3sum | Swinging Heaven

6 Sep 2006

This is my first ever post so hope im doing it right??? rolleyes

I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months now. The other night she said she wanted a 3sum with another girl. I told her i would love to watch her and another girl. She said she would find it a turn on for me to join in with them both. Now im just wondering if she is saying this because she thinks i would like it not that she would find it a turn on??? Never had a 3sum. How many girls would find having a 3 sum with there boyfriend a turn on???

6 Sep 2006

and so begins the long hard search for that elusive single bi female smile

Welcome to the site, good luck in the hunt....

6 Sep 2006

Yep... :welcome: to the Cafe.
You might find the answer if you moved your ad from "men seeking women" to "couples seeking women" dunno

;-)

6 Sep 2006

she wouldn't have suggested it if she didn't find it a turn on!

6 Sep 2006

Hi badboy

and welcome to the forums.
This is really something you and your girlfriend need to discuss in depth before you consider going any further with it. I'm sure there are many women who go along with this for their partner's sake rather than theor own but if she broached the subject first then chances are she is thinking of it for all the right reasons.
Is she interested in a 3some to watch you with the other woman or for you to watch first and get involved later? I'm sure when you've chatted about this in detail with her you'll have a better idea of what she really wants.
Why not invite her to check out this site for herself and maybe join in one of the chatrooms? I'm sure you would have no trouble finding an understanding bi fem who could maybe chat with your girlfriend and offer some advice.
As for others finding it a turn on, it's purely a personal thing and doesn't reflect all women's views.
Good luck ! :thumbup:

6 Sep 2006

Quote by badboy123
This is my first ever post so hope im doing it right??? I have been with my girlfriend for 12 months now. The other night she said she wanted a 3sum with another girl. I told her i would love to watch her and another girl. She said she would find it a turn on for me to join in with them both. Now im just wondering if she is saying this because she thinks i would like it not that she would find it a turn on??? Never had a 3sum. How many girls would find having a 3 sum with there boyfriend a turn on???

If it wasn't something that she wanted, then you gave her the perfect opt out with you just watching, and she said she wants you involved.
Can i just ask why you think she may be lying? If you don't believe in what you are being told it could well cause real problems for you in the future with crossed wires.
I personally enjoy seeing Timmy with other women and enjoy being part of the play when we are lucky enough to be with a bi fem or couple. Good luck with it and I hope you have as much fun as we do here.
Jas
XXX

6 Sep 2006

HI,
Been there done that and yes it was fun and a turn on.............
Good luck in your search