Hi,
There seems to be quite a lot of people who post their ad in the wrong category - essentially men seeking couples or women, and posting in the "Couples / Women seeking Men" category.
It seems the posting form is a bit misleading. Posters are asked to choose in which section they'd like their post to appear, and it kind of makes sense for a man to publish your ad in the "Women seeking Men" section - "Hey, I should send my message to people looking for me !"
Of course, there is an advice message about which section to post in, but the options menu happens to roll down over the message and hide it ! (besides, as any programmer will tell you, users never read instructions anyway )
Maybe it might help if the "Section" part simply went like that:
Instead of "Your ad will appear in : "
Try : "I am a : "
Saw this on another site, and it seems to work fine. Less ambiguity, hopefully fewer mistakes, thus less work for our beloved admins
Oh, by the way... Thomas here, 25yo French guy in Birmingham - seeking to improve my sex life (maybe) and my English (definitely) :D Hello everybody !
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Thomas,
25yo guy in Birmingham, student for life, practicing every day !