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We have just had our fourth 3some and it still amazes us that it keeps getting beter every time but just how much better can it get. ??????? redface has anybody else experienced this???????
Quote by rams_cpl
We have just had our fourth 3some and it still amazes us that it keeps getting beter every time but just how much better can it get. ??????? redface hasanybody else experienced this???????

I have had a few now... and I am surprised at the variety... I wouldn't say that one is better or worse than the rest, but the amount to which one can be different to the next is astonishing.
Did recently meet up for the second time with a couple I met had met previously 2 years ago ... and second time round it was different. It was wierd because it was better sex and better orgasms all round... but we were only going at it for about half as long. I think the thing that made it nicer was that I just turned up and we got down to it... we all knew we liked each other, and what we wanted to do... so there was no awkward start to things... so I can probably say that repeat performances are usually better... but I need more imperical evidence of course ;)
Quote by Chimone
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Quote by EnglishChris99
We have just had our fourth 3some and it still amazes us that it keeps getting beter every time but just how much better can it get. ??????? redface hasanybody else experienced this???????

I have had a few now... and I am surprised at the variety... I wouldn't say that one is better or worse than the rest, but the amount to which one can be different to the next is astonishing.
Did recently meet up for the second time with a couple I met had met previously 2 years ago ... and second time round it was different. It was wierd because it was better sex and better orgasms all round... but we were only going at it for about half as long. I think the thing that made it nicer was that I just turned up and we got down to it... we all knew we liked each other, and what we wanted to do... so there was no awkward start to things... so I can probably say that repeat performances are usually better... but I need more imperical evidence of course ;)
we think that the most important thing is finding the right person or people and then u get the wow factor that certainly seems true for us anyway after last nite surprisedops: wow wow wow
not yet experienced one on here hopefully in he future though when i get to know a few people biggrin
Quote by Chimone
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
yes hun you do wink :wink:
Quote by Chimone

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person

Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
You might need to, lol apparently we're like "rocking horse shit" (tm johnboy tm marcuso) - although with that pic, I doubt you'll be lacking attention for long! wink
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?
Quote by Chimone
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
ooooooh, assumptions assumptions.....
why are we assuming that the 3rd party was a woman????? you never know they may have been waiting for the right man to come along!!!!!!
just a thought.....
Quote by rams_cpl
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
hope so rams cpl, as my next one will be my 4th :swingingchair: and the last was amazing. biggrin
i hate first meets, specially if on a 1 2 1 or 2 2 1 basis......i get very very nervous (Although i tend not to look it).
so im definately better 2nd time when im a little more relaxed....or as mentioned above after that initial perioud of nerves.
Quote by Dune
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

we have always thought how hard it must be 4 that third person to meet the cpl that is why we always try to make our person feel comfortable the min they walk through the door
Quote by fabio grooverider
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
ooooooh, assumptions assumptions.....
why are we assuming that the 3rd party was a woman????? you never know they may have been waiting for the right man to come along!!!!!!
just a thought.....
u should never assume anything should u fabio how wrong can people be hun xxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by rams_cpl
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

we have always thought how hard it must be 4 that third person to meet the cpl that is why we always try to make our person feel comfortable the min they walk through the door
That has been my impression of those I have met. But its that walk up the path and Knock on the door :scared:
I have found it better to meet in a pub first drinkies
Quote by Dune
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Quote by Dune
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

we have always thought how hard it must be 4 that third person to meet the cpl that is why we always try to make our person feel comfortable the min they walk through the door
That has been my impression of those I have met. But its that walk up the path and Knock on the door :scared:
I have found it better to meet in a pub first drinkies
you also need to think what its like on the other side of the door redface
Quote by rams_cpl
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

