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A view from a Bi fem....

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through the years of being on the scene.....
single bi fems have been slated even more then the single males....
so i decided what the hell i'll give you my opinion ( please note in some peoples view its not right but for me this is how i see it.)
i admit when i started on the scene it was a ego boost all these people hounded me, wanted me to play and so i did..... i travelled up and down the country and who know me well..... will know the milage on my lil car RIP it did a good job for me......
but after the first year the craving died, i always told myself if the buzz went out of it, if my heart wasnt in my throat i would stop as it stands i still get very shy and butterflys hence why i still play...
to some people im well known and to others i'm not....
anyway as i was going to say.... everyone is on here for there own pleasures and when your a single female you still want to be cared for, you still want to know people are there as friends..... i came on here and found what i thought was a good few friends i also found out how easy it when you a Single Bi Fem are placed in danger whose there for you and who isn't......
all i say on this one is if a Single Bi Fem doesnt feel secure then they will cancel as only they can judge on how far they want to push themselves to play....
ive seen more and more single bi fems are few and far between i just wonder if its because so many treat them like a rag doll play and then ditch smile
i do wonder????
gurly
very well said have to say agree totally
after being on this site as a single bi fem and a couple i have seen the different way single females can be treated too and sometimes it makes you stop and think
we are all here for our own means and gains but shouldnt stop people realising everyone has feelings as well and it is not nice to be used by anybody , couples have each other to talk too make decisions single females have to make there own mind up
still love it here though
nawty xxx
Can I offer an experiment where you three meet me on a large king size bed and demonstrate this ragdoll manouvere? I am willing to take one for science research innocent
Dave_Notts
Gurllllll, you know im str8, but am always here if you ever wana chat or blow off steam, you know were we live, and your welcome anytime xx--xx
Its quite obvious some people are just here for the sex. Some members dont want to grow relationships beyond that we all have our own aims views and goals. Maybe some members are only comfortable involving others in their relationships up to a certain level. I guess just be careful and choose playmates or more that suit your own criteria.
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Its quite obvious some people are just here for the sex. Some members dont want to grow relationships beyond that we all have our own aims views and goals. Maybe some members are only comfortable involving others in their relationships up to a certain level. I guess just be careful and choose playmates or more that suit your own criteria.

it is in nothing to do with growning a relationship...... but as i state single fems are treated more like a rag doll smile
Couples do too although I accept that life is made a little easier by having a partner in pervery.
Oh not in terms of pulling, in terms of having another perspective on any potentially difficult situation.
This is an interesting topic. We can see where you are coming from Gurly and can see why alot of girls would feel that way.
We are active in the scene with other couples and have made some good friends who we continue to see.
We'd love to meet a single girl for some fun as its something we have never had the opportunity to try and believe in treating others as we would want to be treated ourselves however as yet we haven't had a girl agree to meet us.
So we'd like to ask if there is anything you look for in particular that would make you feel better about meeting a particular couple?
We have tried everything we can think of to show we are genuine and not a shag and forget type. So I guess we're curious if we are missing something from a girls perspective?
Xxx