bit of a voyeuristic nature, and I guess this contributes to looking at profile sites, perving at some of the pics, and reading the wisdom contained within. Having got myself up to date with those I used, I did a google search. I found this site. My naive side gave no thought to the concept of swinging, all I know is I saw pics of women wearing boots. That was me happy. I then noticed the site had a chatroom, went in and lurked a bit, chatting occasionally. By the third night, I was made to feel like a regular. I felt welcome.
From this point on, I was a regular in the chatroom, and for a while a regular poster in the forums. Then I got introduced to the joys of munches. I soon became known as a munch whore, it seemed like every other weekend I found myself booking into a hotel, and finding the pre-munch.
Much has changed since then, but I certainly would never have changed my decision to join this site. Thanks to people who I've had some interesting experiences with, I have had my eyes, my mind and my arse opened. I guess I now regard myself as a retired swinger as I am no longer active within the scene, but thanks to this scene, I have formed friendships with some wonderful people, and encountered many good acquaintances which have been maintained to this day.
Ten years on, I find myself very grateful to the swinging scene and those within it, I've seen opinions change the way I think, I have had tears roll down my cheeks with laughter. Copious amounts of alcohol, followed by "No way! Is that time, it is bloody daylight!" and then getting home, doing a half hearted "Thanks go to....." post and then sleeping until I was reasonably coherent again.
I have some wonderful memories, both swinging and away from swinging, to everyone who has contributed, in any way, big or small I thank you.
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Hello old friend 
:) xxx
Where have those years gone eh ?? Seeing you post has bought back wonderful memories of the parties and munches, with friends, some sadly no longer with us. Laughter and companionship was always to be had, sex was just a bonus. The miles travelled to join in the fun and watch others was well worth it.
I myself have made some long lasting friendships that I treasure, you amongst them. Your face at a certain hotel after munch party will be forever etched on my memory :) :twisted:
Thank you for being there for me in bad times as well as good x Although you say you have retired and are not active anymore I don't believe it for a moment
Once a perv always a perv and you are more than welcome to join me at any upcoming social event it would be an honour to have your company.
:) xxx Where have those years gone eh ?? Seeing you post has bought back wonderful memories of the parties and munches, with friends, some sadly no longer with us. Laughter and companionship was always to be had, sex was just a bonus. The miles travelled to join in the fun and watch others was well worth it.
I myself have made some long lasting friendships that I treasure, you amongst them. Your face at a certain hotel after munch party will be forever etched on my memory :) :twisted:
Thank you for being there for me in bad times as well as good x Although you say you have retired and are not active anymore I don't believe it for a moment
Once a perv always a perv and you are more than welcome to join me at any upcoming social event it would be an honour to have your company.
Sex God
10 years, where has time gone...................................
Munches
Socials
Clubs
Private parties
Pub meets
Weddings
Folks getting together, kids being born
And very sadly attended funerals, those folk will never be forgotten.
10 years ................
Munches
Socials
Clubs
Private parties
Pub meets
Weddings
Folks getting together, kids being born
And very sadly attended funerals, those folk will never be forgotten.
10 years ................
Quote by essex34m
September 2005.
I have long had a bit of a voyeuristic nature, and I guess this contributes to looking at profile sites, perving at some of the pics, and reading the wisdom contained within. Having got myself up to date with those I used, I did a google search. I found this site. My naive side gave no thought to the concept of swinging, all I know is I saw pics of women wearing boots. That was me happy. I then noticed the site had a chatroom, went in and lurked a bit, chatting occasionally. By the third night, I was made to feel like a regular. I felt welcome.
From this point on, I was a regular in the chatroom, and for a while a regular poster in the forums. Then I got introduced to the joys of munches. I soon became known as a munch whore, it seemed like every other weekend I found myself booking into a hotel, and finding the pre-munch.
Much has changed since then, but I certainly would never have changed my decision to join this site. Thanks to people who I've had some interesting experiences with, I have had my eyes, my mind and my arse opened. I guess I now regard myself as a retired swinger as I am no longer active within the scene, but thanks to this scene, I have formed friendships with some wonderful people, and encountered many good acquaintances which have been maintained to this day.
Ten years on, I find myself very grateful to the swinging scene and those within it, I've seen opinions change the way I think, I have had tears roll down my cheeks with laughter. Copious amounts of alcohol, followed by "No way! Is that time, it is bloody daylight!" and then getting home, doing a half hearted "Thanks go to....." post and then sleeping until I was reasonably coherent again.
I have some wonderful memories, both swinging and away from swinging, to everyone who has contributed, in any way, big or small I thank you.
And don't forget........ I taught you EVERYTHING you know!!
RWL
_Loz_
Not often I'm speechless. I know some people would actually thank you for achieving that. And I treasure you also, as a friend and as a perv. Don't stop being either.
Sarah.
Yes to all of that.
Redwine Lover.
You saying you taught me EVERYTHING is a little misleading. You taught me the things you think I know. What I have said and done behind closed doors has been a far greater education. But glad to have had you along for the ride
Not often I'm speechless. I know some people would actually thank you for achieving that. And I treasure you also, as a friend and as a perv. Don't stop being either.
Sarah.
Yes to all of that.
Redwine Lover.
You saying you taught me EVERYTHING is a little misleading. You taught me the things you think I know. What I have said and done behind closed doors has been a far greater education. But glad to have had you along for the ride
Quote by essex34m
_Loz_
Not often I'm speechless. I know some people would actually thank you for achieving that. And I treasure you also, as a friend and as a perv. Don't stop being either.
Sarah.
Yes to all of that.
Redwine Lover.
You saying you taught me EVERYTHING is a little misleading. You taught me the things you think I know. What I have said and done behind closed doors has been a far greater education. But glad to have had you along for the ride
Was really good to see people being nice to each other instead of the 'usual' bitching!
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Was really good to see people being nice to each other instead of the 'usual' bitching!
The people who replied to my post are people I have a huge amount of time for. They are so privileged they are even on my Facebook. I've met some good people through this scene and thar is why despite no longer swinging, I can never leave the scene.
Quote by essex34m
Was really good to see people being nice to each other instead of the 'usual' bitching!
The people who replied to my post are people I have a huge amount of time for. They are so privileged they are even on my Facebook. I've met some good people through this scene and thar is why despite no longer swinging, I can never leave the scene.
Totally understand, my FB is the same. even though the South West scene has changed a hell of a lot since the heady days of 2005/2006/2007 I can't make the move to jump elsewhere as others have done. Not that I am disparaging of elsewhere but this has always been home to us and the first munch we ever attended at a well known apple flovoured emprium onthe barbican when organised by devon1 will always be remembered. Especially for one particular lady who is sadly no longer with us.
I still have the original pin from that first "munch"
Steve
