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Is cyber sex a good thing?

Yep - love it.... 0%
In certain circumstances, yes... 0%
Nope - It's a bit sad... 0%
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There seems to be a lot of parody cyber-sex posts at the moment (most of them laugh out loud funny!) but I was wondering if anybody really does practise this or what peoples views on it are? I've got two tales, the first was accidental, I got chatting to a girl a year or so back, instantly hit it off and we chatted into the early hours of the morning. By the end of the night, we got on to the subject of sex and turn ons, and eventually found that we were both masturbating, there was no cams or video and I didn't have a clue what she looked like, but I do remember having one of the most long, luxurious and best hand shandies of my life, before saying goodnight and retiring to bed, content. Upon waking the next morning, I instantly logged on to chat to her, and we were both so totally overwhelmed with the previous nights proceedings, it was strange, like we had connected. It's a shame that after a while we lost touch, but I do sometimes find myself wondering what it would have been like if we had met, or what the sex would have been like. In the second, much less successful tale, I found myself logging onto a chat site to find such activity, but found the whole process of arranging it cold, and too clinical. I guess that's a yes and a no from me, and I wouldn't go looking for it again, but I'd like to know what peoples opinion is. Over to you guys!
I must admit that I've participated in 3 cyber- sex ecounters with the same person and the outcome is quite similar in content to Loowis.
The most recent was one of the most erotic experiences of my life....sad?
Well it wasn't for me it was fantastic and I had a really strong orgasm.....we even called each other as we were on the verge of cumming.....
We have stayed in touch with the us both posing the question of whether we'll actually meet up to carry out the fantasy for real?
Strange I know..but the question was asked and I've given my answer...
Hope its not too strange
Cheers
When I regularly participated in mIRC chats (prior to my SH life) I regularly had cybersex .. absolutely adored it and found it a wonderful prelude to foreplay with DH in real life.
Used to spend a few hours cybering with a male (or female come to that) on Dalnet usually and then hit the floor with hubby for a good session ...
haven't participated recently perhaps I should reacquaint myself on mIRC ???
Calista xx
O M G!!
Me and a friend of mine made it our business to cyber the whole (very vanilla) forum we were on.
We nearly succeeded
Now I am married to one of our victims!
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Calista xx

Or
for the msn thing
Or even . . . . . .
call me xxxxxxxxxxx I'll chop your hands off if you put a number on!!
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Vix
Now I am married to one of our victims!

Nice one :thumbsup:
I changed my nick and cybered Morbius once ... bloody good he was too ..... then I giggled and he clicked that it was me ...
i wasn't in the best of books
hehehehehehehe
C x
Quote by Vix
the whole (very vanilla) forum

what does vanilla mean in this context? i'm guessing it means like, straight, proper, clean etc?
anyway. i've never cybered. i'm not so fast at typing with one hand. but if anyone wants to introduce me to this brave new world...
If female does fancy cybering sometime let me know.....I'm obviuosly not in the minority here smile
I'm on msn under a different name...
had cyber a few times but only with my ex girlfriend, it was good when i worked away to feel that sexual energy and tension. havnt tried it since or with any one im not in a relationship with but i wouldnt say know, even if its just out of curiosity...
Wow guys you've really surprised me! I expected a load of "sad" messages, but it seems your all so grown up and adult about it that it really is something to be enjoyed between two like minded adults. Okay we've established that it's a great thing, so who has the most embarassing cyber stories? Come on it can't be perfect all of the time!
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Wow guys you've really surprised me! I expected a load of "sad" messages, but it seems your all so grown up and adult about it that it really is something to be enjoyed between two like minded adults. Okay we've established that it's a great thing, so who has the most embarassing cyber stories? Come on it can't be perfect all of the time!

I've ben particpating in the quiz night in a room on mIRC and mistakenly typed a whole erotic "get's down on knees, wiggling her hips and playing with herself" type message in the main channel instead of in the preivate message redface surprisedops: thankfully most of the place did it themselvews at one time or another so although it was embarrasing it was ignored or laughed over LOL.
Best is to ask MorbiusUK about the time I tricked him .. :giggle:
Calista xx
Hehe. :twisted: How did you know that wasn't a quiz answer? confused
I'm not big on Cyber sex......rather have the real thing! wink
cyber sex can be good when you find the right, likeminded partner to do it with! Used to do this often when I was into the whole chatroom thing!
Its safe, and if you have a good imagination,...stimulating.
wink
Quote by Calista

Now I am married to one of our victims!

Nice one :thumbsup:
I changed my nick and cybered Morbius once ... bloody good he was too ..... then I giggled and he clicked that it was me ...
i wasn't in the best of books
smackbottom
It completely depends on the person, yes.
We've had cybersex before several times, and with other people, and it can either be great fun, or you sit there feeling stupid.
i (g) used to hate phone sex before i met R. Always felt a bit silly. Love it now. smile
Everyone should give it a shot. Get into some chatrooms and get nice and filthy. It's all about the imagination when all you've got is text to describe what's going on.
I have a friend who i have text sex with from time to time it great fun biggrin
We have never met and are very unlikely to as he at the other end of the uk but that doesnt matter.
I have done cybersex once or twice but for not a while.
Have never done phone sex but would like try it sometime with the right person wink
Carol
really all depends on the people involved..
two people who know how to drive each other wild.. will generally have a great time.. and it can certainly be worth it.
Quote by Ms Amber
cyber sex can be good when you find the right, likeminded partner to do it with! Used to do this often when I was into the whole chatroom thing!
Its safe, and if you have a good imagination,...stimulating.
wink

