advice for a newbie

5 Jul 2004

Hi to you all, i am very new to swinging, i have been dreaming for a long time, and now i am going ahead with my instinct, to explor my own sexual desires, i am going to visit a swingers club hear in the south west, can the experienced members of the fourum please let me have there advice - one there first experiences, thanks in advance
B

5 Jul 2004

ill bypass on this one ive never swung rolleyes

im just here for the beer
but hi anyway :twisted:

6 Jul 2004

hi thanks for the reply, its too early for a beer, but thanks for the welcome, hope to be chatting with yourself and your friends soon
B biggrin

6 Jul 2004

Hi Supreme, you do not say whether you are male or female, but there is a very good advice section which you can find by clicking on "advice" near the top of the menu on the left of the screen. I recommend you start there, though no doubt good advice will also appear here in this thread, especially if you can be more specific.
Mike.

6 Jul 2004

Hi mike thanks for the reply, I am a male mid 30's, very new to the scene, i have arranged to attend a swingers club on Friday night, very nevouse, but i have been thinking about it for a while now and have finally plucked up the "balls" to attend, and come on to the fourm.
I have seen your posts on hear a number of times, and would like to ask you, what do you feel from your experience the best way to approach my desires for swinging, what was your first time like??
B

6 Jul 2004

I really cannot add much to the advice which is already on this site, Supreme. I only went to a swingers' club for the first time about two years ago, but for several years before that I had met couples for threesomes via classified ads, meeting up in my/their own homes, so I did not feel like a total newbie at my first club visit. All you can do on your first visit is watch what happens, and not be overanxious to get involved in anything too soon. Pushiness will not get you anywhere at all - be patient, polite, chat with people, but be prepared for nothing to happen the first visit. Good luck.
Mike.

6 Jul 2004

thanks for the advice, that is what i want to happen, do not think i could do anything for quite a while, just learn and understand, ta ill keep you posted
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