A question for single guys on the forum,

4 Mar 2005

Sorry for being away for awhile, work and sleep, perhaps, and perhaps only, i could have titled this thread differently, However do please realise that this wasnt an attack on any one guy in particular.
I agree with all the points regarding the forum, the highs and lows, ups and downs ect and generaly ive never had a problem with anyone at all, indeed far from it.
At this point ill try to justify what i meant by "pretentious" making (unjustified) claims to special merit...
As soon as someone has a problem with a pillock, ( and lets be fair theres more than one or two ) whos just joined the forum, "some" guys on this site jump up and down saying "id never do that", " isnt he a ..." Saying things for effect, trying to fit in, trying to be liked so much. Look at me im a good guy pick me, Ok they actually might mean it but some go way over board, over the top,
The guys who say " Why do i get hundreds of replies to my advert, but there all from Gays, Any single guy who has advertised with a profile knows that they very rarely get replies.
And theres more..
However, what really got my goat, are the the guys who join a swinging site, ( sorry im still laughing at this) and try to make out they would prefer someone who has a good personality and that looks dont matter. Giggle i nearly fell out of my chair,(sorry full leather bound executive computer desk seating facility)
A, no matter how long you converse with someone in either the forum or chat room, you simply cant get a good perspective of thier personality, why? Because you can only base your thoughts on someone with the information that THEY are giving you.
( and for anyone who doesnt believe this, Hi im Wilki, im worth millions, ive got a dick that can expand to any size to suit all, erm no it doesnt really work does it.
When i heard the personality coment, it really made me think christ guys, get a grip, stop making yourself look so bloody stupid. we all know why we are hear, and yes the social side is great too. but for crying out load guys, just be honest.

4 Mar 2005

Quote by Wilki
Ive been a member of this forum for quite a while now, and i must admit, watched and read, more than contributed.
So why are you here? and what do you expect and want?

Ok gotta be honest.
Dirty women and loadsa larfs
So kill me
Lb :smoke:

4 Mar 2005

Quote by Wilki
As soon as someone has a problem with a pillock, ( and lets be fair theres more than one or two ) whos just joined the forum, "some" guys on this site jump up and down saying "id never do that", " isnt he a ..." Saying things for effect, trying to fit in, trying to be liked so much. Look at me im a good guy pick me, Ok they actually might mean it but some go way over board, over the top,

Now this I like. Some also leave me feeling that way. I don't know them though, so I give credit until proved wrong.
However, as you said later in your post:

no matter how long you converse with someone in either the forum or chat room, you simply cant get a good perspective of thier personality, why? Because you can only base your thoughts on someone with the information that THEY are giving you.

It is unrealistic to expect to know a person on what you read. You can only judge their posts.
lhk
Kat

4 Mar 2005

My point exactly,
How the hell can you want to have sex and meet someone thru an advert, forum or in the chatroom, just based on wanting to meet a good personality. and not care what they look like, bloody stupid. and they dont realize it makes them look pathetic. Thats what this whole post has been about.

5 Mar 2005

Quote by Wilki
My point exactly,
How the hell can you want to have sex and meet someone thru an advert, forum or in the chatroom, just based on wanting to meet a good personality. and not care what they look like, bloody stupid. and they dont realize it makes them look pathetic. Thats what this whole post has been about.

Because sex is just not about what people look like. It boils down to how people treat their sexuality. I'm here because I'd rather have sex with someone who enjoyed the fun & sensual side of sex; looks, size etc is not so important!!!
And if what your are saying is what this post is about, then why not say that in the first place, rather than letting a lot of people mistakenly post honest answers to a seemingly innocent post!!!
In future, be as honest as those that responded to you post!!!!!!!!
Not that I've had a bad day today,
D x
I can bite when needed.

5 Mar 2005

Wilki you should be glad that people like personality rotflmao

Did I say that bolt

Dave_Notts
ps Alex says if you touch her crystals again......you need to change your name to Wilki-etta lol

5 Mar 2005

The internet gives people the chance to get an indication of peoples personalities but this can only really be achieved by meeting them.
SH offers this opportunity with munchies.
When I first arrived here I questioned the motive of those single guys who said the were mainly here for the social side. Now, having hung around for a while, I can believe them.
Perhaps if the new single guys had the attitude of, coming here for a laugh and to get to know people, they may find the rest will come naturally.

6 Mar 2005

Quote by darkniven
My point exactly,
How the hell can you want to have sex and meet someone thru an advert, forum or in the chatroom, just based on wanting to meet a good personality. and not care what they look like, bloody stupid. and they dont realize it makes them look pathetic. Thats what this whole post has been about.

Because sex is just not about what people look like. It boils down to how people treat their sexuality. I'm here because I'd rather have sex with someone who enjoyed the fun & sensual side of sex; looks, size etc is not so important!!!
And if what your are saying is what this post is about, then why not say that in the first place, rather than letting a lot of people mistakenly post honest answers to a seemingly innocent post!!!
In future, be as honest as those that responded to you post!!!!!!!!
Not that I've had a bad day today,
D x
I can bite when needed.
With all due respect, the question asked was
Why are you here, expect and want?
Which covers most of what has been said and written in the post, however bite as much you want my friend, when you read some of the so called single male crap that is posted, its embarrassing, only my opinion. but still think that for a guy to come on a swinging site to look for personality alone, is a joke, and for people to believe him.. is more of a joke.

6 Mar 2005

In a longterm relatioship with a guy and I'm seeking a woman/women for sex - I love sleeping with women but don't really understand them - was married for 10 years!!
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-230740.html

6 Mar 2005

i guess i joined because i wanted to see what was going on in my neck of the placed a couple of ads,replied to a couple and had very little i come on here and post the odd reply on the forums and try to get to know some new peeps and take nothing for does seem to be bit of a stigma with single guys which i take exception to,but hey what can you do.i guess you just have to put up with all the assholes who give you a bad name and hope people will take you for who you are

6 Mar 2005

I originally joined another site as a relatively easy way of getting some sex. Looking at the adverts & seeing what people liked to do broadened my outlook, & introduced me to the delights of swinging. Some time later I joined this site simply to have an advert, & then about a year later I looked at the rest of the site & discovered the Forum. I have always preferred to be friends with people that I fucked, but the Forum reinforced that & I have learnt loads more.
Interesting thread.

6 Mar 2005

Just here for a laugh not really expecting too much. I think you should stop worrying mate if people piss you off just ignore them, its quite simple really