accepting ugly people

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Steve

*borrows nola's reinforced high horse and rides obesely away from the thread*

Hey.......can I have a go on that horse (not like that you bunch of dirty minded sods :lol2: ) I have been told by my doctor I am clinically obese :-]
If your Doctor and not your mirror tells you Steve, then you ain't obese - just pleasantly plump! lol

11 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
I got called homphobic the other day
:P

:laughabove:
Thats some of my bottle of beer all over the monitor now
is beer allowed on the atkins???
No but spirits are wink

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Steve

*borrows nola's reinforced high horse and rides obesely away from the thread*

Hey.......can I have a go on that horse (not like that you bunch of dirty minded sods :lol2: ) I have been told by my doctor I am clinically obese :-]
Sure Steve - as long as I get to keep the boots and the crop cool

11 Oct 2009

Quote by noladreams
If your Doctor and not your mirror tells you Steve, then you ain't obese - just pleasantly plump!

Sadly my miror tells me a similar story :lol2:
kiss

11 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
posh kate you say...

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11 Oct 2009

Quote by TheLovelyOne
Sure Steve - as long as I get to keep the boots and the crop

Oh I insist you keep those :rascal:

11 Oct 2009

Quote by Sassy-Seren
posh kate you say...

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I'm not sure if I should be concerned! :?

11 Oct 2009

Quote by poshkate
posh kate you say...

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I'm not sure if I should be concerned! :?
I was questioning what exactly he meant by that. Let's see if he's got the balls to follow up :dry:

11 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
i think all people would agree that obese is not a good look.
how many here hand on their heart would choose an obese person (not cuvy, obese) over a "normal" weight person?
whenever i see very obese women in a club/spa surrounded by men, i look at the men and think "so hats what you feel you can achieve".

How dare you?
What gives you the right?
I dont think this is an opinion its downright bigotry, not only aimed at us bbw`s but for the guys who apreciate us and take us for who we are regardless.
Let me tell you those guys are worth a thousand of someone like you.
I`m completly insenced and overwhelmed that someone can write such words on a site like this which has such varying degrees of people and cultures and tastes.

11 Oct 2009

Quote by BIoke
I'm not that sensitive and/or always the most subtle of people I guess to don't see these things in the same way as some others
:P

For a minute thenI thought we were related
but then I have no gorillas in my family....... :mrgreen:

12 Oct 2009

I remember posting a topic "is there a place for single guys on this site," I did it through lack of knowledge about this place as I had only been on a week,what i did not do was continue to dig a hole for myself which it seems Brucie is determined to do,I do wonder if he is just doing this to provoke more responses by upping the anti by being increasingly insulting to what he deems as ugliness, have you ever slept with an overweight gal Brucie? not that you will on this site but should the chance ever arise I would suggest you do, not only will have one of the shags of your life you will also find that beneath that so called ugliness you will find a real sweetheart....well i did anyway.. :happy:

12 Oct 2009

Quote by flower411
posh kate you say...

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I'm not sure if I should be concerned! :?
I was questioning what exactly he meant by that. Let's see if he's got the balls to follow up :dry:
Surely he was refering to this ...

Quote by Bloke
Brucie, I think you're a really handsome man, do you fancy a shag with me and PoshKate? (she suggested it on another thread).

I sure hope so. Thanks for enlightening me flower kiss

12 Oct 2009

Quote by Sandybeach1
i think all people would agree that obese is not a good look.
how many here hand on their heart would choose an obese person (not cuvy, obese) over a "normal" weight person?
whenever i see very obese women in a club/spa surrounded by men, i look at the men and think "so hats what you feel you can achieve".

How dare you?
What gives you the right?
I dont think this is an opinion its downright bigotry, not only aimed at us bbw`s but for the guys who apreciate us and take us for who we are regardless.
Let me tell you those guys are worth a thousand of someone like you.
I`m completly insenced and overwhelmed that someone can write such words on a site like this which has such varying degrees of people and cultures and tastes.
Well said Sandybeach. So, Brucie -- what makes you so perfect? lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
firstly, yes i have balls.
secondly, im not perfect. i could line up women who think im a cunt all around my office block and next to them a line of women just as long who think the sun shines out of my arse. what i am is conventionaly handsome and when i want could charm the arse off a nun. or the priest.
as for how dare i etc, i dare what i like. it is my opinion. yes i have slept with a very overweight girl and i found it unappealing. again, im not talking size 14-16 im talking very fat. do i not have the right to haev my own tastes? i am no more a bigot that the man who chooses fat girls (according to you, as i (as you know) dont believe its really a choice rather a compromise).
i'll ask teh question again. any guy on here willing to admit that in a club for example, invited to play by a pretty size10 and a pretty size 24 he'll choose the size 24?
the single guy question is interested too. what is teh definition of swinging? surely its essence involves swapping partners? single guys arent really swingers, they are just men looking for a shag. nothing wrong with that, its just not swinging.
as we all know most single men will stick their cock in a hole in the floor if thats all thats available so i dont buy the "lifestyle" crap about single men.
ive seen it enough times in places liek rio's where straight singel men will happily suck each other off when there are no women around.
any holes a goal guys.