we have always thought how hard it must be 4 that third person to meet the cpl that is why we always try to make our person feel comfortable the min they walk through the door
As a single fem I have to say the first meeting usually scares me half to death redface lol, hence I only ever meet now if its socially first, then a second meeting if everyone wants to take things further, with good communication in the middle!
I'm definately capable of handling myself - its not the 'safety' thing that worries me, its the 'there's two of them and only one of me' or 'they have each other and I'm on my own' scenario - obviously the couple have discussed their fears and expectations together, and they'll also talk about me when I'm gone! I'm always very aware that both people in the couple have to feel comfortable with me - and although I havent come across it yet, I think I'd be pretty mortified if I turned up for a meet and one of the couple took an instant disliking to me! surprisedops: Similarly, if, twenty minutes into a meet and any of us didnt feel 'right', its me who has to get up and leave, which is a difficult thing to do!
There are definate disadvantages to being the single in a 3sum! rolleyes - but, it has it's advantages too :twisted: biggrin
Quote by master55
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Are they regulars on SH? If so I dont think youve got anything to worry about. If youre still worried I am sure they wont mind meeting in a public place first if they are genuine. smile
Quote by lancyuk
i hate first meets, specially if on a 1 2 1 or 2 2 1 basis......i get very very nervous (Although i tend not to look it).
so im definately better 2nd time when im a little more relaxed....or as mentioned above after that initial perioud of nerves.
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You dont half work fast lancy your still a newbie so i thought .
Watch out lads hes nicking all the fems from under your feet lol lol
Quote by master55
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
dont worry hun we r sure u will be fine and once u r through the door u will want to go back 4 more we r sure of this go 4 it hun we never imagined doing this 3some thing either but after the first time we cant get enough xxxxxxxxxx :thumbup:
Quote by Dune
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Are they regulars on SH? If so I dont think youve got anything to worry about. If youre still worried I am sure they wont mind meeting in a public place first if they are genuine. smile
I know them...just first time with husband around :!: redface :!: surprisedops: :!: :oops: :!: :oops:
Quote by master55
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Are they regulars on SH? If so I dont think youve got anything to worry about. If youre still worried I am sure they wont mind meeting in a public place first if they are genuine. smile
I know them...just first time with husband around :!: redface :!: surprisedops: :!: :oops: :!: :oops:
Oh afraid of droop? It can be quite off putting your first time... :oops:
darkfire hun u will be ok with us hun we will look after you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by master55
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Are they regulars on SH? If so I dont think youve got anything to worry about. If youre still worried I am sure they wont mind meeting in a public place first if they are genuine. smile
I know them...just first time with husband around :!: redface :!: surprisedops: :!: :oops: :!: :oops:
naughty naughty lol
Quote by rams_cpl
As the 3rd in the 3some, I find it quite unnerving on the initial meet. Yes Ive seen the pics Ive talked to them, but to go into someone elses house that you dont know and the releif when you find that they are the same as you.
I dont know if its just me but I tend to be on guard for the first 10 - 20 minutes you never know what will happen. I am a bloke who knows how to handle himself, I wouldnt want to be a woman in that situation.
Is it just me or do others feel that way on thier first meet?

I've got my first threesome cuming up..... Am I scared...or am I scared :!: confused: :?: :!: :?: :!: :?:
Are they regulars on SH? If so I dont think youve got anything to worry about. If youre still worried I am sure they wont mind meeting in a public place first if they are genuine. smile
I know them...just first time with husband around :!: redface :!: surprisedops: :!: :oops: :!: :oops:
naughty naughty lol
:mrgreen: :?:
3 somes...... hmmmm confused
My threesomes end up with one falling asleep on the other two or end up being a massive group session orgy. No inbetween as yet.
I do get nervous everytime I meet someone new and I tend to be a bit jittery at first. Those butterflies dancing with hobnailed boots in my stomach and the cold sweats, adrenaline firing off around my body....
It's not got any less nerve wracking or less exciting than when I first started doing meets rather than going to a club.
kiss
Gem. x
Quote by fabio grooverider
We have had two now and the second was better than the first, can't wait for number three to come about. It's been a while!

wait till u get to your third and the fourth well that just blows your mind especially if its with the rght person
Thats it make me even hungrier for it! I'm going to clone single Bi-Females
ooooooh, assumptions assumptions.....
why are we assuming that the 3rd party was a woman????? you never know they may have been waiting for the right man to come along!!!!!!
just a thought.....
lol If you'd been in the chatroom the other night, it wouldn't have taken much working out. Subtle....nah* wink
Quote by Dune
Oh afraid of droop? It can be quite off putting your first time... redface

If you are active in clubs with other guys about, droop should not be a problem when you are alone in a threesome.
I have no problem in clubs, still to have my first "private" 3some.
lol If you'd been in the chatroom the other night, it wouldn't have taken much working out. Subtle....nah* wink

:wink: :wink:
Quote by rams_cpl
lol If you'd been in the chatroom the other night, it wouldn't have taken much working out. Subtle....nah* wink

:wink: :wink:
Might put people off though Rams, if they know you're going to be not so subtle?