Advice 4 a 1st timer

Quote by mysteryguy79
I was wondering if you guys had any advise for a first timer like myself on how to get into the scene. I am 24 and from warrington, i have a gf who doesnt/musnt know about it, I have been with a guy a few times but would love to meet either sexes on their own or a couple! So to be honest i am open to suggestions really!
Any Advise?
Phil