Ok so after what seems like ages we are about to think about having our first MFF problem is we don't know how to ask the girl in question if she is up for it. We have come up with the following:
1: The flirty cheeky tactic
2: The straight out asking method
3: The hinting way
Its one of Mrs Highburys' friends that we have in mind. We are 80% sure she would say yes but not 100%. What is the best way to ask, straight out or just hinting?
Really need some advice.
-Dave
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Ok so after what seems like ages we are about to think about having our first MFF problem is we don't know how to ask the girl in question if she is up for it. We have come up with the following:
1: The flirty cheeky tactic
2: The straight out asking method
3: The hinting way
Its one of Mrs Highburys' friends that we have in mind. We are 80% sure she would say yes but not 100%. What is the best way to ask, straight out or just hinting?
Really need some advice.
-Dave
is she on this site? If so just ask her!
If not invite her round for a drink and move the conversation to the subject and see what her reaction is and go from there
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Personally i would never ask a friend from outside the swinging scene if they wanted to have sex with me/us, it can cause lots of problems and u could end up offending, embarressing her and even loosing a real friend, or she may say yes and all regreat it after or on the other hand she could be well up for it and it may be the start of good things to come, question is are u willing to take that chance?
If u meet someone on here and things don't go to plan u don't have to see them again its not that easy with a friend
If u meet someone on here and things don't go to plan u don't have to see them again its not that easy with a friend
Nothing ventured nothing gained.
But personally I wouldn't put her on the spot by asking outright.
Either invite her round and be viewing SH as was suggested.
A few drinks and some flirty conversation, dropping some hints and let her make the decision to take the discussion further.
A girls night out, when the drinks flow, start a raunchy conversation, discussing fantasies and she how she takes it.
But most of all don't make her feel uncomfortable as you could loose a friendship if you have read the signals wrong.
Good luck and hope it all goes to plan
kaz xxx
But personally I wouldn't put her on the spot by asking outright.
Either invite her round and be viewing SH as was suggested.
A few drinks and some flirty conversation, dropping some hints and let her make the decision to take the discussion further.
A girls night out, when the drinks flow, start a raunchy conversation, discussing fantasies and she how she takes it.
But most of all don't make her feel uncomfortable as you could loose a friendship if you have read the signals wrong.
Good luck and hope it all goes to plan
kaz xxx
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dont ask one of your freind to join you
it could work out as a problem for you
iv done it in the past and it caused a lot of truble
so its not a good idea to try it cos you cant go back
if it dosent work
sorry
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it could work out as a problem for you
iv done it in the past and it caused a lot of truble
so its not a good idea to try it cos you cant go back
if it dosent work
sorry
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just ask
as thats what i would want from a CPL when i meet on my own
im on a meet tonight for a drink me and a cpl hopes they dont say get your nips out lets look at your rings lol
thanks jo
but the difference is ur a known swingers jo and ur meeting with the view 2 have sex if u get on, these people are on about normal friends they want 2 cross over into the swinging world, in my opinion not a good mix
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Personally i would never ask a friend from outside the swinging scene if they wanted to have sex with me/us, it can cause lots of problems and u could end up offending, embarressing her and even loosing a real friend, or she may say yes and all regreat it after or on the other hand she could be well up for it and it may be the start of good things to come, question is are u willing to take that chance?
If u meet someone on here and things don't go to plan u don't have to see them again its not that easy with a friend
This is very true naughtynymphos. This happened to us. We knew a couple that wanted to go swinging. So we suggested that they come to a club and they could see if it was for them. We had no intention of playing with them but guess what we did
The hubby really enjoyed himself and whilst his Mrs enjoyed herself also. She didn't like the smile on hubbies face. Outcome end of friendship. They continued swinging only as long as poor hubby just watched 