A timely reminder

8 Aug 2006

Quote by DeeCee
... probably cos theres no live titty action.

Hi Y'all.
Not aimed at Dee but just using the quote to ask my question. What is defined as "Live Titty Action" as I have a sneaking suspicion I may be guilty ... unintentionally. I have a habit and have had it for many years that I caress my breasts ( on the outside of my clothes ) when I am relaxed. I do not do it purposely and it is pure habit. redface

Abi xxx

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Abilene
... probably cos theres no live titty action.

Hi Y'all.
Not aimed at Dee but just using the quote to ask my question. What is defined as "Live Titty Action" as I have a sneaking suspicion I may be guilty ... unintentionally. I have a habit and have had it for many years that I caress my breasts ( on the outside of my clothes ) when I am relaxed. I do not do it purposely and it is pure habit. redface

Abi xxx
Sounds like live titty action to me although I really need to see it with my own eyes before I can be certain cool

8 Aug 2006

Quote by sheddy
Sounds like live titty action to me although I really need to see it with my own eyes before I can be certain

You bad boy smackbottom

8 Aug 2006

me too.....
i know live titty action when i see it......

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Abilene
... probably cos theres no live titty action.

Hi Y'all.
Not aimed at Dee but just using the quote to ask my question. What is defined as "Live Titty Action" as I have a sneaking suspicion I may be guilty ... unintentionally. I have a habit and have had it for many years that I caress my breasts ( on the outside of my clothes ) when I am relaxed. I do not do it purposely and it is pure habit. redface

Abi xxx
No i wouldnt call that titty action.

8 Aug 2006

Quote by DeeCee
me too.....
i know live titty action when i see it......

Well, Dee if it is me that you are talking about and you have at any time seen me do this and it offended you then I apologise from the bottom of my heart. Sorry.
Abi xx

8 Aug 2006

8 Aug 2006

When I said this about the chat rooms Sheddy I got a roasting from the chat ops .

8 Aug 2006

lol, how easy it it to get peoples backs up on here! rolleyes

i sent this girl a PM saying she looked great (not asking to meet or shag her or anything) in her avitar (which was no different to what i said on a thread) and this thread is the result FFS??
it was a simple compliment and nothing else and if that offends anyone then TBH i find that odd, i have tried my best to get along on the site but this is a reminder to me about how single guys are treated here.....had the compliment come from a couple then i doubt this thread would exist
but anyway as i said in the rude and offensive PM
take care
regards, chris

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Silk and Big G
When I said this about the chat rooms Sheddy I got a roasting from the chat ops .

Not all the OP's Big G wink

one guy from kent, I doubt this thread is a result of "your" PM hun...

8 Aug 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren

Also what is considered a good length for a 1st pm.

About 9" :giggle:
Note to self.......Must try harder sad

9 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
lol, how easy it it to get peoples backs up on here!
i sent this girl a PM saying she looked great (not asking to meet or shag her or anything) in her avitar (which was no different to what i said on a thread) and this thread is the result FFS??
it was a simple compliment and nothing else and if that offends anyone then TBH i find that odd, i have tried my best to get along on the site but this is a reminder to me about how single guys are treated here.....had the compliment come from a couple then i doubt this thread would exist
but anyway as i said in the rude and offensive PM
take care
regards, chris

:doh:
You think you are the only single guy that sends PMs? So automatically you think this is about you?
Single guys don't get treated any differently... there are plenty of single men/women that get along just fine in here.
The only people (men/women/couples whatever) that get 'treated differently' are those who are rude, obnoxious etc etc. Just like they would if the behaved in 'real life' the way they sometimes do on SH.

9 Aug 2006

i was directed to this thread via PM by kate and have been mentioned more than once!
i wasnt aware that shady and posh were a couple, i even (as mentioned by posh) sent a PM to sheddy saying i didnt realise redface

9 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
i was directed to this thread via PM by kate and have been mentioned more than once!
i wasnt aware that shady and posh were a couple, i even (as mentioned by posh) sent a PM to sheddy saying i didnt realise

Well what's done is done, and I apologise if I had my wires crossed. (What's new!)
This is something you have to sort out between you and Sheddy and Posk Kate, and I really shouldn't be sticking my oar in! (again.. what's new!).
All I would say is if the comment you sent was something that you could walk up to a stranger and say without getting a clump round the head, then you don't have much to worry about.
If however the comment you sent was rude, offensive, lewd or something you couldn't say in real life then I'm afraid I have little sympathy for you.
Now I will stop sticking my oar in and go and do some work! biggrin

9 Aug 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Now I will stop sticking my oar in and go and do some work!

Damn ... I wanna work where you work. If I were to access this site at work then lights would start flashing, bells would start ringing and I would be escorted "nicely" to the door by big beefy men. Wait ... let me think about that option for a minute or two.

9 Aug 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Single guys don't get treated any differently... .

not that old chestnut.......... i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that

9 Aug 2006

Quote by DeeCee
Single guys don't get treated any differently... .

not that old chestnut.......... i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that
Surely the people who discriminate in such a way aren't worth bothering with anyway?
Sorry, I may have jumped in here half way through somthing.
H.x

9 Aug 2006

Quote by H-x
Single guys don't get treated any differently... .

not that old chestnut.......... i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that
Surely the people who discriminate in such a way aren't worth bothering with anyway?
Sorry, I may have jumped in here half way through somthing.
H.x
i think your right............about the first part that is ...............
no need to apologise... ive said my bit............

