Actually meeting via SH

Seems to us to be a bit of an anomaly. So either, there's something wrong with our profile OR SH users have a different attitude to another site we use that seems a lot more productive. Thoughts and comments appreciated.

You must be doing something wrong, there are plenty upon plenty of people meeting from here,  of course not all proposed trysts pan out, there are the inevitable window shoppers (aka timewasters) but here is no different to any other site for that...but essentially plenty on Swingingheaven appear to be hooking up and fucking each other (which is kinda the point)  

As for other sites, to counter the 'more productive'  just as much as people prefer across the road there are those that trap from across the road because they feel it's too harsh or too easy/sleazy or just a different calibre of swinger (make of that what you will)

PS: your profile reads well and you look great, it's not either of them thats not working for you.

it's not like swinging has a time limit. Maybe a little more effort networking needed. That and learn to like the chat rooms maybe but be wary of the keyboard warriors.

We're quite easy going so will keep persevering for now to find either little Miss or Mr & Mrs Right. 

Ty for the comment's xx 

I have found some wonderful lovers on here x

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it's not like swinging has a time limit. Maybe a little more effort networking needed. That and learn to like the chat rooms maybe but be wary of the keyboard warriors.
We're quite easy going so will keep persevering for now to find either little Miss or Mr & Mrs Right. 
Ty for the comment's xx 

 Using the chat room is useful. It's certainly a way to get yourself known and with that a certain degree of trust is built. Attending socials helps too, you get to meet those you otherwise wouldn't. Your profile is great, I would say unless your prepared to travel then staying local is pretty limiting. good luck xx

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Seems to us to be a bit of an anomaly. So either, there's something wrong with our profile OR SH users have a different attitude to another site we use that seems a lot more productive. Thoughts and comments appreciated.

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You can spend a lot of time building up trust with people who you think are genuine and then disappear, you have to be here for the long haul but its worth it.

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Seems to us to be a bit of an anomaly. So either, there's something wrong with our profile OR SH users have a different attitude to another site we use that seems a lot more productive. Thoughts and comments appreciated.

 

Have to say I agree with Cruise cats comments....     but you do have to work at it,  and create a rapport

In the three years I've been a member, I've met three couples here, all through conversations in the chatrooms.

There's another couple with whom I've had many pleasant conversations in th chatrooms who have wanted to meet me, but we've never been able to find a suitable time.

I have been on SH 14 years and had some good meets, two of them (bi-men) very enduring, and some casual meets with couples. Being able to accomodate helps. As others have said, be prepared for the long haul, and a few failures on the way. Happy hunting! xx