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A Question about lust?
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mozzarella
yes, you are completly right, but it is the same for love.
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I agree with me
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yes, you are completly right, but it is the same for love.
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I agree with me
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Dear all ...
I apologise before hand... am starting to get used to it.. get it in early ( sorry F but this one got my goat) impudent youth.... please smile benevolently!!!!
I cannot see the connection between becoming more mature and lusting more.... tis true as I mature I appreciate the virtues of the more matur lady more than I did when I was younger, but equally I continue to appreciate the younger lady.... maturity allows us to see what we missed in our youth and the appreciate that which is to come....
gman
I apologise before hand... am starting to get used to it.. get it in early ( sorry F but this one got my goat) impudent youth.... please smile benevolently!!!!
I cannot see the connection between becoming more mature and lusting more.... tis true as I mature I appreciate the virtues of the more matur lady more than I did when I was younger, but equally I continue to appreciate the younger lady.... maturity allows us to see what we missed in our youth and the appreciate that which is to come....
gman
I think lust grows as a person gets older as you get more of an appreciation of other things about a person that stoke the fires and fan the flames....
When young, I think most find their physical lust reigns supreme but with experience of life and real love you unconciously start to find lust enflamed by *many* things.
For me lust is now as easy to be sparked by a word or a look (maybe even more so) as it is by flesh or body parts - I can totally agree with you, mozzarella, it does grow with time.
I think you also notice it more as it's easier to not mistake love and lust for each other as time goes by.....
Carpathian, being a little too serious for once !
When young, I think most find their physical lust reigns supreme but with experience of life and real love you unconciously start to find lust enflamed by *many* things.
For me lust is now as easy to be sparked by a word or a look (maybe even more so) as it is by flesh or body parts - I can totally agree with you, mozzarella, it does grow with time.
I think you also notice it more as it's easier to not mistake love and lust for each other as time goes by.....
Carpathian, being a little too serious for once !
So true carpathian
the sound of a ladies voice, her laughter, her perfume, the glimpse of stocking, the brush of flesh on flesh ( clothed or otherwise) as one ages the various sensed become more attuned... as alan clarke may say ... even her shapely ankle... ( though not maggie T's) her smile a=or the glint in her eye.... have to agree I enjoy them all more as I mature...
Gman
the sound of a ladies voice, her laughter, her perfume, the glimpse of stocking, the brush of flesh on flesh ( clothed or otherwise) as one ages the various sensed become more attuned... as alan clarke may say ... even her shapely ankle... ( though not maggie T's) her smile a=or the glint in her eye.... have to agree I enjoy them all more as I mature...
Gman
Don't worry Gman, let me explain:
I'm afraid we zimmer-pilots are victims of 'Benny Hill Association Syndrome'
This is a new disease, only found in younger people, in which they are unable to perceive anyone over 35 , especially those seen speaking to the opposite sex, as anything other than a leering, slobbering old pervert-hence the name of the disease.
Not much is known about it, other than the fact it seems to be worsened by the application of baseball caps and trainers, and seems to subside, eventually, with advancing age. There also seems to be a direct link -inversely proportional-between the intellect of those afflicted and the severity of the disease. An interesting feature is the selective cognition: older men, as described, are seen as 'perverts', wheras women of a similar age, are 'experienced'.
But don't worry Gman, try not to get offended, after all, they really can't help it.
I'm afraid we zimmer-pilots are victims of 'Benny Hill Association Syndrome'
This is a new disease, only found in younger people, in which they are unable to perceive anyone over 35 , especially those seen speaking to the opposite sex, as anything other than a leering, slobbering old pervert-hence the name of the disease.
Not much is known about it, other than the fact it seems to be worsened by the application of baseball caps and trainers, and seems to subside, eventually, with advancing age. There also seems to be a direct link -inversely proportional-between the intellect of those afflicted and the severity of the disease. An interesting feature is the selective cognition: older men, as described, are seen as 'perverts', wheras women of a similar age, are 'experienced'.
But don't worry Gman, try not to get offended, after all, they really can't help it.
Quote by gmanxxx
Dear all ...
I apologise before hand... am starting to get used to it.. get it in early ( sorry F but this one got my goat) impudent youth.... please smile benevolently!!!!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Go Tiger!
Actually - i said this in another thread before - don't you wish you could meet the person you lost your virginity to just to show them how good you have become?
In your case I'll make an exception IYMBE - you cannot possibly have got better with age! If so you must have been a real brat as a kid!
I am 40 - I lust after a 24 year old - she is very accomodating and seems to lust after a 40 year old as well - funny that! - WOW! :wink:
I havn't lusted more as I have got older - I have just got more sensual with experience!
:roll: :roll: :roll: Fred
I haven't lusted more as I have got older - I have just got more sensual with experience!
Damn Fred, wish I'd written that! As I get older experience counts for a great deal, personally and from my partners. I appreciate more, I savour the attraction and I enjoy each encounter for what it offers. I look forward to the next, but I don't take it for granted.
Not to mention the fact that I am madly in lust with several ladies and gentlemen of the forum! My heart however only belongs to one.
Sappho xxx
Hear hear, Sappho
I find that as I get older, my perception of sex gets greater as well. Perhaps, as Sappho says, it's an experience thing. As one's experience of what others enjoy widens, one's own taste develops.
I certainly find that the pleasure is much more now in trying to please the other, rather than in "in, out, in, out, ahhhhhh"
Nothing turns me on more than seeing another turned on by what I do.
But my word - I'm 33 now - if one's lust keeps developing... what'll I be like at 60???? The mind boggles (so do several other things!)
I find that as I get older, my perception of sex gets greater as well. Perhaps, as Sappho says, it's an experience thing. As one's experience of what others enjoy widens, one's own taste develops.
I certainly find that the pleasure is much more now in trying to please the other, rather than in "in, out, in, out, ahhhhhh"
Nothing turns me on more than seeing another turned on by what I do.
But my word - I'm 33 now - if one's lust keeps developing... what'll I be like at 60???? The mind boggles (so do several other things!)
Sex God
Personally, I wouldn't say I lust more than I used to, in fact I would say that it would have been very difficult to keep up being as horny as a goat (how horny are goats - really ) forever... on the plus side of being older (well, OK, 32) at least now I know what to do and where to go when I am (car park anyone )
) forever... on the plus side of being older (well, OK, 32) at least now I know what to do and where to go when I am (car park anyone ) Once again Swingingheaven's fora (I did Latin once) are coming to my aid. I was worried - really worried about my libido. I thought: 'It's hormonal, obviously'. I did a 'Google' on 'Menopause libido' and got 54,932 results for low libido, how to cure. No - NO - not my problem. But once again I find I am not alone.
So I'm going to stop worrying, questioning, otherwise challenging and just enjoy!!!
Jezzay
So I'm going to stop worrying, questioning, otherwise challenging and just enjoy!!!
Jezzay