9 Aug 2006

Hmmmm

I really don't think threads should be started on the back of a row about a misunderstanding in PM. If it was offensive it should have been reported to the mods not a thread started in a bit of a subverted 'name and shame' without naming. rolleyes

If someone upsets you enough that you write a thread about it then I'd be inclined to log off and come back a bit later. confused

Tons of one line posts and one line threads get me more irritated than one line PMs anyway. smile

9 Aug 2006

Quote by DeeCee
Single guys don't get treated any differently... .

not that old chestnut.......... i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that
I apologise if I have said something wrong DeeCee, I'm only speaking from personal experience, and in my personal experience people have been treated in accordance with their own behaviour.
I myself would like to think that I wouldn't treat a single guy differently just because he is what he is. The way I respond to people in life, whether it's on here or at wok etc, is based on our interactions, not on any preconceived idea of status etc.
No offence meant, just my thoughts.

9 Aug 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Single guys don't get treated any differently... .

not that old chestnut.......... i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that
I apologise if I have said something wrong DeeCee, I'm only speaking from personal experience, and in my personal experience people have been treated in accordance with their own behaviour.
I myself would like to think that I wouldn't treat a single guy differently just because he is what he is. The way I respond to people in life, whether it's on here or at wok etc, is based on our interactions, not on any preconceived idea of status etc.
No offence meant, just my thoughts.
u dont need to apologise ...... when i said "i think youll find theres a few who dont accept that" i wasnt talking about me..... i just recall threads "bashing single males" and those complaining about it.
the only thing i get upset about is when people are insulting and abusive ( to me)... or prejudge me without even knowing me...althiugh i for one accept i have a tendancy to be less than perfect.........on occasion
wink

9 Aug 2006

Quote by eroticuk
Hmmmm
I really don't think threads should be started on the back of a row about a misunderstanding in PM. If it was offensive it should have been reported to the mods not a thread started in a bit of a subverted 'name and shame' without naming. If someone upsets you enough that you write a thread about it then I'd be inclined to log off and come back a bit later.
Tons of one line posts and one line threads get me more irritated than one line PMs anyway.

just for the record sheddy did not start this thread off the back of anyone in particulars PM......someone appears to have taken it this way after i directed him to this thread..... trying to be helpful.......unfortunately it appears the this member took it the wrong way.....
i in no way said that his PM was offensive.....but i did suggest that he should look at this.....
as for naming and shaming......neither of us have ever done this and if something was offensive we would of course report it to the apropriate party.....
well i tried to be helpful........but the way things are going at the moment it appears you get more slated for helping than just flaming people........
mad

9 Aug 2006

PoshKate :therethere:
I'm positive that 99.9% of folk see this thread for what it is, a genuine attempt to help other SH members, and I'm sure it will!
:thumbup:

10 Aug 2006

Quote by eroticuk
Hmmmm
I really don't think threads should be started on the back of a row about a misunderstanding in PM. If it was offensive it should have been reported to the mods not a thread started in a bit of a subverted 'name and shame' without naming. If someone upsets you enough that you write a thread about it then I'd be inclined to log off and come back a bit later.
Tons of one line posts and one line threads get me more irritated than one line PMs anyway.

aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris

10 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris

That comment is out of order, I think. Just because someone has a particular kind of avatar, does not mean they should expect pm's from all and sundry.

10 Aug 2006

Quote by Freckledbird

aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris

That comment is out of order, I think. Just because someone has a particular kind of avatar, does not mean they should expect pm's from all and sundry.
I agree totally FB!
That comment is bang out of order! mad

10 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris

Are you saying that you have less respect for someone who has a raunchy avatar than you do for someone who doesn't, because that's what you're implying. Just because PK chooses to represent herself here in a cirtain way doesn't give all and sundry the right to address her in a derogatry manner. Everyone here should be treated with respect - unless they give you cause not to, maybe you should give this some consideration before posting again.
H.x

10 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
Hmmmm
I really don't think threads should be started on the back of a row about a misunderstanding in PM. If it was offensive it should have been reported to the mods not a thread started in a bit of a subverted 'name and shame' without naming. If someone upsets you enough that you write a thread about it then I'd be inclined to log off and come back a bit later.
Tons of one line posts and one line threads get me more irritated than one line PMs anyway.

aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris
my word........ you really have got the arrogance bit down to a tee. Well done.... My avatar was picked purely to titilate men... particularly you. confused

seriously... do you think that when people post any type pictures on here they lose the right to choice, freewill and privacy??? rolleyes

if you do, think again..... I can walk down the street naked and it would give no-one anymore rights than if I was fully clothed.... :shock:
when you have finished growing up come back and play. mad

10 Aug 2006

Quote by one guy from kent
aint that the truth!!, picking an avitar that doesnt have your ass in doggystyle might also help!! (if you really dont want the attention pick another picture)
i didnt come here to offend people and i can say that i have not said anything to offend anyone on here
regards, chris

You have no fucking idea how angry I am now but as i've just worked two, thirteen hour shifts with practically no sleep in between (my choice) I'm not going to comment much untill I've at least had a few hours kip. But I have one thing to add and it's the same as kate said. this thread was not started because of you so stop flattering yourself. We have been getting spam from couples, single fems and to be honest yours didn't bother us in the slightest it just made us laugh (for all the wrong reasons). But your constent paranoia brings one phrase to mind "me doth think the man protests too much". I'm helpfull Kate is helpfull and she genuinelly was trying to help you when she refered you to my post.

Are you sure?