There seems to be a lot of parody cyber-sex posts at the moment (most of them laugh out loud funny!) but I was wondering if anybody really does practise this or what peoples views on it are? I've got two tales, the first was accidental, I got chatting to a girl a year or so back, instantly hit it off and we chatted into the early hours of the morning. By the end of the night, we got on to the subject of sex and turn ons, and eventually found that we were both masturbating, there was no cams or video and I didn't have a clue what she looked like, but I do remember having one of the most long, luxurious and best hand shandies of my life, before saying goodnight and retiring to bed, content. Upon waking the next morning, I instantly logged on to chat to her, and we were both so totally overwhelmed with the previous nights proceedings, it was strange, like we had connected. It's a shame that after a while we lost touch, but I do sometimes find myself wondering what it would have been like if we had met, or what the sex would have been like. In the second, much less successful tale, I found myself logging onto a chat site to find such activity, but found the whole process of arranging it cold, and too clinical. I guess that's a yes and a no from me, and I wouldn't go looking for it again, but I'd like to know what peoples opinion is. Over to you guys!
I must admit that I've participated in 3 cyber- sex ecounters with the same person and the outcome is quite similar in content to Loowis.
The most recent was one of the most erotic experiences of my life....sad?
Well it wasn't for me it was fantastic and I had a really strong orgasm.....we even called each other as we were on the verge of cumming.....
We have stayed in touch with the us both posing the question of whether we'll actually meet up to carry out the fantasy for real?
Strange I know..but the question was asked and I've given my answer...
Hope its not too strange
Cheers
When I regularly participated in mIRC chats (prior to my SH life) I regularly had cybersex .. absolutely adored it and found it a wonderful prelude to foreplay with DH in real life.
Used to spend a few hours cybering with a male (or female come to that) on Dalnet usually and then hit the floor with hubby for a good session ...
haven't participated recently perhaps I should reacquaint myself on mIRC ???
Calista xx
O M G!!
Me and a friend of mine made it our business to cyber the whole (very vanilla) forum we were on.
We nearly succeeded
Now I am married to one of our victims!
had cyber a few times but only with my ex girlfriend, it was good when i worked away to feel that sexual energy and tension. havnt tried it since or with any one im not in a relationship with but i wouldnt say know, even if its just out of curiosity...
Wow guys you've really surprised me! I expected a load of "sad" messages, but it seems your all so grown up and adult about it that it really is something to be enjoyed between two like minded adults. Okay we've established that it's a great thing, so who has the most embarassing cyber stories? Come on it can't be perfect all of the time!
really all depends on the people involved..
two people who know how to drive each other wild.. will generally have a great time.. and it can certainly be worth it.
When I first got online, when I was about 13ish I spent alot of time on Mirc, in the days before MSN messenger.. before ICQ even..
Used to recieve pics, and cyber with older women.. I can only assume it was older women, it could have been anyone for all I knew.. wouldnt have mattered though, at that point it was just about the words on the screen.
Didnt bother with it at all after that till I split up with my girlfriend years later and started chatting alot to a girl I met online..
I wouldnt say it was sad really.. got quite close to her and we ended up spending a weekend together, had some amazing sex.. and left it at that.. after the curiosity of what it would be like when we were finaly together had passed, we both lost interest.
Cybersex is the sensual equivalent of a frozen pizza . If any of you have had a really delicious experience of one , it must mean you either havent had a fresh properly made one for a very long time , or your experience is almost entirely Iceland based.
No thanks ive already eaten .Silk :-)
I use to be into cyber, but then I got bored. Even with broadband the video feed is interupted and interfers with the money shot. Anyway, if a bloke's gonna tug his todger I wanna be within touching distance thanks. :twisted:
In the night I have you come to me
A vision not quiet there
I wish to fall into your arms
And run my fingers through your hair
I wish to lean into your chest
To feel your kiss upon my brow
Ah, but comfort you've not come for
And emotions not allowed
So I admire your form across from me
As an artist does his prose
For you have come at my request
You're the one I chose
I chose you not for comfort
For me you need not care
You're like a stallion put out to stud
And I'm to be your mare
So when you come to me at night
A vision on my screen
I request that you remove your clothes
And let me watch you cream
With the body of Adonis
You're my secret fertility God
As moses did the waters part
So do my legs for your rod
It's mutual masturbation
Thanks to technology
A desire indulged and sated
Then hit the SHUT DOWN key
PS. If you're reading this hunni, God how long ago was that?! Who knew my personal masturbater would become such a good friend.
If you regard cybersex as a form of interactive literature then, depending on how you feel about erotic stories, you might get something out of it provided you can both actually write with some skill and imagination. If you regard the exchange of describing (or demonstrating) sex acts as a stimulus to jack off, then it will serve as a good yardstick for your boredom threshold. If you regard it as a major part of your sex life, you probably need to get out more.