okay , you`ve chated and exchanged messages, you`ve arranged the time and place to meet.
you turn up early , so that you can see this person/persons first, you catch a glimpse or you even here them talking ...you`ve taken an instant dislike to them now that you`ve met them in person as it were.
would you be a total git if you immediatley made your excuses and left...or would you spend some time with them?
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a question of etiquette- or have you bolted
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Quote by splendid_
I wouldn't want anyone to have a cuppa with me if they aint interested in fucking me.
I am about to spend a weekend with a group of swingers and I won't be having a cuppa with any of them !!
Are they all verified? :twisted:
Quote by splendid_
I wouldn't want anyone to have a cuppa with me if they aint interested in fucking me.
I am about to spend a weekend with a group of swingers and I won't be having a cuppa with any of them !!
well thats kinda hit the nail on the proverbial head. cheers splendid...it don`t come anymore candid than that :2fingers:
Quote by robhambledon
I wouldn't want anyone to have a cuppa with me if they aint interested in fucking me.
I am about to spend a weekend with a group of swingers and I won't be having a cuppa with any of them !!
well thats kinda hit the nail on the proverbial head. cheers splendid...it don`t come anymore candid than that :2fingers:
It's funny - she's not usually that candid :rascal:
Quote by BIoke
I wouldn't want anyone to have a cuppa with me if they aint interested in fucking me.
I am about to spend a weekend with a group of swingers and I won't be having a cuppa with any of them !!
well thats kinda hit the nail on the proverbial head. cheers splendid...it don`t come anymore candid than that :2fingers:
It's funny - she's not usually that candid :rascal:
do you mean she usually beats about the ...erm bush :smile2:
Quote by BIoke
do you mean she usually beats about the ...erm bush :smile2:
I think so, but let's ask her - splendid, are you a bush beater... babe? <snigger> :rascal:
I wish I could say yes..... but that would lead me down the road of talking about how all women have been brain washed by the porn industry and a patriarchal society to wax their bush off. So, I will say yes - when possible- and no!
Quote by splendid_
do you mean she usually beats about the ...erm bush :smile2:
I think so, but let's ask her - splendid, are you a bush beater... babe? <snigger> :rascal:
I wish I could say yes..... but that would lead me down the road of talking about how all women have been brain washed by the porn industry and a patriarchal society to wax their bush off. So, I will say yes - when possible- and no!
You wouldn't want to get your bra burning and yer bush waxing mixed up :shock:
I0d say that depends on circumstances...if one of the two (or both) has made the effort of driving a long distance, it seems appropriate to me to at least have a polite chat and a drink..in the end it's not always about shagging...for me.. .quality time is worth meeting someone even if it's not leading to the bedroom.
but yes..better to be upfront, on average.
but yes..better to be upfront, on average.
Sexlightened
For my part, if someone is good enough to talk to online, then they are equally good enough to chat to face to face regardless of what may or may not tanspire. If the other person wishes not to, then that';s equally fine by me.
Sex God
I know it's a theoretical possibility that when a pair of people or couple meet face to face it all goes horribly wrong. But with loads of chat, phone calls, pictures or cam; what are the actual chances of all that being right and face to face being so bad that having a drink together is unbearable?
Just theorising here - not saying anyone should ever go through anything they feel less than comfortable with - I know I wouldn't.
Just theorising here - not saying anyone should ever go through anything they feel less than comfortable with - I know I wouldn't.
