A little help required!

16 Oct 2008

Hiya,
Just got something we'd like an opion on - any help would be much appreciated!
We're a young couple, although we've been on the scene on and off for a couple of years. We've had the vast majority of our fun in clubs but are really struggling to find couples on here.
We've left plenty of ads on the forums etc. but with no joy! We know our pics aren't great at the moment but we were just wondering if anyone had any ideas or hints?
We are very friendly and genuine, and certainly not time wasters (we've had problems with these in he past!).
Any advice you can offer would be much appreciated - just add to this post or message us :-)
Thanks in advance,
Vicky and Steve

16 Oct 2008

Quote by abervickysteve
Hiya,
Just got something we'd like an opion on - any help would be much appreciated!
We're a young couple, although we've been on the scene on and off for a couple of years. We've had the vast majority of our fun in clubs but are really struggling to find couples on here.
We've left plenty of ads on the forums etc. but with no joy! We know our pics aren't great at the moment but we were just wondering if anyone had any ideas or hints?
We are very friendly and genuine, and certainly not time wasters (we've had problems with these in he past!).
Any advice you can offer would be much appreciated - just add to this post or message us :-)
Thanks in advance,
Vicky and Steve

I would like to first say hi and welcome to the forums!
Your pictures are lovely it is nice to see faces I believe and very nice faces too!
I think your profile is fine too!
The only advice I could give is just try to get to know people on here either in the forums or find a chat room local to your area.
The other thing you could do is start attending munches or socials in your area these are put on the lets meet up forum.
What ever you decide I wish you both good luck

16 Oct 2008

I think if you use this site then there are a few options. I reckon using the chatrooms is a great way of chatting to people to get a feel of what is about another is to use the forum - Altogether quite different rolleyes

:lol2: But over them all is to get along to the social functions meet people, network, sort some stuff out and then get swinging :swingingchair: :thumbup: Oh and wave

welcome.

16 Oct 2008

Hello and Welcome!
Your profile looks pretty good to me. I think there have been some good suggestions from the peeps above, I think the social idea is a great idea and you'll get to know other couples pressure free!
Hope it all works out.
have fun!

16 Oct 2008

hello and :welcome: we found going in the chatrooms helped to get to know some peeps and going to socials and munches and as far as i can see nothing wrong with your profile just not had much look yet but that can change

16 Oct 2008

Hello you two - you look lovely.
This http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/287128.html might have something to do with it.
But good luck.
.

16 Oct 2008

You took the words out of my mouth tune....looking at the ages of the OP they're in a huge minority on the site.
You both look nice and there is nothing at all wrong with your profile/pics but if i was to suggest you to the better half she would reply with, and this isnt meant to be offensive, "they're still bairns"!!! confused

Now you're only 7-8yrs younger than us, but a lot of people have their set age ranges, and i'd say you fall in a very small minority that are very young!
All that said...we've seen plenty of couple your age in clubs and at munches etc so happy hunting biggrin