can anyone please give their opinion on my issue as i need to rant!!!!
came bk onto sh after a short break, arranged a meet n then got blanked n was finally given a supposeded reason for why they was cancelling after chasing them to find out? then rearrange another meet for the same night with another member, then a few hours b4 i get another supposeded reason why they aint comming?i know all single guys arnt the same but why do they still try and arrange these meets if they dont intend to go through with them.i never do the chasing and its always the youve ever done this in the past ie arrange something youre not gonna go through with please concider that if the person youre arranging a meet with has children, is that they have to arrange babysitters ect ect, ive now had to cancel my sitter tonight but its still cost me ffs. so please concider this if you just want an ego boost in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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a question for all
and here's us thinking all you single girls had it easy
for what it's worth (probably not a lot) you're not alone, but we would encourage a positive attitude and treat this as a learning experience - now you know at least 2 of the sad no-hopers to keep away from.
best of luck in the future
for what it's worth (probably not a lot) you're not alone, but we would encourage a positive attitude and treat this as a learning experience - now you know at least 2 of the sad no-hopers to keep away from.
best of luck in the future
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can anyone please give their opinion on my issue as i need to rant!!!!
came bk onto sh after a short break, arranged a meet n then got blanked n was finally given a supposeded reason for why they was cancelling after chasing them to find out? then rearrange another meet for the same night with another member, then a few hours b4 i get another supposeded reason why they aint comming?i know all single guys arnt the same but why do they still try and arrange these meets if they dont intend to go through with them.i never do the chasing and its always the youve ever done this in the past ie arrange something youre not gonna go through with please concider that if the person youre arranging a meet with has children, is that they have to arrange babysitters ect ect, ive now had to cancel my sitter tonight but its still cost me ffs. so please concider this if you just want an ego boost in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rome wasn't built in a day!
You've clearly stated you've been here before.
As a newbie (persay) I'd suggest you peruse your meets profile, if they've SHrep , comments......
Paddy
Orgasminator
Hoping you have got over the :censored: by now.
No one likes having their time or money wasted, I have had a small number of similar experiences, but far more positive ones than negative.
I think the internet sometimes allows people to behave like assholes becuase of the inherent anonymity. For most of the 'flakers' the crime is also their punishment - they keep on fantasizing without ever being able to realise them.
Dreamland fappers gotta fap - just wish they wouldn't spoil other peoples opportunities for fun
No one likes having their time or money wasted, I have had a small number of similar experiences, but far more positive ones than negative.
I think the internet sometimes allows people to behave like assholes becuase of the inherent anonymity. For most of the 'flakers' the crime is also their punishment - they keep on fantasizing without ever being able to realise them.
Dreamland fappers gotta fap - just wish they wouldn't spoil other peoples opportunities for fun
Quote by Big_Fraser
Hoping you have got over the :censored: by now.
No one likes having their time or money wasted, I have had a small number of similar experiences, but far more positive ones than negative.
I think the internet sometimes allows people to behave like assholes becuase of the inherent anonymity. For most of the 'flakers' the crime is also their punishment - they keep on fantasizing without ever being able to realise them.
Dreamland fappers gotta fap - just wish they wouldn't spoil other peoples opportunities for fun
Bet your glad you got that winge off your chest!
Nobody likes timewasters, god forbid we've all had experiences of them!
Sex God
Quote by mandsgame38
can anyone please give their opinion on my issue as i need to rant!!!!
came bk onto sh after a short break, arranged a meet n then got blanked n was finally given a supposeded reason for why they was cancelling after chasing them to find out? then rearrange another meet for the same night with another member, then a few hours b4 i get another supposeded reason why they aint comming?i know all single guys arnt the same but why do they still try and arrange these meets if they dont intend to go through with them.i never do the chasing and its always the youve ever done this in the past ie arrange something youre not gonna go through with please concider that if the person youre arranging a meet with has children, is that they have to arrange babysitters ect ect, ive now had to cancel my sitter tonight but its still cost me ffs. so please concider this if you just want an ego boost in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Having just perved your profile, I can not imagine what they were thinking, they must be crazy not to turn up!!!
