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Hi,
My partner (size 8, 34A, landing strip) and me ( medium build, hairy, shaved down below)maybe interested in swinging. can someone explain what a soft swing is and are there others in the south of similar build that swing? How is it best to meet up? My partner is very reserved so tearing clothes off or sticking something in her face wont go down well. Any advice?
thanks chris/sandra
First of all, we have to know that you are exploring this as a couple and have discussed possibilities.
If the answer to that question is affirmative then take on board the sites own guidelines...join in chatroom banter and take a slowly slowly approach, and with personal safety in mind. Go to any social near enough to you, where you will meet likeminded and genuine people, who are just ordinary folks like yourselves, and you will be under no pressure to get involved in any activities of a sexual nature.
I haven't loked at your profile, but again go slowly and build the profile as you go, and just say enough about your location and what you are hoping to acheive.
Welcome to swinging heaven...say hi if you see me in the chatrooms, and have fun.
I'm sorry, I didn't answer your question on soft swing...generally soft swing is when no penetrative sex takes place. You should establish your own boundries before meeting and never feel pressured into going a little bit further until you are ready to do so.
Interesting post history C9.
Just do a search for c9plus.
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Or look at the 'forum posts' via their profile page (link at the bottom of a person profile page)
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Hi,
My partner (size 8, 34A, landing strip) and me ( medium build, hairy, shaved down below)maybe interested in swinging. can someone explain what a soft swing is and are there others in the south of similar build that swing? How is it best to meet up? My partner is very reserved so tearing clothes off or sticking something in her face wont go down well. Any advice?
thanks chris/sandra


Your profile states......
Hi, I have a new partner so wanted to start afresh and get some honest views. Old posts aren't really relevant because we are a new entity. Maybe I will start with a new ID for us but we are curious.
im sure you'll find what your looking for if you work at it C9
you just need to network the site and chatrooms wink