Advice - first timers | Swinging Heaven

11 Dec 2005

Hi everyone - we are impressed by the site and the sharing of information so we are looking for a bit of advice.
We want a first time 3-some experience and our immediate thought is to go to a masseur and pay for an additional service. This seems to take some risk out of meeting someone. Do people think this is a good idea? Has anyone used anyone that is particularly good? Any other ideas? Any help and tips would be most welcome. Thanks in advance.

11 Dec 2005

what kind of 3some? MMF or FFM

11 Dec 2005

Quote by Him'nHer
what kind of 3some? MMF or FFM

Also, what are you expecting... just a massage or what (not too specific mind you :doh: )

11 Dec 2005

We really just want some 'fun' after a massage with my husband mainly watching.

11 Dec 2005

Sorry, still not very clear.
I guess, it's female side of the couple with the masseuse, but are you expecting male or female masseuse confused

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Only trying to help here.

11 Dec 2005

Hi = Best advise we could give is don't rush in ..... Indeed swingers clubs are a really good way in. We went to a club several times - we looked, we saw, we.......... but over a period of time. Make sure you have your "rules" in place first, know what each of you want and what is a no no = All the best to you both. J&A

11 Dec 2005

im new to the forum but we wanted a 3sm and used the sh photo ads. that way u can vet the emails to a certain extent, specify what u want and then if u feel comfortable u can exchange numbers and meet u even just for a social drink. Its work on a number of occasions for us so good luck wink

12 Dec 2005

Hi - sorry I was trying to be subtle with my original post. We are looking for a male masseur. I was hoping others had started this way and had some advice.

12 Dec 2005

Well it's horses for courses, but for us we wouldn't bother with the male masseuse thing. If you were to be patient and hung around in here, got yourselves known, came to a munch or social, you'd soon meet people. We have found this is better cos we then know the person we are playing with. ( Yes we do MMF)
You can try the ads and yes they do work, but we found it too impersonal, as we like to be able to have a laugh as well as a shag.