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any advice 4 some of us newbies looking to come onto the scene and may be a bit shy? redface
I guess don't be shy would be my first bit of advice, the animals in here don't bite unless you ask them too.
Welcome aboard.
John
smile
erm
have a few stiff drinks
get posting in the cafe
and join in with the giggles
wink
:therethere:
someone's bound to say it, so I'll do it: The Search Button Is Your Friend (on here). biggrin
you'll find a LOT of good information and advice from others on here, to questions other newbies asked.
join in the forum, best way to meet others and learn that it's not so scary.
Have fun, don't do anything either of you don't want to do, everyone has their own
learning curve and pace at which they are ready to try new things. Don't rush don't stress and all that good stuff that everyone else is bound to tell you.
happy swinging!!!
xxx
ms ocky (mr ocky too)
ello welshman smile
only advice i could give is . . . just hang fire, join in when you can, be patient, find out what and who turn you both on. when you're both ready, dive in, but not before. chatting on here till things click kinda works out ok for lots of us, and we've all bin there! ;)
:welcome: to SH! have fun. biggrin
neil x x x ;)
Hi i'm also a welsh guy new to this scene. I've been curious for so long, now I just can't keep it in any longer I just want to get involved. Most people on the forum (excpet the apparent timewasters), seem really friendly and nice and Ilook forward to hopefully getting to meet you all at events
bye for now
chris x
'ello. :arrow: this way to peace and tranquility.... like hell there is!
Now what did Morrisey of The Smiths sing about shyness?
Shyness is nice....
but shyness can stop you...
from doing all the things in life...
..you'd like to....
/Smiths
seems quite apt.
(and i didn't google that either! )
im a newbie and only arrived yesterday feeling abit :shock: but then i chilled out and started posting and reading and in no time i was like flipa now ive posted a few times and im like :rascal: but for the most part im just like :grin:
Hiya Welshman,
Is that a royal 'us' , or are you in here with a partner?
Either way, if you are looking to come on to the scene, it is likely that the first thing you will find is that it is a whole lot more diverse than you first thought. It is unlikely that you will want to partake of all the delights this place surrounds you with, so your first step really is to chill out a bit while you discover which bits turn you on. You may find you surprise yourself along the way.
lhk
Kat
Being one myself , thanks for the advice,respect, peace and love to all. smile :) :)
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thanx all
(it was a royal 'us')
redface worship
Does than mean that we can put 'By Royal Appointment' on the logo?
lhk
Kat
P.S. Say hello to Camilla for us - I hope you can persuade her to join in as well sometime.