there are a hell of a lot that would actually.....i know many guys who dont like slimmer women for reasons like ...and I quote "its like fucking a bloke"
without blowing my own trumpet, because im sure, in fcat I know there are a gazillion and one cuddly, curvy, bbw, chubby, rubenesque, fat and obese women on here who have had, and do have guys queueing round the block to shag them.....and its not a rare thing either.
its not a one off or a stroke of luck for us 'fat' birds to get a shag, neither are we greatful when we do, and neither do i feel sorry for the poor guy whos shagging anyone of us, because we are all he could get, and are in some way are the 'short straw'
different strokes for different folks, we all prefer who we prefer....weather thats looks, personality, stature, shape, size, body modificaions or whatever.
all well and good you saying its 'not your thing' to shag a bigger woman, but dont equally assume that its the thin end of the wedge for everyone to do it as a last resort and as a slightly more appealing alternative to a 'hole in the floor'

12 Oct 2009

I'm appalled that this has been allowed to go on.
Kenty, Flower & Co have been responsible for outrages on the site for years and they get roundly vilified - and sometimes action is taken against them - for talking politics.
Slag off a cross-section of the membership instead of a political party and it seems it is fair game, motivational and worthy of comment.

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
thats your opinion. i dont buy it. people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.
ive sat in the pub with the blokes who shag the fat bird and ive heard what they say. sure its partly bravado for their mates, but it also shows that given the choice they would prefer some arm candy.
i cant believe were arguing about this.
im not suggesting its right, but society is conditioned to what is aesthetic beauty.
again im not saying some blokes dont find a curvy girl sexier than a skinny girl. fuck, i think sophie dahl is 10 times more of a woman than kate moss. whereas beth ditto is just off putting. great singer though.

oh darlin....what a poor misguided soul you are....and quite an amusing one too lol

i dont NEED to try and make myself feel better, im happy with who I am, and couldnt give a rats ass if people see me as fat, cuddly, gorgeous or plain old eye meltingly abhorrent. Im happy with who I am both inside and out....simple as.
Like i say we all have preferences....personally I cant stand facial hair of any kind on a guy, but wouldnt dream of coming on here and making a sweeping statement like....ewww anyone with facial hair is unhygienic or is shifty and must have summat to hide!
meanwhile, i am so glad that i have kids as young as 6 who are far more non judgemental, tolerant and accepting of people than you appear to be, sweetheart.

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
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the single guy question is interested too. what is teh definition of swinging? surely its essence involves swapping partners? single guys arent really swingers, they are just men looking for a shag. nothing wrong with that, its just not swinging.

wow!!! that is a whole new can of worms that you have opened up...I didn't think you could dig the hole any deeper... but i have been proved wrong!
okay.... now someone has to ask the obvious question...so why are you on a swingers site as a single guy if you believe that it is not swinging???

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
firstly, yes i have balls.
secondly, im not perfect. i could line up women who think im a cunt all around my office block and next to them a line of women just as long who think the sun shines out of my arse. what i am is conventionaly handsome and when i want could charm the arse off a nun. or the priest.
as for how dare i etc, i dare what i like. it is my opinion. yes i have slept with a very overweight girl and i found it unappealing. again, im not talking size 14-16 im talking very fat. do i not have the right to haev my own tastes? i am no more a bigot that the man who chooses fat girls (according to you, as i (as you know) dont believe its really a choice rather a compromise).
i'll ask teh question again. any guy on here willing to admit that in a club for example, invited to play by a pretty size10 and a pretty size 24 he'll choose the size 24?
the single guy question is interested too. what is teh definition of swinging? surely its essence involves swapping partners? single guys arent really swingers, they are just men looking for a shag. nothing wrong with that, its just not swinging.
as we all know most single men will stick their cock in a hole in the floor if thats all thats available so i dont buy the "lifestyle" crap about single men.
ive seen it enough times in places liek rio's where straight singel men will happily suck each other off when there are no women around.
any holes a goal guys.

Oh my, you were doing ok with this last tirade until that final statement rolleyes

It's obvious you see swinging as just another way to increase the notches on your bedpost and not a 'lifestyle' as the rest of us do. MOST people ( both single and part of a couple ) are here for the pleasure that swinging can offer and not just to see how many shags they can rack up.
Why not save your membership fee when it's due for renewal and join the weekend quick shag brigade? That way, you can choose from the young girlies on parade in the nightclubs without having to go through the trauma of coming into contact with us fat, ugly birds who infest the swingers clubs.