Absolutely agree with that. Once upon a blue moon ago used to frequent a site which went by the adult moniker of doctor and match or sumsuch. Met lots of interesting women in chat but mainly Stateside, which made meeting a touch impractical unless you are looking to boost your frequent flyer miles (take that how you wish!) Cyberer'd with a handful (no pun intended), including a couple of couples and mainly had good, er, clean? fun. Ultimate in safe sex anyhow!
I found that ladies really do tend to appreciate a guy with a good imagination and quick fingers (take that how you wish too). And probably best when one types and one reads and then swop. In the land of the one handed typist the one-eyed snake isn't king...
Amazing how you can connect with someone quite quickly if they are on the same wavelenght. The power of words can be very heady, and there can be an interplay of ideas and responses which is more real and personal than just reading erotic fiction or posts of someone else's encounters.
Doesn't replace or beat the real thing, but hey, somedays you fancy cheese on toast rather than a full roast (again, no pun...)
Al
When I first got online, when I was about 13ish I spent alot of time on Mirc, in the days before MSN messenger.. before ICQ even..
Used to recieve pics, and cyber with older women.. I can only assume it was older women, it could have been anyone for all I knew.. wouldnt have mattered though, at that point it was just about the words on the screen.
Didnt bother with it at all after that till I split up with my girlfriend years later and started chatting alot to a girl I met online..
I wouldnt say it was sad really.. got quite close to her and we ended up spending a weekend together, had some amazing sex.. and left it at that.. after the curiosity of what it would be like when we were finaly together had passed, we both lost interest.
Cybersex is the sensual equivalent of a frozen pizza . If any of you have had a really delicious experience of one , it must mean you either havent had a fresh properly made one for a very long time , or your experience is almost entirely Iceland based.
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Cybersex is the sensual equivalent of a frozen pizza . If any of you have had a really delicious experience of one , it must mean you either havent had a fresh properly made one for a very long time , or your experience is almost entirely Iceland based.

You know how it goes. 2am and you fancy a nibble of sommat. Gotta take whats in the cupboard...
Nothing wrong if you prefer getting your crust stuffed, but sounds like you didn't bother to read the wrapper and defrost thoroughly first.
wink
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No pun unturned huh ?

Well it is and I was busy raiding the freezer. Don't 'spose you fancy a slice?
lol
No thanks ive already eaten .Silk :-)
Quote by Aldeway
Cybersex is the sensual equivalent of a frozen pizza . If any of you have had a really delicious experience of one , it must mean you either havent had a fresh properly made one for a very long time , or your experience is almost entirely Iceland based.

You know how it goes. 2am and you fancy a nibble of sommat. Gotta take whats in the cupboard...
Nothing wrong if you prefer getting your crust stuffed, but sounds like you didn't bother to read the wrapper and defrost thoroughly first.
wink
Still always leaves ya with a taste of cardboard :wink:
Cyber is ok as a teasing build up to actually meeting the person but sorry guys and gals, if the real thing is good - "you just cant beat the real thing"
I use to be into cyber, but then I got bored. Even with broadband the video feed is interupted and interfers with the money shot. Anyway, if a bloke's gonna tug his todger I wanna be within touching distance thanks. :twisted:
In the night I have you come to me
A vision not quiet there
I wish to fall into your arms
And run my fingers through your hair
I wish to lean into your chest
To feel your kiss upon my brow
Ah, but comfort you've not come for
And emotions not allowed
So I admire your form across from me
As an artist does his prose
For you have come at my request
You're the one I chose
I chose you not for comfort
For me you need not care
You're like a stallion put out to stud
And I'm to be your mare
So when you come to me at night
A vision on my screen
I request that you remove your clothes
And let me watch you cream
With the body of Adonis
You're my secret fertility God
As moses did the waters part
So do my legs for your rod
It's mutual masturbation
Thanks to technology
A desire indulged and sated
Then hit the SHUT DOWN key
PS. If you're reading this hunni, God how long ago was that?! Who knew my personal masturbater would become such a good friend.
Hi Lovely peeps wave
Well I was sitting here feeling sorry for myself and wondering just what to do with myself for the next 10 days sad when I happened across this thread.
Now as some of you know Katie (my better half, wife, soul mate, mother of my kids and best lifelong friend :inlove: ) has gone off on hols and left me here to look after the boy.
All is going well and me and the lad are getting some real quality time in, biggrin but the nights are getting a little lonely :upset:
Katie and me had a good long chat before she left, and we agreed that it would be ok for me to chat to any of the lovely ladies on here, and even get a bit of cyber in if it was offered, as long as any meets coming out of it were arranged for when she gets back.:bounce: :bounce:
So, as this thread has shown that there are quite a few people on here that enjoy a bit of long distance passion,hump I would be most grateful, humble and appreciative worship for the company on what are turning out to be long lonely nights (finally dropped of at 5:00am this morning, cant seem to sleep without her in the bed)
Just a chat would be fine, cyber would just be a bonus, so if any of you gorgeous ladies on here fancy keeping a lonely guy company, my addies are as follows:
messenger …………… john45_sw_uk
MSM _sw_
Feel free to add :twisted: :twisted:
I should be online after 21:00 (9:00pm) and for the rest of the week, including daytimes.
If you regard cybersex as a form of interactive literature then, depending on how you feel about erotic stories, you might get something out of it provided you can both actually write with some skill and imagination. If you regard the exchange of describing (or demonstrating) sex acts as a stimulus to jack off, then it will serve as a good yardstick for your boredom threshold. If you regard it as a major part of your sex life, you probably need to get out more.