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Hello again, and thanks all for your lovely replies welcoming us to the site, hope we get to meet some of you.
We've been chatting to a few people on MSN, and recently we've had people saying that ROy has a bad attitude. Now all Roy has done it ask a few questions about stuff, try to be chatting, and outline what we're looking for. For example, one couple said, " So we're looking for Fem-Fem only with same room same partner stuff, if we get on, is that ok?"
Roy said "well truth be told not really. We wanted to let ourselves go. No point otherwise. But Mel's starting to think that the only way get into the scene is to do that. My thought is though, whats the point? If the guys can't join in? Half the fun is having two women at your disposal for a bit of fun isn't it? Also I want to see Mel get ****ed by someone. I dunno, seems no-one wants to swap. sad"
This was in a chatty context, followed up with a couple of nice questions, trying to gauge what the crack was. ANyway we were cut short and no more chats. Is this normal? We're starting to get the feeling that there is a hardcore of people who just want to do stuff, and not be friendly about it or chat.
Now we want this to be a sociable friendly happy thing, so can anyone give us any advice on how to weed out people who are short tempered, rude, intolerant and point us in the direction of people who are sociable, friendly and willing to listen to us when we ask what might seem to be silly questions, because we're such newbies?
R&M
Xxx
Quote by romel
Hello again, and thanks all for your lovely replies welcoming us to the site, hope we get to meet some of you.
We've been chatting to a few people on MSN, and recently we've had people saying that ROy has a bad attitude. Now all Roy has done it ask a few questions about stuff, try to be chatting, and outline what we're looking for. For example, one couple said, " So we're looking for Fem-Fem only with same room same partner stuff, if we get on, is that ok?"

Roy said "well truth be told not really. We wanted to let ourselves go. No point otherwise. But Mel's starting to think that the only way get into the scene is to do that. My thought is though, whats the point? If the guys can't join in? Half the fun is having two women at your disposal for a bit of fun isn't it? Also I want to see Mel get ****ed by someone. I dunno, seems no-one wants to swap. sad"
This was in a chatty context, followed up with a couple of nice questions, trying to gauge what the crack was. ANyway we were cut short and no more chats. Is this normal? We're starting to get the feeling that there is a hardcore of people who just want to do stuff, and not be friendly about it or chat.
Now we want this to be a sociable friendly happy thing, so can anyone give us any advice on how to weed out people who are short tempered, rude, intolerant and point us in the direction of people who are sociable, friendly and willing to listen to us when we ask what might seem to be silly questions, because we're such newbies?
R&M
Xxx

My first question has to be = Who wrote this post, Roy or Mel"
confused: :?:
If the couple you were chatting to have stated what they want and it is not what you want - what is the point in carrying on? You can tell them what you would like to happen until the cows come home. But.... if they are not looking for that and Roy is too persistant in explaining your ideal situation - it may be seen as pushy by the other couple.
Quote by romel
Hello again, and thanks all for your lovely replies welcoming us to the site, hope we get to meet some of you.
We've been chatting to a few people on MSN, and recently we've had people saying that ROy has a bad attitude. Now all Roy has done it ask a few questions about stuff, try to be chatting, and outline what we're looking for. For example, one couple said, " So we're looking for Fem-Fem only with same room same partner stuff, if we get on, is that ok?"
Roy said "well truth be told not really. We wanted to let ourselves go. No point otherwise. But Mel's starting to think that the only way get into the scene is to do that. My thought is though, whats the point? If the guys can't join in? Half the fun is having two women at your disposal for a bit of fun isn't it? Also I want to see Mel get ****ed by someone. I dunno, seems no-one wants to swap. sad"

seems this could have been a little more diplomatic as in "oh i see, well personally we are looking for full swap"
Quote by romel
This was in a chatty context, followed up with a couple of nice questions, trying to gauge what the crack was. ANyway we were cut short and no more chats. Is this normal? We're starting to get the feeling that there is a hardcore of people who just want to do stuff, and not be friendly about it or chat.
Now we want this to be a sociable friendly happy thing, so can anyone give us any advice on how to weed out people who are short tempered, rude, intolerant and point us in the direction of people who are sociable, friendly and willing to listen to us when we ask what might seem to be silly questions, because we're such newbies?
R&M
Xxx

I guess when you find these people you dont speak to them anymore, but saying that i think telling them what you are interested in without stating an opinion about it may have had a different outcome for this conversation but thats just my opinion.
Hi smile
thanks for the feedback. :) You're right we could have just said "no thanks we're looking for full swap" and I guess we'll know better in the future... I suppose I wanted a conversation, and to be a little bit sociable about it, ask some questions, get some feedback from the people we were chatting to on MSN. Wrong wrong wrong eh?
R&M.
p.s. it was Roy typing and having the chat, but Mel has done the same and had similar responses from people. Its like if you ask a question or talk a little bit about what you're looking for, thats more social interaction than some people can handle. sad
It probably doesn't help that you have the name of a Nazi Commander!! duel
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It probably doesn't help that you have the name of a Nazi Commander!! duel
wink

I thought that at first, but then noticed it only had one M.. but it seems to be a contraction of Roy&Mel...
(and to point out a small historical detail, Rommel was implicated in the Von Stauffenberg plot to kill Hitler in 1944, and was forced to commit suicide. Whether or not Rommel was a Nazi is debatable...)
damnation , I went all serious for a second there! Please slap me if that happens again.....
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It probably doesn't help that you have the name of a Nazi Commander!! duel
wink

I thought that at first, but then noticed it only had one M.. but it seems to be a contraction of Roy&Mel...
(and to point out a small historical detail, Rommel was implicated in the Von Stauffenberg plot to kill Hitler in 1944, and was forced to commit suicide. Whether or not Rommel was a Nazi is debatable...)
Thanks Postie but had already figured that out. As for the History lesson......no need mate! Whether or not Rommel was included in the the Hitler plot I would still class him as a Nazi......at least from what I've read about it!! Still, this isn't the time or place...... smackbottom
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Still, this isn't the time or place...... smackbottom

Indeed... which is why I went back and added that last line... but you snuck in there with another post and now I can't even delete it....
bugger it.... off to bed...
lol
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Still, this isn't the time or place...... smackbottom

Indeed... which is why I went back and added that last line... but you snuck in there with another post and now I can't even delete it....
bugger it.... off to bed...
lol
D'oh!! A debate for another time no doubt. Sleep tight, Postie.
PS Are you called Postie 'cos you like to empty your sack? rotflmao