Academy of Female Satisfaction (AFS)

27 Nov 2005

Quote by Darkfire
perhaps the point i was trying to get across was not so much about how much foreplay there is, or how long you can simply keep thrusting for...... I think the main thing that we, and certainly I want, is EFFORT. Its that favorite SH saying again - you get out of it what you put in, and its exactly the same for sex!
Someone makes the effort to look nice, dress well, wear sexy underwear or whatever other effort they've put into a meet for you, I think the very least that should be offered is compliments, and the effort reciprocated. Is it really too much to ask? :twisted:

You are absolutely right; point taken and recorded on page1.

27 Nov 2005

Quote by kjb01
perhaps the point i was trying to get across was not so much about how much foreplay there is, or how long you can simply keep thrusting for...... I think the main thing that we, and certainly I want, is EFFORT. Its that favorite SH saying again - you get out of it what you put in, and its exactly the same for sex!
Someone makes the effort to look nice, dress well, wear sexy underwear or whatever other effort they've put into a meet for you, I think the very least that should be offered is compliments, and the effort reciprocated. Is it really too much to ask? :twisted:

You are absolutely right; point taken and recorded on page1.
Hear Hear!.......................a little time and effort pays dividends in the future, goes for everything in life!
Steff

27 Nov 2005

correct...but sometimes no matter how much time and effort you put in, if the mutual respect and love have disappeared (as it can do when people change overtime and relationships get taken for granted), there is very little that Effort can contribute, but to admit and look elsewhere.
But Effort is important in any new/old relationship as competition grows; these days, young lads will have to be well groomed, wear expensive designer outfit, have their nails done, put make up on, go to the Gym regular, look after their hair and look after their sexual health, as otherwise the lady who does make the effort, will soon look elsewhere. Do i sound like an old fart or what???

27 Nov 2005

Quote by kjb01
But Effort is important in any new/old relationship as competition grows; these days, young lads will have to be well groomed, wear expensive designer outfit, have their nails done, put make up on, go to the Gym regular, look after their hair and look after their sexual health, as otherwise the lady who does make the effort, will soon look elsewhere. Do i sound like an old fart or what???

I think this one's a given anyway - well, it had better be!! :jagsatwork:
dunno about the designer outfits, make up and nails done on blokes though - jeans and a decent fitting tshirt work fine for me - as long as they're clean! make up? nooooooooo, nails dont have to be manicured - just short & clean will do nicely. I'd even say the just-home-from-the-building-site look works fine for me as long as he's washed his hands and taken care of personal hygiene... Been sweating like a pig at work all day and you want me to put what in my mouth??? :shock:
Effort wise I dont think it hurts - if you're 'arrannging' a meet rather than say pulling someone in a club - to perhaps make the effort of getting a bottle or two of her favorite wine....in proper wine glasses not mugs... you know, these little things that blokes just dont bother with when they *think* they're guaranteed a shag!

27 Nov 2005

Well I am still looking for that unique man who really does want to satisfy me before anything else :shock: :shock: I am constantly surprised by men who say they have years of experience in satisfying women and then go on to final stage of shagging before I have blinked hahahahahaha well not quite but it really does interest me that men may think that their cock and penetration is what turns on a woman :shock: :shock: sorry to be blunt on a Sunday morning but I am still flumoxed by this one or maybe its me redface

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27 Nov 2005

Quote by chrisjane4fun
CALISTA............ he wud surley be too good to be true lol ..... when u find one like that plz plz plz send him on

LOL Morbius comes very close to that I'm happy to say biggrin

I'm sure he won't mind being loaned out :twisted: :twisted:
C x

27 Nov 2005

Quote by Darkfire
]No No No
ooo you blokes just dont get it do you - I spell it out loud and clear and you lot still think we want materialistic side and sod the sex!
it has to come as a package - materialism = we want to be treated like a lady, bit of respect, and if that's not dooable, diamonds will suffice.
But material goods and gifts are no good on their own, this only works when they're hand delivered by a 6ft sex god with a 10 inch cock! :lol2:
oh, and i forgot the ability to breath through ears bit
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Damn Damn damn Darkfire - I'm an inch short in the cock department - The rest is not a problem smile

Being an A level biology student helps too - I just knew it would - one day ;) :P

27 Nov 2005

Quote by corriefem
Well I am still looking for that unique man who really does want to satisfy me before anything else :shock: :shock: I am constantly surprised by men who say they have years of experience in satisfying women and then go on to final stage of shagging before I have blinked hahahahahaha well not quite but it really does interest me that men may think that their cock and penetration is what turns on a woman :shock: :shock: sorry to be blunt on a Sunday morning but I am still flumoxed by this one or maybe its me ops: :oops: :oops: :lol: :lol: :lol:

This is why we need the ACADEMY :lol: I wish they would teach this at schools, but men learn through years of painful experience and torture that women are really sophisticated emotional beings who may fall for a man not for his looks or cock-size but for how thoughtful he is and how much he cares for her.

27 Nov 2005

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27 Nov 2005

Quote by davidsplayroom
So there you go I have opened myself to ridicule, but I promise to keep trying ladies.

Know exactly where you're coming from (no pun intended)

27 Nov 2005

Quote by davidsplayroom
Well I am still looking for that unique man who really does want to satisfy me before anything else :shock: :shock: I am constantly surprised by men who say they have years of experience in satisfying women and then go on to final stage of shagging before I have blinked hahahahahaha well not quite but it really does interest me that men may think that their cock and penetration is what turns on a woman :shock: :shock: sorry to be blunt on a Sunday morning but I am still flumoxed by this one or maybe its me ops: :oops: :oops: :lol: :lol: :lol:

I'm sure that you will all laugh but I for one have been trying, for years, to truly satisfy my women because I do really want to. I think I have even managed it a couple of times, not bragging, but I think I have. I truly believe sex is a giving thing and both parties really should be concentrating on pleasing the other not themselves. I totally agree with many of the comments quoted in the original post about taking time to bring a woman to the point that she is really ready and wanting penetration. When she whispers â€˜just fuck me nowâ€™. My biggest problem comes when we do get to the penetrative sex part. I get close to reaching a climax and I have to slow down or change positions just to create time for me to calm and control myself keeping hard without actually climaxing myself so I can keep going longer. This often results in her saying â€˜oh f.f.s. donâ€™t stop now!â€™ so evidently she was close too, but not fully satisfied.
So there you go I have opened myself to ridicule, but I promise to keep trying ladies.
Seriously you won't be alone in this, hubby and I find that a quick wank beforehand stops that a fair bit, it's impossible (I suspect) that any man could always manage to bring the lady off first, practice and timing I guess, which if you are a single male I guess is sometimes difficult.
I blame you men and the obsession you have with wanking, all your life you train yourselves to come quickly so the minute Wicked Willy gets any action your fucked (metaphorically speaking of course ;) )
C x

27 Nov 2005

Quote by Happy Cats
Wheres your self respect?
Just slap her on the arse and tell her to beg!

My kinda guy :twisted:

27 Nov 2005

Quote by davidsplayroom
I'm sure that you will all laugh but I for one have been trying, for years, to truly satisfy my women because I do really want to. I think I have even managed it a couple of times, not bragging, but I think I have. I truly believe sex is a giving thing and both parties really should be concentrating on pleasing the other not themselves. I totally agree with many of the comments quoted in the original post about taking time to bring a woman to the point that she is really ready and wanting penetration. When she whispers â€˜just fuck me nowâ€™. My biggest problem comes when we do get to the penetrative sex part. I get close to reaching a climax and I have to slow down or change positions just to create time for me to calm and control myself keeping hard without actually climaxing myself so I can keep going longer. This often results in her saying â€˜oh f.f.s. donâ€™t stop now!â€™ so evidently she was close too, but not fully satisfied.

Thanks for this frank openning of your heart; so many men feel the same but their ego stops them from admitting; I also think excessive quick wanking so that you don't get caught from way back when ur young (as Calista was saying) is a major problem as you lose that control you were talking about, resulting in premature ejaculation in most men. Basically men and women's bodies work on different clocks and synchronisation of the climax point is a fairly modern and new phenomenon as our ancestors only had sex to procreate. Learning to hold your load and time it right is a gift that some men have mastered which is very valuable and appreciated by women (experts please contribute your knowledge); taking your mind off the job just before climax may do the trick but as you said may not be the right thing to do either.
It would be nice if our women could do hypnosis and order us to shoot our load when they were ready and not before. :shock:

27 Nov 2005

Quote by berksbex

Wheres your self respect?
Just slap her on the arse and tell her to beg!

My kinda guy :twisted:
Yet again proves that it does have it's followers with some ladies.

27 Nov 2005

How about Viagra or Satibo though ;
I find Viagra helps a lot; I know the idea is to cum together, however, even though you may cum earlier than the Mrs, the erection does not go away and is still stiff to continue bringing her to climax. Is this cheating???

27 Nov 2005

So what's all this pre-occupation with physical technique, attributes and stamina. That's the way this sort of discussion always seems to go. All of that is purely incidental and quite frankly anyone can be turned on by a short sharp session one day and a long, drawn out lovemaking session the next - so there is no one rule on that score.
The only one rule is you've got to want to make love to her with your mind. You've got to want to make her soul shiver. She can see it in your eyes as you look deep into hers - there is no real hiding place. If you have that, the rest will follow naturally, whatever it is.
Helps if she wants you in the same way of course. wink