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
who exactly have i slagged off?

Take you pick

Quote by brucie
but i do think that the really ugly ones should be more discreet.
i can think of a couple of clubs i go to where certain regulars seem to wear their physical defects as a badge of honour. one chap with a massive bollock hernia who refuses to cover up. some very obese people who seem to be "happy in their skin". and all sortd of other aesthetically displeasing types......

We'll start with anyone who doesn't have to looks for a magazine cover, as they're obviously too ugly, then there are people with any sort of body defect...

Quote by brucie
maybe "people over 60 should have their genitals closed"?

Anyone over 60, so thats a fair proportion of the population

Quote by brucie
whats wrong with transvestites?......
alot with the ones in england who look like little britain characters.

Transvestites..unless they look like they can be on the magazine cover the uglies were rejected for

Quote by brucie
i think all people would agree that obese is not a good look.
how many here hand on their heart would choose an obese person (not cuvy, obese) over a "normal" weight person?
whenever i see very obese women in a club/spa surrounded by men, i look at the men and think "so hats what you feel you can achieve".

Lenny Henry....and any bloke who can manage to not be brainwashed by the media or what his friends think, and actually want to spend time with someone who makes him go 'grrrrrrrr :twisted::twisted::twisted:' whatever they look like- the basic instinct of evolution

Quote by brucie
people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.

12 Oct 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.
Meaty, you rock worship

12 Oct 2009

Quote by Sassy-Seren

people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.
Meaty, you rock worship

You still ain't getting any off me, you're far too fugly :haha:
kiss

12 Oct 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.
Meaty, you rock worship

You still ain't getting any off me, you're far too fugly :haha:
kiss

I'm old and fat too flipa

12 Oct 2009

Quote by Sassy-Seren

people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.
Meaty, you rock worship

You still ain't getting any off me, you're far too fugly :haha:
kiss

I'm old and fat too flipa

Could be worse, you could be Welsh rotflmao

12 Oct 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

people will convince themselves anything to feel better about themselves.

You've obviously convinced yourself you're better than everyone who doesn't meet the norrow band of women that fit a certain demographic you've labelled as acceptable. I've met numerous ladies who would would fit your 'standard' who've either had the personality of a dog turd or the same 'i'm so wonderful!' attitude you've displayed through your posts. There's nothing attractive about either of these traits and therefore this renders the person as ugly to me, although this is swinging, which is pretty much rooted in 'No strings Attached' sex, it doesn't mean i want to fuck an empty vessel or someone who is more interested in them than me.
Meaty, you rock worship

You still ain't getting any off me, you're far too fugly :haha:
kiss

I'm old and fat too flipa

Could be worse, you could be Welsh rotflmao

That's me fucked then...............or not as the case may be rolleyes

12 Oct 2009

Quote by Sassy-Seren
That's me fucked then...............or not as the case may be

It might help if you changed your knickers, you've had that pair up there on for bloody months :mrgreen:

12 Oct 2009

Quote by flower411

I'm appalled that this has been allowed to go on.
Kenty, Flower & Co have been responsible for outrages on the site for years and they get roundly vilified - and sometimes action is taken against them - for talking politics.
Slag off a cross-section of the membership instead of a political party and it seems it is fair game, motivational and worthy of comment.

OI !! Don`t bloody start on me !! :giggle:
biggrin

12 Oct 2009

Quote by meat2pleaseu

That's me fucked then...............or not as the case may be

It might help if you changed your knickers, you've had that pair up there on for bloody months :mrgreen:
Better? wink

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
posh kate you say...

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ive just had a look at her profile. not convinced shes that posh
And you can tell that just by reading a profile and a few posts? You're something else, you know that? :dry:

12 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
i wasnt refering to myself.

You obviously sacrificed some memory for those stunning good looks, charm and witt, so i've highlighted a few key words for you ;)

Quote by brucie
but I do think that the really ugly ones should be more discreet.
I can think of a couple of clubs i go to where certain regulars seem to wear their physical defects as a badge of honour. one chap with a massive bollock hernia who refuses to cover up. some very obese people who seem to be "happy in their skin". and all sortd of other aesthetically displeasing types......

Quote by brucie
I think all people would agree that obese is not a good look.

12 Oct 2009

Quote by Sassy-Seren

That's me fucked then...............or not as the case may be

It might help if you changed your knickers, you've had that pair up there on for bloody months :mrgreen:
Better? wink

can you pan the camera to the right a little bit? :rascal: