Hi All
Any advice for new single girl?
Bit nervous about all this but excited as everyone seems quite friendly and respectful.
Anyway advice would be gratefully received!
Sx
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Advice for Single Girl
Just be yourself, and only do things YOU want to do dont let the guys pressure you in to meets or doing things once you have met unless you feel you want to.
One of the golden rules is no means NO
I would suggest hopefully one or 2 of the ladies might give you some safety advice via pm, maybe put a bit more info on your profile about you and what your looking for.
Having said all that :welcome: to the mad house hope you have lots of fun in here and out there :P
One of the golden rules is no means NO
I would suggest hopefully one or 2 of the ladies might give you some safety advice via pm, maybe put a bit more info on your profile about you and what your looking for.
Having said all that :welcome: to the mad house hope you have lots of fun in here and out there :P
Sex God
hi and welcome hun any help i can give i can be found in the nw room server 1 usualy lol
Sex God
Ok, my sage words of wisdom and advice are sealed in a very pretty little PM wrapped with a pink ribbon and a red flashing 'You have a PM' sign! ;)
Well, maybe not, but anyone who wants a copy of my PM then feel free to ask me.
LG. x
Well, maybe not, but anyone who wants a copy of my PM then feel free to ask me.
LG. x dont be pressured into anything.
When you go into a chatroom be prepared for lots of attention from single guys.
Never accept that anyone has the right to whisper to you in the chatroom before asking stand for it,your a person and have the right to be treated with respect.
Never freely give out someone asks for them see if they have any on their profile not, ask them why they are reasonable they will not have a problem sending a face pic the woman and a woman always has the right to say no.
Good meets work and some you play, you gamble and sometimes the cards dont flop on the table as you your unsure about someone always fold and wait for the next hand.
I can tell you that there are some really nice people here and of course some bad ever you go it will always be the same but remember to enjoy the experience and dont be put off to much if someone is rude or pushy.
All the best.
When you go into a chatroom be prepared for lots of attention from single guys.
Never accept that anyone has the right to whisper to you in the chatroom before asking stand for it,your a person and have the right to be treated with respect.
Never freely give out someone asks for them see if they have any on their profile not, ask them why they are reasonable they will not have a problem sending a face pic the woman and a woman always has the right to say no.
Good meets work and some you play, you gamble and sometimes the cards dont flop on the table as you your unsure about someone always fold and wait for the next hand.
I can tell you that there are some really nice people here and of course some bad ever you go it will always be the same but remember to enjoy the experience and dont be put off to much if someone is rude or pushy.
All the best.
Sex God
Just be yourself and don't do anything you don't want to. You're in the enviable position of not having anyone else to consider, so you do what you want.
If meeting for the first time, meet in a public place and make sure someone knows where you are and who with.
If meeting for the first time, meet in a public place and make sure someone knows where you are and who with.
Enjoy yourself! its a fun place to be.
One piece of advice id give is to fill in your profile as much as you can.
There are plenty of fakers on here, so filling in a little bit of info, and posting a pic of yourself would certainly help in getting folk to trust that you are who you say you are!
Personally we dont chat to anyone who hasnt got a pic of themselves in their profile! it is afterall the only way to prove your all woman! We have found that camera pics taken on the mirror usually dispel any talk of picture theft or fakes!
Enjoy yourself, and say hi if your ever in the kent rooms!
One piece of advice id give is to fill in your profile as much as you can.
There are plenty of fakers on here, so filling in a little bit of info, and posting a pic of yourself would certainly help in getting folk to trust that you are who you say you are!
Personally we dont chat to anyone who hasnt got a pic of themselves in their profile! it is afterall the only way to prove your all woman! We have found that camera pics taken on the mirror usually dispel any talk of picture theft or fakes!
Enjoy yourself, and say hi if your ever in the kent rooms!
If not, ask them why they are reasonable they will not have a problem sending a face pic first.Your the woman and a woman always has the right to say no.
Well, not to be funny, but I think even guys have the right to say no, dont you think or agree? :giggle:
You`ve been given many good advices, I can only add that if you should decide to meet someone, make sure you meet in a very pubblic place first, only and i mean only when and if you feel safe and ok, meet in a private environment, a while ago someone in another post said that when meet someone for first time, always text to a good friend the number plate of the car`s guy she will meet, well, i think this is a very good idea. For the rest, just be yourself and be safe all the times xxxxxx
Well, not to be funny, but I think even guys have the right to say no, dont you think or agree? :giggle:
You`ve been given many good advices, I can only add that if you should decide to meet someone, make sure you meet in a very pubblic place first, only and i mean only when and if you feel safe and ok, meet in a private environment, a while ago someone in another post said that when meet someone for first time, always text to a good friend the number plate of the car`s guy she will meet, well, i think this is a very good idea. For the rest, just be yourself and be safe all the times xxxxxx
Quote by Sassyk
Hi All
Any advice for new single girl?
Bit nervous about all this but excited as everyone seems quite friendly and respectful.
Anyway advice would be gratefully received!
Sx
Hi sassy and welcome to Sh,
Just to echo what has already been said in that take it at your own pace. Dont feel pressured in to anything just for the sake of experiencing it.
Also if your interested, there are many Socials and Munches where people get together in a no pressure environment to meet up, have a drink or three and get to know each other.
As your not too far from me and I do meet as a single too, id be more than willing to accompany you ( as a friend) to any social that im attending. Good luck. Have lots of fun.
Louise xx
Sex God
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hi and welcome hun any help i can give i can be found in the nw room server 1 usualy lol
Quote by little gem
Ok, my sage words of wisdom and advice are sealed in a very pretty little PM wrapped with a pink ribbon and a red flashing 'You have a PM' sign! ;)
Well, maybe not, but anyone who wants a copy of my PM then feel free to ask me.
My advice, take what these two say and do the opposite. Definitely not good influences. :giggle:
OK my advice;...
* get chatting to folks in here and get yourself to a Munch or a social.
* always let someone know who you are meeting, where and when you plan to be back.
* trust your instincts, but listen to the mates you will make on this site if you stay. Sometimes they may see things that you don't.
* flirt like a woman possessed and have as much fun as possible. :D
* PM me your picse/phone number/A&L and I'll try to help as much as I can :rascal: :grin: :lol2: :giggle:
Sex God
Quote by easy
hi and welcome hun any help i can give i can be found in the nw room server 1 usualy lol
Quote by little gem
Ok, my sage words of wisdom and advice are sealed in a very pretty little PM wrapped with a pink ribbon and a red flashing 'You have a PM' sign! ;)
Well, maybe not, but anyone who wants a copy of my PM then feel free to ask me.
My advice, take what these two say and do the opposite. Definitely not good influences. :giggle:
OK my advice;...
* get chatting to folks in here and get yourself to a Munch or a social.
* always let someone know who you are meeting, where and when you plan to be back.
* trust your instincts, but listen to the mates you will make on this site if you stay. Sometimes they may see things that you don't.
* flirt like a woman possessed and have as much fun as possible. :D
* PM me your picse/phone number/A&L and I'll try to help as much as I can :rascal: :grin: :lol2: :giggle:
yes u had better run easy hun ...... but u aint fast enuff for me pmsl
:twisted: Quote by Sassyk
Hi All
Any advice for new single girl?
Bit nervous about all this but excited as everyone seems quite friendly and respectful.
Anyway advice would be gratefully received!
Sx
Become bi then hunt for an id Shaz_n_Tony
Seriously though there is some good advice here
Just be yourself, stick to your guns and use a little common sense with your safety and you will be fine
Tony
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Welcome to Swinging heaven :D
Sex God
Hi and welcome 
As once a single female on this site,
Just remember do what you want to do, and don't be afraid to delete all the unwanted pm's you are likely to get!!
If you need a safe number to call, you are welcome to call me, but please pm me your number, don't put it in the forum.
DOn't send easy any pm's ashe just wants to perv!! :lol:
Above all have fun.
As once a single female on this site,
Just remember do what you want to do, and don't be afraid to delete all the unwanted pm's you are likely to get!!
If you need a safe number to call, you are welcome to call me, but please pm me your number, don't put it in the forum.
DOn't send easy any pm's ashe just wants to perv!! :lol:
Above all have fun.
, and as I am new to all this lark trying to identify who the fakers or are not. Sex God
Quote by easy
My advice, take what these two say and do the opposite. Definitely not good influences. :giggle:
Just you wait!
*waves rolling pin in the air*Thats the last time I'm helping you out with Munch organising
*huffs* 
My advice was very good I'll have you know... although, quite waffley.... (stop sniggering at the back. :? I never waffle.
Honest! 
)Easy, I disagree with listening to other peoples opinions whole heartedly because some people say things with an axe to grind, for whatever reason. Not all people's intentions are contrite.
Sassyk, the hardest thing to do is work out who is genuine and who is leading you a merry dance. Trial and error that bit I'm afraid to say, but trust your gut instincts, mine has rarely been wrong.
LG. x Hiya Sassyk :welcome: to the forums :bounce:
I along with the fantasic info you will get from this lot please be aware of the chat rooms!
especially when you get some numpty single male who tells you how far away he is & he can be there in five mins bangin yer bones
:rascal: Well Hello Neighbor! :rascal:
I along with the fantasic info you will get from this lot please be aware of the chat rooms!
especially when you get some numpty single male who tells you how far away he is & he can be there in five mins bangin yer bones
:rascal: Well Hello Neighbor! :rascal:
