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A bit of advice please...
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Minibus anyone?
Yay... stop off in well, wherever Mrs NWC said 5t3v3 is and then we can head down to London for t'other new boy! :bounce:
Sex God
Quote by 5t3v3
Wigan is not that far at all.
Steve
57 miles, not that I was perving, I mean checking your profile
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Minibus anyone?
Yay... stop off in well, wherever Mrs NWC said 5t3v3 is and then we can head down to London for t'other new boy! :bounce:
when your in London look out for me flashing at the side o the road! :P
Hey
all them girly girl type things gonna need a fluffer on the long journey! :twisted: 
Sex God
Quote by Sexualdude
Some good advice above from most (not twinkle toes). My advice would be firstly, don't take all of this too seriously. As most have already stated us guys are probably in the lowest demand but highest in terms of numbers on here. As a result you may find for every 20 messages you send you will only get a response from 1 person and even that will be a no thanks. When you start letting this get to you is when you start coming across as pushy. It's just one of those things and you have to accept that you're not for everyone.
Secondly, the chatrooms are a really good place to have a chin wag and, even better, if you get yourself a cam and actually pop your face on there rather than Mr Johnson getting stroked, then people respond to that well too. The number of people I met went up massively when I started using chat with my mush on cam, not cos I'm Brad Pitt-alike, but a decent, normal guy who just so happens to enjoy 'swinging' (yup brucie you read that right)
Anyway, good luck fella and maybe see you in chat some time.
very good advice there dude
we have met up with guys i wouldn't normally look at twice in a vanilla situation but through chat and getting to know them as top blokes and seen thier personalities shine through we met them and have so far not been dissapointed also guys we have met in person at socials that had we just looked at their adds we would never of played with but once we got to know um we gladly had fun with um
there is definatly a place for single guys in swinging as there r lots of couples like us that enjoy having another guy or 3 join us its not just about couples swapping so hang on in there 5t3v3 just b patient as it never happens over night get yourself out there meeting peeps n chatting loads
Sex God
Quote by brucie
"it never happens over night"
hmmmm actually it does. the harsh truth is that if you got you got it if you dont you dont.
and i'm guessin you've got it
if you gotit u have obviously 5t3v3 you aint :bounce: :bounce: this might be an unpopular view, but I kinda agree with brucie.
Its entirely the individuals responsibility to make themselves attractive In whatever that is. Good looks, smells nice, speaks well, money, great personality the whole package.
If you have all of those things, and you are sitting at the top of the tree, then it makes sense that people are going to want you, no?
I not saying anything about brucie. Just saying that there is no reason apart from how I am presenting myself ( in the forums / in the chat rooms, nice guy / nasty guy, sexy / ugly.) for metting people or not.
some people are just immediately "attractive", no?
Its entirely the individuals responsibility to make themselves attractive In whatever that is. Good looks, smells nice, speaks well, money, great personality the whole package.
If you have all of those things, and you are sitting at the top of the tree, then it makes sense that people are going to want you, no?
I not saying anything about brucie. Just saying that there is no reason apart from how I am presenting myself ( in the forums / in the chat rooms, nice guy / nasty guy, sexy / ugly.) for metting people or not.
some people are just immediately "attractive", no?
Sex God
Quote by Anoush
this might be an unpopular view, but I kinda agree with brucie.
Its entirely the individuals responsibility to make themselves attractive In whatever that is. Good looks, smells nice, speaks well, money, great personality the whole package.
If you have all of those things, and you are sitting at the top of the tree, then it makes sense that people are going to want you, no?
I not saying anything about brucie. Just saying that there is no reason apart from how I am presenting myself ( in the forums / in the chat rooms, nice guy / nasty guy, sexy / ugly.) for metting people or not.
some people are just immediately "attractive", no?
yes your right some are immediately attractive but its amazing how quickly those people can also become incredibly unattractive too just like how someone not immediatly attractive can over time become incredibly attractive too
anyhoo its all subjective
Sex God
Quote by brucie
yeah but have you ever thought that some people may want to become quickly unattractive?
no never crossed my mind do elaborate
And swiftly back on topic.
Op, sort out the disparity with the height thing- a minor niggle but it'll put some people off. Get your top off for a picture- looks like you have a pretty good bod under there.
Other than that, same advice as for every single guy. Get yourself out there, and be patient.
Good luck. :thumbup:
Op, sort out the disparity with the height thing- a minor niggle but it'll put some people off. Get your top off for a picture- looks like you have a pretty good bod under there.
Other than that, same advice as for every single guy. Get yourself out there, and be patient.
Good luck. :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by brucie
elaborate. spell it out you mean?
you hook up with a girl. see her a couple of times. want to move on but dont have the balls to say it.
manipulate her so that she wants to move on from you.
and she feels bad about it...
not suggesting i would do this, just a hypothesis.
ah right got ya cheers
