Do you think it right that if you are incontact with a person/persons on the understanding that you may meet, That when a decision is made you should be told one way or another.
I personally think that it is only good manners to send a polite thanks or no thanks to anyone concerned.
The reason for this is, last night I was talking via email to a couple ( who I will not name) about a possble meet. this was via a couple of emails. then suddenly the emails stopped and I was left in limbo, not knowing if I should contact someone else or wait for a further reply. this did not happen.
By this time it was to late to arrange anythig else.
What do you think? should it be a rule to send a thanks or No thanks?
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A polite refusal?
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Sex God
Unfortunately that is the nature of the internet and the anonymity it affords. People appear and disappear daily in net forums and chatrooms of all types, and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Just be grateful there are at least some considerate and polite people around.
Sex God
If you don't hear back within two years .......... I think it's a no! 
Gem. x
Gem. x
I had that happen. We contacted a couple and sent the requested face pics. He (on behalf of both) sent us some but with no face. 
We emailed back and forth maybe 3 times over a couple of weeks. He always enclosed graphic pics of them, even though I didn't send anymore of us. Just a letter. He told us personal details, and sounded very personable. :D
His ad asked for a early phone conversation, so I wrote to give our number and a good time to call. :D
Didn't hear anything for 2 weeks.
Saw their ad again in the ad pages which was written in a very arrogant tone and much stronger about no this and no that and no time wasters. I sent a message that said 'timewasters?'
I received back this absolute torrent of abuse about how small my life was, and how he was too busy and didn't fancy us, and to get over it. :shock: :shock:
:taz:
I replied with the same sort of message as this post, as in a polite 'no thank you' would have been nice.
and I thought everything was okay as he was the one doing all the sending of pics, etc.
More abuse arrived in my mailbox. :taz:
:laughabove:
So yes, there are sh*t heads out there. I suppose the best thing to do is not take it personally. :violin:
We emailed back and forth maybe 3 times over a couple of weeks. He always enclosed graphic pics of them, even though I didn't send anymore of us. Just a letter. He told us personal details, and sounded very personable. :D
His ad asked for a early phone conversation, so I wrote to give our number and a good time to call. :D
Didn't hear anything for 2 weeks.
Saw their ad again in the ad pages which was written in a very arrogant tone and much stronger about no this and no that and no time wasters. I sent a message that said 'timewasters?'
I received back this absolute torrent of abuse about how small my life was, and how he was too busy and didn't fancy us, and to get over it. :shock: :shock:
:taz: I replied with the same sort of message as this post, as in a polite 'no thank you' would have been nice.
and I thought everything was okay as he was the one doing all the sending of pics, etc.More abuse arrived in my mailbox. :taz:
:laughabove:
So yes, there are sh*t heads out there. I suppose the best thing to do is not take it personally. :violin:
I had a fella pm me a few days ago and then pop me on his MSN list .. once he had seen my face on webcam he just shut down and has refused to speak to me every since :upset:
Just as well I am thick skinned or I could really be upset .....
I have organised meeting only for folks not to turn up
I even drove 25 miles once in the early days for a no show.. learnt a lot from that one
Yep there truly are some awefully selfish .. downright rude and inconsiderate people here but also fortunately there are some real gems and angels too
DD
Just as well I am thick skinned or I could really be upset .....
I have organised meeting only for folks not to turn up
I even drove 25 miles once in the early days for a no show.. learnt a lot from that one
Yep there truly are some awefully selfish .. downright rude and inconsiderate people here but also fortunately there are some real gems and angels too
DD
Quote by devondelight
I had a fella pm me a few days ago and then pop me on his MSN list .. once he had seen my face on webcam he just shut down and has refused to speak to me every since :upset:
Just as well I am thick skinned or I could really be upset .....
I have organised meeting only for folks not to turn up
I even drove 25 miles once in the early days for a no show.. learnt a lot from that one
Yep there truly are some awefully selfish .. downright rude and inconsiderate people here but also fortunately there are some real gems and angels too
DD
like the avatar :!:
Sex God
Quote by devondelight
I had a fella pm me a few days ago and then pop me on his MSN list .. once he had seen my face on webcam he just shut down and has refused to speak to me every since :upset:
Well DD I wouldn't shut down if I saw yer face on cam............... but I'd sooner see yer arse
Sex God
Quote by cfcuk2004
I even drove 25 miles once in the early days for a no show.. learnt a lot from that one
DD
I once drove 100 miles for one of those!
You think thats bad.......... we once drove to Middlesborough and thats about 250 miles from here........... and yep it was a no show
But not from SH I hasten to add 
Sexlightened
As someone said - it's all a matter of personal culture...
We had lots of timewaisters from one hand (first cpl of times it was quite kicking-off) but also I have to admit - we've had few messages from people we weren't interested in. In the second situation we always try to wrote not just "thanks but no thanks", but a bit longer e-mail..and be as much polite as we can..
It should be a rule to give an answer to anyone who's sent a message to you IMO.
xxx
M
***edit: Himn'Her your avatar always was a "flasing boobs" style? I've just seen this now for the first time
We had lots of timewaisters from one hand (first cpl of times it was quite kicking-off) but also I have to admit - we've had few messages from people we weren't interested in. In the second situation we always try to wrote not just "thanks but no thanks", but a bit longer e-mail..and be as much polite as we can..
It should be a rule to give an answer to anyone who's sent a message to you IMO.
xxx
M
***edit: Himn'Her your avatar always was a "flasing boobs" style? I've just seen this now for the first time