We have had it also, it can be very trying
Hope things go better in the future for you
Sex God
It's never a surprise if a single guy doesn't turn up for an arranged meet...many of them aren't free to do so to begin with..many of the others just get off on the chat or exchange of messages, and of course when they've cum that's the end of their interest. If you add to that the number who will just chicken out or will be unable to live up to their promises....or even aren't the guy in the pics, then you're in a minefield of disappointments. Go to a social or a club and meet some genuine people, or use the shrep as a first guide to meeting...it's far from infallable, but it is a marker of some kind.
Sex God
Quote by Ian_Hart
we have been let down too......happens to us all, but the shrep thing is a really good idea x
ian & jo xx
:bounce:
Mands,
echo that, whenever possible always use the Shrep 'create meeting' functionality, that way can always use the Meet Rep feedback on any meetings, whether they happened or not.
OKies, of the other profile doesn't have Shrep just good old fashioned nouse and hope all works out.
Quote by mandsgame38
can anyone please give their opinion on my issue as i need to rant!!!!
came bk onto sh after a short break, arranged a meet n then got blanked n was finally given a supposeded reason for why they was cancelling after chasing them to find out? then rearrange another meet for the same night with another member, then a few hours b4 i get another supposeded reason why they aint comming?i know all single guys arnt the same but why do they still try and arrange these meets if they dont intend to go through with them.i never do the chasing and its always the youve ever done this in the past ie arrange something youre not gonna go through with please concider that if the person youre arranging a meet with has children, is that they have to arrange babysitters ect ect, ive now had to cancel my sitter tonight but its still cost me ffs. so please concider this if you just want an ego boost in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Having peeked your profile, think we need to chat. May be arrange a coffee, and take it from there. I have never canceled a meet with a lady with less that 2 weeks notice.
I dont except some get cold feet, thats ok as long as they tell me. Others just play cat and mouse, those I wish were not here.
It's part of being on a site like this.
Travis
Sex God
Quote by mandsgame38
can anyone please give their opinion on my issue as i need to rant!!!!
came bk onto sh after a short break, arranged a meet n then got blanked n was finally given a supposeded reason for why they was cancelling after chasing them to find out? then rearrange another meet for the same night with another member, then a few hours b4 i get another supposeded reason why they aint comming?i know all single guys arnt the same but why do they still try and arrange these meets if they dont intend to go through with them.i never do the chasing and its always the youve ever done this in the past ie arrange something youre not gonna go through with please concider that if the person youre arranging a meet with has children, is that they have to arrange babysitters ect ect, ive now had to cancel my sitter tonight but its still cost me ffs. so please concider this if you just want an ego boost in the future!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
n if the couple u` r planning to meet have kids....
their plans can go up in the air if something happens n their kids break n arm or something..
n they`re way worse when they teenagers +
Sex God
Mands it has happened to us many times as well. It's annoying but at least we are a couple so we still get some fun amongst ourselves.
Wisen up and learn a lesson from this, that way the next guy hopefully won't cost you time or money.
Wisen up and learn a lesson from this, that way the next guy hopefully won't cost you time or money.
I think you hit the nail on the head with 'egos'. It's very easy to be behind the computer and so yeah i'll do that or be the extension of the 'real' person you are. So when push comes to shove and your suddenly going to be put in front of someone men do what men do - make excuses.
Personally i think people who allow it to come that far are 'booooooo' - wanting to be someone your not and come across as 'genuine' and intersted etc etc is, well something i think EVERYONE has done at some point in their lives - come on be honest, we've all 'bigged' ourselves up once in a while - however messing people about in the process and having people arrage meets and make the effort is not the way.
I personally would rather take a 'rejection' up front than 'play the big man' and then have to back track with excuses and piss people off.
Hey, face it, we should be saving our energies for the real-deal, not 'flirting about'
That make any sence? No? My excuse is i've not had coffee!!!!!
Personally i think people who allow it to come that far are 'booooooo' - wanting to be someone your not and come across as 'genuine' and intersted etc etc is, well something i think EVERYONE has done at some point in their lives - come on be honest, we've all 'bigged' ourselves up once in a while - however messing people about in the process and having people arrage meets and make the effort is not the way.
I personally would rather take a 'rejection' up front than 'play the big man' and then have to back track with excuses and piss people off.
Hey, face it, we should be saving our energies for the real-deal, not 'flirting about'
That make any sence? No? My excuse is i've not had coffee!!!!!
